Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I can't ever see myself being with just one woman forever. My eyes wander easily and there are so many chicks out here :wow:
 

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i have the same issue. I find it that whenever i'm too humorous, women don't take me serious. :sadcam:I guess its about finding the right balance. Not too serious and not too funny. You know those moments where you're cocky and funny at the same time and the girl just laughs and loves it....that's the best kind of humour to have when it comes to women.

btw, any luck with that eritean broad?
That's actually kinda what I'm referring to. She seems a bit uptight and got me feeling like a nuisance.

Ignored my message yesterday. Supposed to grab coffee today but if she doesn't message me fukk it.
 
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That's actually kinda what I'm referring to. She seems a bit uptight and got me feeling like a nuisance.

Ignored my message yesterday. Supposed to grab coffee today but if she doesn't message me fukk it.

What happened to that Brazillian broad? Did the lunch thing lead to anything or is it a no go.
 

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What happened to that Brazillian broad? Did the lunch thing lead to anything or is it a no go.
hmmm....after lunch she was running game on me. Telling me how cute i am, saying i'm her valentine and shyt.
i was tryna link up with her a while after but i noticed she was doing that shyt where shell see a message and not reply only for me to see her active on whatsapp . so i called her out on it and chalked it up
when she has time she can hit a nikka up but i aint pressin her. zone defense on my end.

its almost summer so i havent completely cut her off though...tryna see what that ass look like in some shorts. she's bad for a 30 year old.

as for the eritrean ting, @RealAssanova she messaged me today saying she might not be able to make it for coffee cause she got scheduled for an all day meeting. she's a lawyer so i aint gonna sweat it. but again...zone defense.

The nigerian chick has been benched indefinitely (thats a story i might drop later. she has some childish views regarding courting), but theres this ghanaian chick with a fat ass i bagged recently so ima see whats good with her
 
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hmmm....after lunch she was running game on me. Telling me how cute i am, saying i'm her valentine and shyt.
i was tryna link up with her a while after but i noticed she was doing that shyt where shell see a message and not reply only for me to see her active on whatsapp . so i called her out on it and chalked it up
when she has time she can hit a nikka up but i aint pressin her. zone defense on my end.

its almost summer so i havent completely cut her off though...tryna see what that ass look like in some shorts. she's bad for a 30 year old.

as for the eritrean ting, @RealAssanova she messaged me today saying she might not be able to make it for coffee cause she got scheduled for an all day meeting. she's a lawyer so i aint gonna sweat it. but again...zone defense.

The nigerian chick has been benched indefinitely (thats a story i might drop later. she has some childish views regarding courting), but theres this ghanaian chick with a fat ass i bagged recently so ima see whats good with her

I could tell a similar story with regard to the chicks I'm trying to bag right now. I got friendzoned in the most ridiculous, hilarious way by the chick I was talking to a while back. I might drop the story later today.

But you guys were right, I should have disengaged a lot sooner.
 

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Man I wasted so much money in my 20s on women I was dating or in relationships with when I knew they weren't going anywhere. Been single for like a year which is the longest in almost a decade and I'm saving so much money. I can only imagine where I would have been if I was wiser back then
 
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Man I wasted so much money in my 20s on women I was dating or in relationships with when I knew they weren't going anywhere. Been single for like a year which is the longest in almost a decade and I'm saving so much money. I can only imagine where I would have been if I was wiser back then

I'm in my early 20s and already I see the light after pissing away my money the last couple of months trying to chase chicks and keep up with my friends spending habits. eff that. i just wanna save up, invest, retire early, and live a simple life where i don't have to capitulate to anybody's demands or timetable.
 

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I'm in my early 20s and already I see the light after pissing away my money the last couple of months trying to chase chicks and keep up with my friends spending habits. eff that. i just wanna save up, invest, retire early, and live a simple life where i don't have to capitulate to anybody's demands or timetable.


I feel you in every other facet of my life I'm a cheapskate with my money but when I was in my 20s I was constantly spending money with no return. I remember I help this 1 gf pay for her surgery...I gave her like $600 and not even 2 months after her surgery she ended it with me and mind you we had only been together like 8 months. She had parents and siblings that was there responsibility not mine she wasn't wifey
 
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I feel you in every other facet of my life I'm a cheapskate with my money but when I was in my 20s I was constantly spending money with no return. I remember I help this 1 gf pay for her surgery...I gave her like $600 and not even 2 months after her surgery she ended it with me and mind you we had only been together like 8 months. She had parents and siblings that was there responsibility not mine she wasn't wifey

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some people are fukkin heartless

But at least you put a lid on the spending breh. Like I said in a previous post - it is TOUGH to restrain yourself, especially when your friends and bytches expect you to be on some ..

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Gotta cut your friends out. You will feel like your missing out now but you will thank yourself in the long run.
 
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