Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A female classmate put me on to one of her friends. The friend is graduating in a couple weeks, so she's been busy.

We've only linked up one time last week but we were supposed to get together tomorrow. It also just happens to be cinco de mayo:ehh: anyway It was just going to be is going out somewhere for tacos and a couple drinks but these girls from my class want to go out to eat for cinco de mayo too. The girls have been pressing me to go but idk if I'm fckin myself up bringing the girl I'm trying to talk to with this food outing with these other classmates..it'll be the first time me and ol girl have been "out" for real and to be honest I wanted to try her up at the end of the night. I just moved into a 1 bedroom:blessed:

This will be the last time I can see my classmates until August (not like I'm close with them, but still:dame:) but it's also the first time me and ol girl will go out and Shii so I kinda wanted it to be exclusive:francis:bear in mind the girl who set us up will be there too it's not like these classmates don't know the girl I would be bringing
 

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that's being delusional. at some point ur going to find yourself liking her way more than she likes u, and that's when u get fuccked. sounds to me like ur already getting too deep or at least taking steps towards a depth u wont be able to easily crawl out of. be warned.


I know I like her way more so I'm falling back. I got other ladies I'm dating and speaking to so I'm not sweating it. I know how the game is played.
 

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A female classmate put me on to one of her friends. The friend is graduating in a couple weeks, so she's been busy.

We've only linked up one time last week but we were supposed to get together tomorrow. It also just happens to be cinco de mayo:ehh: anyway It was just going to be is going out somewhere for tacos and a couple drinks but these girls from my class want to go out to eat for cinco de mayo too. The girls have been pressing me to go but idk if I'm fckin myself up bringing the girl I'm trying to talk to with this food outing with these other classmates..it'll be the first time me and ol girl have been "out" for real and to be honest I wanted to try her up at the end of the night. I just moved into a 1 bedroom:blessed:

This will be the last time I can see my classmates until August (not like I'm close with them, but still:dame:) but it's also the first time me and ol girl will go out and Shii so I kinda wanted it to be exclusive:francis:bear in mind the girl who set us up will be there too it's not like these classmates don't know the girl I would be bringing
I wouldn't take her personally.


Bring another female friend
 

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I know I like her way more so I'm falling back. I got other ladies I'm dating and speaking to so I'm not sweating it. I know how the game is played.

I did the same recently with a lady I was diggin. We had a certain energy but I'm feeling her way more than she feels me. I recognized that, put the ball in her court and she made the decision easier for me. Such is life. At least I have a semi rotation going on so I'm not out here in my feels and shyt.

:yeshrug:
 

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Wellllll, me n my ex fukked all night lol. But I aint say no simp shyt like are we back togethet now or w/e. Just gonna treat her like another chick in the rotation and make her earn her title if I want that. Almost got a starting five :blessed: got a broad cooking me a steak dinner on sunday :blessed:

@TRUEST that nikka corey wayne deserves a nobel peace :wow:
 

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I wouldn't take her personally.


Bring another female friend

But I've been trying to spend time with this girl but our schedules have been busy:jbhmm:tonight both of us are free. It just so happens these females are class (all friends, if even that. More like associates) wanted to hangout for the end of the semester.
 

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Well, I had to break it off with that pawg I was messing wtih. I fukked her last time and then we called it off. A few weeks later, she gets a hold of me again, and we starting having talks of hanging out. We were suppose to hang out this weekend, and I was down for it... but, I just don't have it in me to date a female right now, especaillly after coming out of a 15 year marriage - which is understandable. I just want to fukk chicks and not have any emotional attachment to them. fukk
 

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Well, I had to break it off with that pawg I was messing wtih. I fukked her last time and then we called it off. A few weeks later, she gets a hold of me again, and we starting having talks of hanging out. We were suppose to hang out this weekend, and I was down for it... but, I just don't have it in me to date a female right now, especaillly after coming out of a 15 year marriage - which is understandable. I just want to fukk chicks and not have any emotional attachment to them. fukk

15 yr marriage :damn: :mjcry:

That be the last thing on my mind to date
Hell even fukking be a struggle especially if it ended in a certain way I be just trying to get myself in the right state of mind and move on after that I be on my fukk phase
Date wise I don't know breh I have a hard time trusting women period as it is and I'm married
Even so I wouldn't want too marry again Dating be the best they could get out of me if it happened too me or :camby:
 

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15 yr marriage :damn: :mjcry:

That be the last thing on my mind to date
Hell even fukking be a struggle especially if it ended in a certain way I be just trying to get myself in the right state of mind and move on after that I be on my fukk phase
Date wise I don't know breh I have a hard time trusting women period as it is and I'm married
Even so I wouldn't want too marry again Dating be the best they could get out of me if it happened too me or :camby:


yeah, there's a 99% chance I will never get a married again. I'm not going throught hat bullshyt EVER again.

We can be life partners, but that marriage shyt is a wrap for me.
 

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15 yr marriage :damn: :mjcry:

That be the last thing on my mind to date
Hell even fukking be a struggle especially if it ended in a certain way I be just trying to get myself in the right state of mind and move on after that I be on my fukk phase
Date wise I don't know breh I have a hard time trusting women period as it is and I'm married
Even so I wouldn't want too marry again Dating be the best they could get out of me if it happened too me or :camby:


yeah, there's a 99% chance I will never get a married again. I'm not going throught hat bullshyt EVER again.

We can be life partners, but that marriage shyt is a wrap for me.
 
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