Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[duncanthetall]

I dunno what I'm doing wrong. I've smashed like 3 different chicks the past week. One who I was really crushing on and thought was feeling me. Maybe it's just neither of us can express our emotions. I just feel like there's zero chance of it becoming something real.

Maybe I need to stop hooking up with chicks whenever the opportunity arises and wait. I dunno smh

 

[Big Blue]

I caved in and simped out to my ex. I missed her brehs I'm never gonna find a bad mixed joint with an Irish accent again so I couldn't let her go. She didn't shut me down though,

 

[True Blue Moon]

These exes and chicks from the past are working a number on y'all nikkas

 

[Address_Unknown]

need advise on long distance girls you've already run game on. How do you make her miss you if she lives a couple hours away, just ignore until she initiates the text? she usually does if I don't text her for a few days but its always something dry like 'hi how are you' etc

Get a bit sentimental and bring up an experience/adventure y'all had. Any good time that wasn't directly related to fukking, since you don't want to run the chance of her getting hot and bothered and hitting up some side dude she knows could be over there in like 10 minutes to scratch that itch you created.

I never played the averages by ignoring chicks since that almost always leads to an argument for why she felt the need to creep or started to ignore me as well, but you gotta know the type of bird your dealing with.

Bringing up a favorable experience keeps you on her mental and should coax her into trying to get you to visit if she ain't got the resources and fortitude to do that shyt herself. If your relationship up to this point hae been strictly smashing and dipping when you meet, then feelings like that might be tougher to initiate. Best of luck with that, though. Long distance relationships can be brutal, especially if your keen on being devoutly Faithfull like myself. That's why all mines fell apart and I stopped that shyt in my mid 20s.

 

[Bless't]

I dunno what I'm doing wrong. I've smashed like 3 different chicks the past week. One who I was really crushing on and thought was feeling me. Maybe it's just neither of us can express our emotions. I just feel like there's zero chance of it becoming something real.

Maybe I need to stop hooking up with chicks whenever the opportunity arises and wait. I dunno smh

I hate when that shyt happens.

 

[MikelArteta]

Best thing is just to forget about a relationship, its a waste of time n money. If your in her city n she's in yours cool hit her up. If not you can't compete with the physical .

It's why infidelity Is do high in the military

Only way ldrs work Id if one person is planning on moving

Ehh, as someone who actually dealt with a REALLY long distance girl(Try American and Japan), there's nothing really to do. if she feeling you, she'll want to talk a lot. For me, this girl was on my dikk so she was talking to me every single day. Finally a few months after talking to her I was able to take a trip there and meet up with her for a week. I'm not talking to her anymore but occasionally chicks be hitting me up from over there. I just text but I don't really try and keep nothing popping. One chick lately was similar, talking to me pretty much daily for like a couple of months but recently she's been MIA. I haven't heard from her in like a week. I don't see her active on the usual apps she be on either so I'm guessing she's truly "busy"(with someone) or something idk.

 

[The Mad Titan]

need advise on long distance girls you've already run game on. How do you make her miss you if she lives a couple hours away, just ignore until she initiates the text? she usually does if I don't text her for a few days but its always something dry like 'hi how are you' etc

LDRS are only if you plan on making them non LD with a few years and are serious about the person like "I'm going to marry you type serious" if its not all those things then yes they are a waste of time unless you just like the "company" but you can have a friend for all that.


edit: Any LD relationship I've been in if you didn't talk everyday it wasn't even worth calling it a relationship. There is absolutely nothing you can do in a LD to make the other person act or feel more of a way.

In a way LD relationships are goat as you get to know a personality and "fall in love" with that, but you dont get to know a person's behavior nearly as quick which can be

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Fukk I see this really baad white chick on my bus route occasionally. She definitely looks out of my league but I'm thinking of stepping up to her with a corny line just to see how it goes

 

[twan83]

Fukk I see this really baad white chick on my bus route occasionally. She definitely looks out of my league but I'm thinking of stepping up to her with a corny line just to see how it goes

Just walk up to her make good eye contact, smile and say what caught ur eye like her smile and ask how is her day going


Ex:
Hello thought I come over and say u have a lovely smile and ask how has ur day been?
(Did it with confidence eye contact and smiled at her)

If all goes well u introduce urself and ask her for her name unless she tells u instead
Convo goes good then ask for number


If the initial sentence doesn't go well and she seems uninterested just leave at the nice smile and hope u have a nice day and keep it moving

We all take Ls it's what makes us better at the approach with women to where it's 2nd nature and u can be great at it

 

[twan83]

LDRS are only if you plan on making them non LD with a few years and are serious about the person like "I'm going to marry you type serious" if its not all those things then yes they are a waste of time unless you just like the "company" but you can have a friend for all that.


edit: Any LD relationship I've been in if you didn't talk everyday it wasn't even worth calling it a relationship. There is absolutely nothing you can do in a LD to make the other person act or feel more of a way.

In a way LD relationships are goat as you get to know a personality and "fall in love" with that, but you dont get to know a person's behavior nearly as quick which can be

True it's the same as saying I DO they can become a completely diff person once them vows are said in a lot cases

 

[bl2k8]

Been seeing this girl going on 3 months. Everything has been going smooth, see eachother one to two times a week, eat dinner every now and then. She's came through to the crib and cooked me dinner and cleaned my spot on my birthday. I like this girl a lot but she been hinting that she wants to say the L word . I'm nowhere near that. I got out of a 7 year relationship in Nov with my first and only love and I'm not trynna hop in no official shyt right now. Same time this girl has been nothing but positive in my life the past 3 months and I don't wanna end it over me being thinking she going to fast. Idk brehs

 

[The Mad Titan]

Been seeing this girl going on 3 months. Everything has been going smooth, see eachother one to two times a week, eat dinner every now and then. She's came through to the crib and cooked me dinner and cleaned my spot on my birthday. I like this girl a lot but she been hinting that she wants to say the L word . I'm nowhere near that. I got out of a 7 year relationship in Nov with my first and only love and I'm not trynna hop in no official shyt right now. Same time this girl has been nothing but positive in my life the past 3 months and I don't wanna end it over me being thinking she going to fast. Idk brehs

Dont say it if you don't mean it, but bet she gonna feel some kinda way if you dont.

 

[TRUEST]

Been seeing this girl going on 3 months. Everything has been going smooth, see eachother one to two times a week, eat dinner every now and then. She's came through to the crib and cooked me dinner and cleaned my spot on my birthday. I like this girl a lot but she been hinting that she wants to say the L word . I'm nowhere near that. I got out of a 7 year relationship in Nov with my first and only love and I'm not trynna hop in no official shyt right now. Same time this girl has been nothing but positive in my life the past 3 months and I don't wanna end it over me being thinking she going to fast. Idk brehs

U may end up marrying her. Don't do her dirty.

 

[bl2k8]

U may end up marrying her. Don't do her dirty.

What you mean by doing her dirty

 

[Mr210]

Been seeing this girl going on 3 months. Everything has been going smooth, see eachother one to two times a week, eat dinner every now and then. She's came through to the crib and cooked me dinner and cleaned my spot on my birthday. I like this girl a lot but she been hinting that she wants to say the L word . I'm nowhere near that. I got out of a 7 year relationship in Nov with my first and only love and I'm not trynna hop in no official shyt right now. Same time this girl has been nothing but positive in my life the past 3 months and I don't wanna end it over me being thinking she going to fast. Idk brehs

Seems like you have a good woman don't do her bad...keep doing what you are doing and when that times comes sit down and have an adult conversation with her