Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sfgiants]

Yep, that's a mistake a lot of men make. They put way too much effort into trying to catch some specific woman. Be yourself, call when you want, get at them how you are and if it works, it works... if it doesn't, there's a ton of other women out there. Most dudes end up confused because they make these women so powerful that their source of action comes from what they think the woman wants as opposed to from who they are and what they believe in. A man can never really be confident if the source of his actions is from what he thinks someone else wants. If a broad ain't feeling how you get down, don't change your whole program up. Get at another one who is naturally more receptive to who you are.

all facts right here.

 

[TRUEST]

We all love when a woman cooks and cleans but lets be honest....we know there are alot of women out there who will be in relationships and spend hours on end in the kitchen not even cooking but bullshytting. Basically to look for an excuse to avoid her man or husband..Like pretend they busy because they resent their man.

sounds like this is coming from a personal angle?
if this is u that ur wife or woman is doing that to, and u actually care about this woman, u goto re-attract her. get her to see u in a different light. get urself a hobby outside of her so shes not seeing u all the damn time. take her on surprise dates. when yall get into arguments, instead of adding to the fire, simply say ur piece, then tell her, "this conversation is over". if she rebels against that, walk out of the house and dont come back till u feel like it.

 

[CASHAPP]

sounds like this is coming from a personal angle?
if this is u that ur wife or woman is doing that to, and u actually care about this woman, u goto re-attract her. get her to see u in a different light. get urself a hobby outside of her so shes not seeing u all the damn time. take her on surprise dates. when yall get into arguments, instead of adding to the fire, simply say ur piece, then tell her, "this conversation is over". if she rebels against that, walk out of the house and dont come back till u feel like it.

nah not me necessarily but have witnessed that with cousins/relatives and their woman....im usually good at reading those situations. i do see what your saying though.

 

[CosbyMadeMeSellDrugs]

Me & the ol lady got into it last night & today she's saying she needs some time to think

 

[Organic Trees]

Actually broke up with her.. she was holding me back mentally time to focus on my future

 

[360dagod]

Me & the ol lady got into it last night & today she's saying she needs some time to think

How long yall been together

 

[Youseenmywork]

How long yall been together

What he should tell her is how about you take the next 20 years and I will see you around. There is no taking a break.

 

[Ohene]

That's where u messed up
I don't have expectations, all these women are so easily replaceable i don't have to waste time sitting around thinking well if I do X then she will do X. If one of them isn't working out then there's 85948374849 other ones out there.

yup. i be telling my homie the same thing

the reason i dont play the all the bs games is because I know the same way i got a chicks number and connected is how I can get anothers. I simply am myself when dealing with women. If it doesnt work out for whatever reason...i give up and find a next within a couple days. Right now the rotation is about 3 chicks deep with one of them being a girl i see serious potential in. Thing with that girl is i dont have to play any games. I'm straight up and so is she

 

[CosbyMadeMeSellDrugs]

How long yall been together

Like 5 years, I aint worried, the whole process just is annoying

 

[TRUEST]

Me & the ol lady got into it last night & today she's saying she needs some time to think

if u want any chance of getting her back, and u really do want her, u need to say these things to her:

sweety, i know i have my issues but i'm willing to work through them with u.
however, if u believe in taking breaks in our relationship, you're making a very profound statement that i will not ignore.
taking a break means to me you're willing to take the chance of losing me to another woman. and if u are ok with that, then i dont need u in my life.

leave it at that and bounce. it'll be better if u sent this in a text message so she can always refer back to it, re-read over and over when she's doubting herself. those words will fucck her up mentally.

 

[sfgiants]

yup. i be telling my homie the same thing

the reason i dont play the all the bs games is because I know the same way i got a chicks number and connected is how I can get anothers. I simply am myself when dealing with women. If it doesnt work out for whatever reason...i give up and find a next within a couple days. Right now the rotation is about 3 chicks deep with one of them being a girl i see serious potential in. Thing with that girl is i dont have to play any games. I'm straight up and so is she

Best part about this is u can get an appreciation for how a good/normal woman is if you deal with a wack one at the same time. I am in the same boat and recently had a run in with a crazy broad.. Made me really appreciate the "main" one for just being normal. Ppl will look down on this line of thinking but you have to do your due diligence and look after yourself

 

[Ohene]

& what is enough? ask @TRUEST and he will say flat out you should never message a chick.

pretty much and thats why all the meticulousness and analysis is unnecessary when a girl is a) feeling you and b) has the same goal or desire whether its just fukkin, dating, being in a relationship or whatever. the games are only necessary when whomever youre dealing with wouldnt be interested in the real you and that shyt aint sustainable anyways.

 

[CASHAPP]

SOme of you guys ever get annoyed being around a woman that just talks too much? not even her nagging necessarily but her feeling the need to always say something when its quiet. lol there is nothing wrong with an awkward silence once in a while. like chill lol.

This is why i believe that "opposites attract" is bullshyt and a man and a woman need to be more similar to match up.

 

[MikelArteta]

99 percent when a woman says this its already over

Always say the best thing you can do when. Woman says this is just consider it over and just give her "space". If she comes back the ball is in your court if she doesn't you've already started living your life without her.

Me & the ol lady got into it last night & today she's saying she needs some time to think

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs its like in the bible where God days he will soit you out if your lukewarm.

Its black or white brehs, she's either hot for you or cold for you, if she's lukewarm and in the grey that's where you get confused and as I always say women want you to be confused because that's when you give them the benefit of the doubt .

If a girl is lukewarm spit her out