Took a different approach to shoot my shot with this chick I've been digging for a while now. I refused to get in those DM's or Inbox. She's coming up on her 1 year anniversary of having her own business and is throwing a party, This move is either stupid or brilliant 
Brilliant, you miss all them shots you don't take.
Brehs.......I think I fukked up
So about an hour ago I was at the train station waiting for the train like usual after work with my buds in likeposted on the wall. Bunch of women walk by but that's the usual so I don't think much about it, I just enjoy the view
but a shade lighter and was rocking this.jpg)
. She sits down on the platform bench and starts talking to this girl about her ticket. About 15 mins later she gets her stuff, walks over to me and puts her stuff down. Inside i'm like
because this shyt has never happened before, so I'm expecting her to say something but she just posts on the wall messing with her phone. 5 minutes go bye then she says in an Dominican or Island accent (
I swear brehs I thought she was one of those hood East Oakland light bright broads) "So are you riding the train", "Yeah, what's up", "I just wanted to know if I have to buy another later on", "Naw, you're good, just stay in the zones and don't pass the time", "Are you sure, because I was about to buy another ticket", "
that would've been an mistake", "Ok, just making sure lol". I put my buds in and start messing with my phone. 15 mins later the train starts approaching and ask we're walking towards it, she says "My days off are always crazy" then looks my way and does the
. I fumbled my response and couldn't think of nothing to say
but there was still hope
I followed her to the train cart she was sitting in and there was a seat on the opposite side of her open
I had to think quick....
but I let my nerves get to me and walk pass to a seat like 3 rows back
I need to take a class or some shyt brehs. I passed what looked like an open lay up
I'm ashamed brehs
this is definite fact. single for near 5 years. after my last relationship i almost went back to an ex. and realized shes an ex for a reason. i felt like i was becoming a domesticated housecat when i almost went back. it looked dumber than a lion with a pet collar on. i was unhappy. and i wanted to see whats out there. ive been out of the loop with dating for a while. but im not pessimistic at all. i believe that out of the 3 billion women on this earth that theres hundreds that want me. it may not happen today or tomorrow, but theres hope. i just have to complete myself first.
[QUOTE="Black Jesus, post: 17920012, member: 472"]Dealing with a recently divorced woman and seeing the few things that doesn't have her maiden name...80% of things have been changed, but still annoying.
We were out downtown and a random nikka nods us in the car driving by. She looks startled and says that looks like her ex-husband. I say..."and?"Later that night I told her don't bring that shyt up...she says she's afraid of him and I looks at her and tell her that's insulting to the man you're with about his protection skills to be afraid of another nikka...
She starts to rant about how he was verbally abusive and she doesn't want to talk about him again. First time she's brought him up and she's been divorced for slightly less than 2 years, but still....
Everytime me and my girl get into it...she'll eventually asks for us to stop talking about the issue and I press the convo to get the shyt resolved. Who's in the wrong?
[/QUOTE]definitely. ex had my number and tried to check up on me but i kept it minimal while she sent walls of messages. i just didnt care anymore. i was free. happy. i needed to be by myself. im glad i took a good look at myself and cut the chains.
