Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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You can fall in love anywhere man. Always remember that.
I'ma be real. Sounds like you tryna rationalize why the kiss ain't happen. You went for the kiss and didn't get the same response back. That's a clear sign. Sorry to be this straight forward with you....but no chik is above a one-night stand, sooooo getting a kiss should not be a problem if she's feeling you. Chiks kiss random dudes at bars all the time.
The real 'girl of your dreams' is the one that likes you and is willing to get down for you. It's real easy to get caught up on some broad because she's fine and you start imagining how perfect she is, but if a broad doesn't like you, there's literally nothing there... I'm sure you've had 20 of these broads over your lifetime that you fantasized about in that fashion, and as soon as the next fine one passed by, you forgot about her and moved on. Some of the best advice in life I've heard in regards to women is: "I like the one that likes me".
Youseenmywork
KING
This ain't tinder chicks though breh. I knew one girl from HS, and the other used to be my subordinate at work.
Not every chick is a tinder ho.
I guess I'll find out my answer in the next 24 hours
Maybe I am trying to rationalize it, but these aren't your run of the mill tinder ho's.
I respect my boys' advice because they do well with women and they're all saying that these chicks are playing the hard to get route because they want a relationship.... but they're my boys so they may be trying to not fukk with a dude's self esteem, so that's why I came here. I appreciate the bluntness fellas.
Have they been receptive to meeting up/going on a date again? Better yet, have they introduced the possibility of such?
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
This ain't tinder chicks though breh. I knew one girl from HS, and the other used to be my subordinate at work.
Not every chick is a tinder ho.
I guess I'll find out my answer in the next 24 hours
Maybe I am trying to rationalize it, but these aren't your run of the mill tinder ho's.
I respect my boys' advice because they do well with women and they're all saying that these chicks are playing the hard to get route because they want a relationship.... but they're my boys so they may be trying to not fukk with a dude's self esteem, so that's why I came here. I appreciate the bluntness fellas.
there is some truth in what jamal and truest said. If a girl is attracted to you, something will most likely happen on the first date (ie. making out at the minimum). However, there are times where a girl maybe attracted to you but just might wanna hold off on the intimacy. Every first date i've been on (apart from 2) i made out with the broad on the first date.
in your case, i'd judge it by how things progress from here on out. If you sense they ain't interested, bush them. If they are interested however, take em out to a place where you can comfortably and casually throw in physical contact like mini-golfing. But i stress that if you get a 2nd shot, you gotta be aggressive. Not in a creepish manner...but like, you ease into the aggressiveness. Deep and calm tone, eye contact, grab her waist and pull her in, etc.
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It doesnt matter where you met her. i dont care if youve known her for 20+ years. She aint giving YOU THE PUZZY. She giving a nikka like me the puzzy while you trying to rationalize your friend zone status on thecoli.com
BUSHES!
Youseenmywork
KING
He gon learn that it's something special about all these chicks. Women should never be on a pedestal.
One of them has been texting me and hit me up today asking when we're going to hang again... the other hasn't responded to my text from yesterday.
Believe me brehs, I can take an L....... I'm not saying shyt to stroke my ego, these dates went really well. Well, at least one of them did since the other one seems to be curvin me. The one I was really feelin'
I feel you on the aggressiveness. I don't ever go in for a kiss unless I've established contact earlier in the date... I held both of these girls hands, put my arm around their shoulders, etc. earlier in the date, but they wasn't having the kiss.
Where you meet a chick definitely comes into play breh..... I'm not treatin a tinder date the same as some girl I view as relationship material.
One of the two girls hit me up today saying, "So when are we gonna hang out again ;)"
Don't sound like the friend zone to me breh.
And on another note, I know some of ya'll are anti-social media.
But I just made a facebook and an IG a few months ago and literally got two lay-ups just off the strength of it. Girls DM'ing me first. And I'm not the best looking dude, but I do have pics with me out with friends and what not for some social proof
But I just made a facebook and an IG a few months ago and literally got two lay-ups just off the strength of it. Girls DM'ing me first. And I'm not the best looking dude, but I do have pics with me out with friends and what not for some social proof