Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[KingBeez]

Its human logic...

I invest my time into every joint i deal with..
Thats why even now a joint who i aint even talk to in a minute can hit me up and we hit da ground running...

I get way more mileage from these women that goes even beyond fukking...

I try not to create sloppy habits that will travel over into other portions of my life..

No one said it had to be monetary...

We build and talk...i pick their brains and we have fun...

And we go from there..

This is what I'm currently having troubles with. I need to learn how to build with someone instead of going after a certain objective. Any tips?

 

[Mainevent_7]

How are yall breh's with yall club game? Yall still be hitting them up?

I tend to do more day/rooftop parties than clubs since it's the summer time. I still have a hard time with the initial opener, but having a conversation and closing is easy for me.
Any tips on improving my initial opener?

 

[Mr210]

I tried to be friends with my most recent ex, but it just seems like while she has moved on and has a new bf I have been unable to move on because I still have strong feelings for her. What makes it worse is her new bf is a co-worker of mine who I don't like and she knew I didn't like him. It's like of all guys to date she chooses him. I think I'm making the right decision to completely stop talking to her

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I tried to be friends with my most recent ex, but it just seems like while she has moved on and has a new bf I have been unable to move on because I still have strong feelings for her. What makes it worse is her new bf is a co-worker of mine who I don't like and she knew I didn't like him. It's like of all guys to date she chooses him. I think I'm making the right decision to completely stop talking to her

Uh yea.
Being friends aint gone work if she got a dude.
U only setting ya self up for more anger.
You gone see dude at work smiling on the phone, "his bytch ass proly on the phone wit ____ " or you gone be on the phone and she gone be on some "lemme call you back" and your mind gone be racing about her getting off the phone wit u cuz of ol dude.

 

[Mr210]

Uh yea.
Being friends aint gone work if she got a dude.
U only setting ya self up for more anger.
You gone see dude at work smiling on the phone, "his bytch ass proly on the phone wit ____ " or you gone be on the phone and she gone be on some "lemme call you back" and your mind gone be racing about her getting off the phone wit u cuz of ol dude.

Yep that's why I blocked her number, I had to do what was in my best interest, how can you tell me that you love me and have never loved a man like you have me before but then start dating not only a co-worker but someone I severely distaste

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yep that's why I blocked her number, I had to do what was in my best interest, how can you tell me that you love me and have never loved a man like you have me before but then start dating not only a co-worker but someone I severely distaste

You better keep it blocked.
Don't be texting her cuz you know the number by heart and tryna unblock it to see if she gone try to call.
I've been down that road in April.

 

[PinotNoir]

Hey guys, so today is my birthday(i'm 27) and last night i was talking to one of mentors about the importance of building on to your past successes. So anyway i'd like some advice from some of you on how i can build on from my starting point(whether it's poor, average or whatever) and where i could improve. So anyway in Jan 2012 i was 22 and i approached off and on many women and these are my results

Jan 2012-June 2016

• 4 dates
• 2 bodies

Total

• 4 bodies (18, 20 or 21, 24, 26)

It's not much, but i'd still appreciate your feedback. Thanks.

I almost forgot I was in the gems thread, I'm thinking this guy must have his head on right, while reading your statement until I got the points. That's weird you view these women as "bodies". I don't know what to tell you honestly, maybe keep dating and don't think too much about it, just do it.

 

[Mr210]

You better keep it blocked.
Don't be texting her cuz you know the number by heart and tryna unblock it to see if she gone try to call.
I've been down that road in April.

Nope I'm not I have done that before with her in the past but her dating basically my enemy is a slap in my face

 

[PinotNoir]

I tried to be friends with my most recent ex, but it just seems like while she has moved on and has a new bf I have been unable to move on because I still have strong feelings for her. What makes it worse is her new bf is a co-worker of mine who I don't like and she knew I didn't like him. It's like of all guys to date she chooses him. I think I'm making the right decision to completely stop talking to her

it's sad but true, people tend to respond more to you when you ignore them. Ignore her behavior/her and watch what happens.

 

[Mainevent_7]

You better keep it blocked.
Don't be texting her cuz you know the number by heart and tryna unblock it to see if she gone try to call.
I've been down that road in April.

I was in the same exact situation in May. No contact is the best route to follow.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I was in the same exact situation in May. No contact is the best route to follow.

Yep.
I started talking to a chick i used to mess with 5 years ago like 2 weeks ago and i don't even think of ol girl no more.
Dude gotta move on and find something better.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I almost forgot I was in the gems thread, I'm thinking this guy must have his head on right, while reading your statement until I got the points. That's weird you view these women as "bodies". I don't know what to tell you honestly, maybe keep dating and don't think too much about it, just do it.

I'm turning over a new chapter in my life, so i'm going refrain from negativity or profanity. (1) It's too early in the morning for the feminism captain rhetoric. "Bodies" is a figure of speech so quit being so sensitive and acting like a simp.

(2) If you're not going offer any genuine useful advice(which you didn't i might add) then i suggest you bypass my posts and keep your thoughts to yourself, because i have no interest in hearing them.

Thanks & have a good day.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I'm turning over a new chapter in my life, so i'm going refrain from negativity or profanity. (1) It's too early in the morning for the feminism captain rhetoric. "Bodies" is a figure of speech so quit being so sensitive and acting like a simp.

(2) If you're not going offer any genuine useful advice(which you didn't i might add) then i suggest you bypass my posts and keep your thoughts to yourself, because i have no interest in hearing them.

Thanks & have a good day.

I believe @PinotNoir is a chick breh hence the sensitivity.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

it's sad but true, people tend to respond more to you when you ignore them. Ignore her behavior/her and watch what happens.

Not everybody. If you feel you have to play these games to have positive interactions with somebody then it's best you not talk to them. Frankly, I don't see how anybody can keep up the facade for an extended period of time.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I believe @PinotNoir is a chick breh hence the sensitivity.

It is a female. Thanks for informing me.