Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Imma do it tomorrow. I've seen her once while taking the bus home but I always see her in the morning when I take the 'late' bus. I call it the 'late' bus because it is the one I usually take in the morning when I wake up late or whenever there's a fukk up and I'm not able to catch my usual bus. Sometimes I see her with a greasy white dude - I'm not too worried about him, he doesn't seem like a love-interest. What makes me feel like I'm going to strike out is the fact that she's from a posh part of town. I am who I am but I don't run in those circles generally so it is not something I can even fake.

Dont talk yourself out of it. Grab your nuts and take the shot. At the very least, you'll have clarity on the whole situation and be able to move forward accordingly. The worst feeling is the "what if" mind fukk. Dont let that happen.

Wish ya luck breh.

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I think the nurse is girl is out. She don't seem to attentive anymore. Could another guy has her attention. Lately I've been talking and seeing this other woman whose showing me more affection, attention and effort. We got a date today and I'm check her vibe. Still I really liked the nurse and thought we had something but oh well. Onto the next
 

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Still talking to other women but me and ex are getting on well :ld:

Who knew indifference would be such a game changer
 

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Stop associating and wasting time on flaky chicks let em rot.


There's two doors brehs, in front of one door there's snakes, lions, poisonous spiders.


And in front of the other door there's nothing.

Stop going through hoops, and wasting on your time on chicks that ain't feeling you.


Screw em.
 

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Why even talk to exes, especially about the past, its done and over.

Ship can't sail if your anchored and stucj in a ex port





Some people's perception of "caring" is so warped. Yesterday, my ex said she wasn't sure if I cared about her back when we were dating because I never cussed her out when she was acting up. I used to just go cold and shut her out and according to her, that was a sign or not being committed :mindblown:
 

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I got some bomb ass head last night and ended up going out late to get us some food
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About to head outta her and hit arms and legs today
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I totally see where you're coming from but saying "You're being stupid, I'm not talking about this anymore" should be enough.

A lot of girls have dealt with volatile men that will go out of their way to shout, cuss them out and sometimes even put hands on them and they get accustomed to that kind of drama. It shouldn't be on us more levelled off guys to give these girls their dosage of fukkery.

Don't feed into her bullshyt of "needing to be yelled at". Just find u a broad that like level headed nikkaz.
 
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What's the best way to let the chicks on my roster know that I want to keep it on a casual dating aspect?
 

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Just had the date with the new girl. She has a 5 yr old which is neither here or there. It was a good date, nice convo, engaging wasn't on her phone at all. We will see how this goes. I'm suppose to be still seeing the nurse girl for X men on Thursday. Ima see where her head is really at before I give her the bushes
 

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@Asantehene what happened with the eritrean broad fam?
nothing. was gonna try to hook my bro up but she ignored. recently to a somalian though. talked to her in the gym months go and it turned out she worked where i work. however...she had a bf so i said np. if anything we should just grab coffee and then i looked her up on the microsoft outlook address book. didnt email her til weeks after though. turned out she was leaving our company to go to a place down the street. congratulated her...blah blah....weeks later after she showed me her new work email i said we should grab lunch. blah blah...i discovered she didnt have a bf anymore. gonna see what it do :manny: she 29 with a perky personality, fat ass, straight smile, nice hair, good skin and bread. but for the most part i'm playing it cool (probably cause shes older). so we'll see
 
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nothing. was gonna try to hook my bro up but she ignored. recently to a somalian though. talked to her in the gym months go and it turned out she worked where i work. however...she had a bf so i said np. if anything we should just grab coffee and then i looked her up on the microsoft outlook address book. didnt email her til weeks after though. turned out she was leaving our company to go to a place down the street. congratulated her...blah blah....weeks later after she showed me her new work email i said we should grab lunch. blah blah...i discovered she didnt have a bf anymore. gonna see what it do :manny: she 29 with a fat ass, straight smile, nice hair, good skin and bread. but for the most part i'm playing it cool (probably cause shes older). so we'll see

sounds awfully like my ex fukk-buddy from last summer. Please don't tell me her name start with an N. :sadcam::sadcam:

and i told you about em somali broads :ufdup:seems like u found one that is down with the cause. :obama:
 
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