Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Brehs...what is your advice on younger dudes talking to older women.
Lets say a breh is 24 and a woman is 31...and is saying youre too young for her and all that. Do you cut your losses and keep it moving or stay persistent in tryna smash

 

[AB Ziggy]

Ex from a year ago texted me out the blue...

"Well I was just seeing how you were."

They what they all do. The same "I just wanna see how you're doing. You seeing anyone, etc"

Then you send a reply of how good life's been for you, you got a new chick and she suddenly ignores your future texts.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Brehs...what is your advice on younger dudes talking to older women.
Lets say a breh is 24 and a woman is 31...and is saying youre too young for her and all that. Do you cut your losses and keep it moving or stay persistent in tryna smash

Is this the chick you hit on at yonge/bloor station? What kinda vibes is she giving you? Playing hard to get? Or is she completely rebuffing you? More than likely she just likes the attention but would think twice about bedding you.

It really depends on how receptive the lady is, so you have to give us as much context as possible.

 

[TheIsleofMan]

The bytches that I've been aggressive with tend to always give me a good response. When I play it safe, bytches tend to give me the cold shoulder. I don't know if those bytches just don't like me or if it's because they don't think I like them . I'm just gonna start being aggressive with them all and see how that works (no big Ben).

Also, how often do you guys call/text bytches and how aggressive are you in your texts? I think that also may hurt me too (I hate texting and calling women).

And because I'm low level bipolar, this dating shyt can be a mess. None of my friends (the little I do have) can admit that they're crazy so I can't ask them how they wade through their thoughts to continuously conquer.

And I'll drop two gems occur often for me.

Someone is always watching. It may not be who you want, but someone more than likely wants you (especially if alcohol is involved and you're decent looking). bytches don't take accountability for anything and alcohol can be a good excuse for them.


And know the difference between a difficult bytch and a bytch who wants to be difficult with you. The first bytch is like that with everyone, the second bytch doesn't want you. Signs from the second bytch are more obvious than the first. You probably want to avoid both but there are definitely levels to being difficult.

 

[DAlbert]

Am I the only one who will not mess with ratchets? Quality in my area is terrrrribblee

 

[Alfred0Santana]

They what they all do. The same "I just wanna see how you're doing. You seeing anyone, etc"

Then you send a reply of how good life's been for you, you got a new chick and she suddenly ignores your future texts.

Just hit her with the "I'm good. Have a good day."

 

[TheIsleofMan]

And don't let these dudes tell you to cut chicks off who don't need to be cut off. I ignore chicks but I don't ever cut them off unless it's really bad. Just use them like they would use you. You'll never know what you'll need/want in the future.

 

[Ohene]

Is this the chick you hit on at yonge/bloor station? What kinda vibes is she giving you? Playing hard to get? Or is she completely rebuffing you? More than likely she just likes the attention but would think twice about bedding you.

It really depends on how receptive the lady is, so you have to give us as much context as possible.

Dundas lol
Went for coffee today. So not completely but it seemed like if I was even three years older I'd be in

 

[Alfred0Santana]

And don't let these dudes tell you to cut chicks off who don't need to be cut off. I ignore chicks but I don't ever cut them off unless it's really bad. Just use them like they would use you. You'll never know what you'll need/want in the future.

 

[RealAssanova]

Dundas lol
Went for coffee today. So not completely but it seemed like if I was even three years older I'd be in

the eritrean chick finally met up?

what's the problem? do you think she puttin up a wall or that she ain't really interested?

listen to your gut and if you think she genuinely ain't interested, toss her. NEver climb a mountain for a woman regardless of what her status is, looks, etc.

she already seems kinda apprehensive about the whole thing and while doing work to prove to her that you are beyond your age in terms of maturity is probably ideal, it prolly ain't worth it in the end.

remember, you don't wanna start off on the wrong foot and likin the girl more than she likes you.

 

[Mr210]

Fellas I hope you don't have toilet decorations:

What I mean by that there better not be a mat right in front of your toilet and you but not have a cover on your toilet lid

 

[360dagod]

Fellas I hope you don't have toilet decorations:

What I mean by that there better not be a mat right in front of your toilet and you but not have a cover on your toilet lid

 

[Mr210]

Hey I gotta say it my mother is always telling me I need to put a cover on my toilet lid, I told her people don't really do that anymore, I got a mat in front of my sink and then another in front of tub

 

[Deathstroke]

Yo anyone remember the name of that movie with the simp showing up at a party with flowers just to see his crush making out with some other guy and then he gets back in his car and starts crying and the movie ends??? Lmao that was mad sad. Someone posted it here before.

 

[Ohene]

the eritrean chick finally met up?

what's the problem? do you think she puttin up a wall or that she ain't really interested?

listen to your gut and if you think she genuinely ain't interested, toss her. NEver climb a mountain for a woman regardless of what her status is, looks, etc.

she already seems kinda apprehensive about the whole thing and while doing work to prove to her that you are beyond your age in terms of maturity is probably ideal, it prolly ain't worth it in the end.

remember, you don't wanna start off on the wrong foot and likin the girl more than she likes you.

real talk. cause thats pretty much it...she's cool and i could damn near tell that she is interested in me based on my demeanor/personality or whatever. It's just the apprehension about the age so while i aint gonna delete the number or some shyt like that i aint gonna actually pursue it. She even asked me what my age was again... It was like I'm her mind she was hoping I wasnt as young as she remembered me saying I was. I'm too lazy for that shyt and there are too many girls out here. i wonder if she got a sister though