Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Goatganda the pearl of Africa
Don't limit yourself to one area breh


Is there any hope for decent men out there? Why are women of today so hung up dating lames? Is it cause they need something to talk about? They want that thug passion? I don't get it....


and I don't feel like I should change myself to try to attract someone.
 

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Live your own life
Every guy goes through the struggle and highs of dating breh. Your time will come breh, but make sure other areas of your life are always handled, career, money, self improvement etc. Dont slack in those areas because of females. Females will come and go but your bills gotta be paid every month!!!
100% truth
 

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Im trying to self improve and get some work. I wasted too much time chasing women when my priorities were fukked up
Now that you realize this, it's time to make life into what you want it to be, not what society says it should be. We are lied to in so many ways, it's mind blowing yet unsurprising at the same time. You don't need a house, car, family, money to be successful. "Success" is what you personally deem important. The items I mentioned are all man-made ideals for success...

My point is look inward for all answers. Worship yourself, believe in yourself. Once you shift your thought process towards this you will become a whole new person. You know what the best part of what I'm talking about is? It takes extremely little effort (imo). There are so many things you are capable of, it's just a matter of taking the time to find out what they are.
 

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Now that you realize this, it's time to make life into what you want it to be, not what society says it should be. We are lied to in so many ways, it's mind blowing yet unsurprising at the same time. You don't need a house, car, family, money to be successful. "Success" is what you personally deem important. The items I mentioned are all man-made ideals for success...

My point is look inward for all answers. Worship yourself, believe in yourself. Once you shift your thought process towards this you will become a whole new person. You know what the best part of what I'm talking about is? It takes extremely little effort (imo). There are so many things you are capable of, it's just a matter of taking the time to find out what they are.
i feel like im starting to change things. i feel much better about myself. its just about getting in shape from here and focusing on my schoolwork
 

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I could probably write a short book on everything that's gone on with this relationship. But back in 2015 she cheated and but told me months later so a few days after she told me I did the same thing but she found out when she went through my phone and saw some text messages of me asking my friend ( the one that lives in Miami) should I step outside my relationship. He just told me to be careful if you do. She said she wanted me to wait until the trust is repaired in our relationship before I start putting myself in compromising situations. Idk how long it will take for her to trust me again but at this point it been months since I seen my friends or gone out just to show her that something like that won't happen again. What's crazy is when I told her that I was going on this trip, she decided to go out of town with her friends this weekend and the guy she cheated on me with is in the same city as them. I've just been sitting in the crib pissed off at this whole sitiation.

This is my first real long term relationship so it's been damn near impossible for me to let her go.
:dwillhuh: everything good?
 

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I be :russ: at these broads who want to spend their prime trying to convert a d boy, rude boy, thugged out cat, player, or Nikka with clear confidence into their own science project. But when it blows up in their faces they wanna shyt on all black men or go gay or date CACS when we know it's them.
 

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After 7 years.....my wife decided to leave me brehs....

Said she hasn't been happy in awhile and that she's emotionally checked out of the relationship....

I'm fukked up in the head brehs.....

:to:

happens to all of us breh. have you been noticing signs but hoping for the best ?:mjcry:

my girl isn't talking to me since i didn't want her to sleep over on saturday. after all this drama im ready to be single :ehh: they snap over the smallest shyt and become childish. :scust:
 

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happens to all of us breh. have you been noticing signs but hoping for the best ?:mjcry:

my girl isn't talking to me since i didn't want her to sleep over on saturday. after all this drama im ready to be single :ehh: they snap over the smallest shyt and become childish. :scust:

I noticed so I tried to fix it. Asked her was she happy and she said "No."

Told me why and I was like okay...I'll do better.

But apart of me, based on our conversation that night, told me she had already checked out.

I really want this to work tho brehs....

But I'm fighting by myself....fighting a losing battle.
 
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