Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Stop trying to please women, you'll always lose.

In the bible Jesus talks about pleasing others

6“To what can I compare this generation? They are like children sitting in the marketplaces and calling out to others:

17“ ‘We played the pipe for you,

and you did not dance;

we sang a dirge,

and you did not mourn.’

18For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, ‘He has a demon.’ 19The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’ But wisdom is proved right by her deeds.”



Basically John the Baptist came he didn't eat nor drink, he didn't dine with tax collectors or hung around sinners and folks said he had a demon in him

Jesus came and did the opposite and they said he is a drunken and froends of the tax collectors

Same with women its impossible to please them, youlll be Mr nice guy mr dependable and they will cry your boring , you'll be aloof and a a hole they will cry


Be yourself brehs
 

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Sooooo I might be in some trouble. Like, this Cuban chick gon stab me up trouble.

I had a thing with one of my coworkers (Cuban girl), and we agreed (by that I mean she) to put it on hold for a bit until I get my life right. Makes sense, it's cool. She said as soon as I do? We back :jawalrus: But she still tryna act like I'm her nikka and shyt, always questioning me about females and shyt. "Who's that you was talking to?" "I see you got a new boo" Shyt like that. So ya boy always gotta bring it back around, talking that slick stuff. "Oh, my boo right next to me" and shyt.

Now, lately I been fukking with this chick who is cool with some people I know, and I feel like ol Cuban knows. She been asking more questions, what I do when I get home and shyt. It makes the car rides from work to my place (ya boy ain't got a whip :mjcry:) a lil awkward. She be dropping me off to the punani and shyt, but I don't feel guilty. Other people think me and the Cuban got something going on, and my boy always talking about some "Maaaan, how you gonna fukk around on ya girl?" making jokes and shyt, then she come around the corner on some "Whose girl? Burn got a girl? :stopitslime:" I feel like she's know about the other chick, and she's waiting for the opportune time to shank me in the breakroom

She's crazy, crazy fukkin fine, but crazy. What do I do Coli brehs? Help me.
 

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Some women have deep issues,its NOT your job as a man to fix them.We can love a woman,we can protect her,provide etc do our jobs as men.However we can't be daddy,counselor,pyscologist.We Cant nd we should refuse too.Same issues she had coming into the relationship,will be the ones she have leaving.Only God and her can transform.You can't transform her.Im not being HOH or whatever it's just the truth.
 

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Sooooo I might be in some trouble. Like, this Cuban chick gon stab me up trouble.

Bad move fukking with her on some relationship shyt. (Wont say messing with a chick at work cuz um in the same boat) but u fukking up trying to get at another one at the same job. Lol. Cut if off breh

Some women have deep issues,its NOT your job as a man to fix them.We can love a woman,we can protect her,provide etc do our jobs as men.However we can't be daddy,counselor,pyscologist.We Cant nd we should refuse too.Same issues she had coming into the relationship,will be the ones she have leaving.Only God and her can transform.You can't transform her.Im not being HOH or whatever it's just the truth.

Learned that the hard way
 

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You told the Cuban girl that she's on hold until you get your life right and now you're messing with some other girl in the meanwhile. it's obvious she's going to question what you're doing. It's like a woman tells you she needs a break from dating you to get her life right and then she goes and dates some other guy right after. Obviously you're going to be mad. You need to decide what you really want and be consistent with your word.
 

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Bad move fukking with her on some relationship shyt. (Wont say messing with a chick at work cuz um in the same boat) but u fukking up trying to get at another one at the same job. Lol. Cut if off breh



Learned that the hard way
But keyword you learned.Oh trust me I learned too among other things.
 

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Sooooo I might be in some trouble. Like, this Cuban chick gon stab me up trouble.

I had a thing with one of my coworkers (Cuban girl), and we agreed (by that I mean she) to put it on hold for a bit until I get my life right. Makes sense, it's cool. She said as soon as I do? We back :jawalrus: But she still tryna act like I'm her nikka and shyt, always questioning me about females and shyt. "Who's that you was talking to?" "I see you got a new boo" Shyt like that. So ya boy always gotta bring it back around, talking that slick stuff. "Oh, my boo right next to me" and shyt.

Now, lately I been fukking with this chick who is cool with some people I know, and I feel like ol Cuban knows. She been asking more questions, what I do when I get home and shyt. It makes the car rides from work to my place (ya boy ain't got a whip :mjcry:) a lil awkward. She be dropping me off to the punani and shyt, but I don't feel guilty. Other people think me and the Cuban got something going on, and my boy always talking about some "Maaaan, how you gonna fukk around on ya girl?" making jokes and shyt, then she come around the corner on some "Whose girl? Burn got a girl? :stopitslime:" I feel like she's know about the other chick, and she's waiting for the opportune time to shank me in the breakroom

She's crazy, crazy fukkin fine, but crazy. What do I do Coli brehs? Help me.

Ya boy grimey:scust:
 

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Sooooo I might be in some trouble. Like, this Cuban chick gon stab me up trouble.

I had a thing with one of my coworkers (Cuban girl), and we agreed (by that I mean she) to put it on hold for a bit until I get my life right. Makes sense, it's cool. She said as soon as I do? We back :jawalrus: But she still tryna act like I'm her nikka and shyt, always questioning me about females and shyt. "Who's that you was talking to?" "I see you got a new boo" Shyt like that. So ya boy always gotta bring it back around, talking that slick stuff. "Oh, my boo right next to me" and shyt.

Now, lately I been fukking with this chick who is cool with some people I know, and I feel like ol Cuban knows. She been asking more questions, what I do when I get home and shyt. It makes the car rides from work to my place (ya boy ain't got a whip :mjcry:) a lil awkward. She be dropping me off to the punani and shyt, but I don't feel guilty. Other people think me and the Cuban got something going on, and my boy always talking about some "Maaaan, how you gonna fukk around on ya girl?" making jokes and shyt, then she come around the corner on some "Whose girl? Burn got a girl? :stopitslime:" I feel like she's know about the other chick, and she's waiting for the opportune time to shank me in the breakroom

She's crazy, crazy fukkin fine, but crazy. What do I do Coli brehs? Help me.


why you being greedy ese'?
 

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:mjcry: I knew this bish was too good to be true..she dropped the ether bomb on me brehs..she told me she was exposed to the Herp..I respect her for telling me before we did anything, but DAMN!! :damn:
 

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every time I'll meet a chick lately, shyt will be going well...texting, a meet up or two, some more texting and then poof they vanish and stop replying to messages.

shyt does not make any sense. i know girls have many options. maybe they get back with an ex, lose interest or whatever but the way it be happening outta nowhere...unexplainable and feels like shyt man at times :francis:. shyt is fukked up
 

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every time I'll meet a chick lately, shyt will be going well...texting, a meet up or two, some more texting and then poof they vanish and stop replying to messages.

shyt does not make any sense. i know girls have many options. maybe they get back with an ex, lose interest or whatever but the way it be happening outta nowhere...unexplainable and feels like shyt man at times :francis:. shyt is fukked up
You're getting them to meet up.... gotta be something you're doing on the dates breh.

What kinda dates are you taking these chicks on?
 

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You're getting them to meet up.... gotta be something you're doing on the dates breh.

What kinda dates are you taking these chicks on?
thats what i'd think. but man...

last one me and this chick just went for a walk cause we live mad close. It was at like 9PM so it lasted about two hours. We had great conversation and all that; really got to know one another. I know she was comfortable cause she was out here taking me to random catwalks/trails in the park and shyt where it was dark/obscure as hell. She also said she wanted to go out later ...we decided we'd see a movie and then grab some desserts at a waffle/crepe spot on Canada Day but she had to reschedule because family came over for the long weekend and she suggested sometime this week. nonetheless, after we went out, continued talking and all that. I went a few days without messaging her but when i messaged her on some casual shyt I got no reply. Mind you , before she'd be out here texting me paragraphs and shyt.

Sometimes it happens before I go out with a chick too. Iunno. I'm honestly baffled. Maybe this chick was talking to another dude, got back with an ex or some shyt. Just disappointing when everything seems good and you get ghosted. A heads up would be appreciated but nobody owes anybody shyt i guess. This last one hurts though. Badly. I'm feeling defeated :francis:

i dont deny its something I'm doing but shyt just doesnt make sense. cant put my finger on it. got my first CPA exam this morning, hopefully this bullshyt doesnt linger on my mind during it. gotta lock in. I'ma head to the exam centre on some boxer shyt...just listening to some Kingpin Skinny Pimp, Playa Fly and Gangsta Blac in some silence. Cause that's the mood right now lol
 
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