Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I texted her today and she said "U never text me back". that was 2 hours ago. When i texted her "so I guess you don't like texting people back huh?" she replied immediately.

I told her "I texted you a few days ago and you ain't Say nothing."

Also the day I dropped her off I told her to hit me up because she said she was working Saturday. This was on Friday. Sunday afternoon i texted her what's good and got no response and then today I texted her the above.

ok, u've done enough damage. the next thing u say to her is:

hey, let's a grab a drink at (insert lounge/bar name) at 730pm tonight. or if she's busy tonight, set a date on the day u know she's free. dont ask her "when are you free". you have to set a date and LET HER let u know u if she can make it or not.

u've done enough damage man. stop the back and forth "i text u you text me not" bullsh1t. be direct!!!
 

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ok, u've done enough damage. the next thing u say to her is:

hey, let's a grab a drink at (insert lounge/bar name) at 730pm tonight. or if she's busy tonight, set a date on the day u know she's free. dont ask her "when are you free". you have to set a date and LET HER let u know u if she can make it or not.

u've done enough damage man. stop the back and forth "i text u you text me not" bullsh1t. be direct!!!
She told me she doesn't drink before. Also, she hasn't responded to my text that I sent earlier where i said "?i sent you a text few days ago you never said anything.."
Frankly it seems like she's just on some other shyt now. I feel like I'm chasing her even though she was the one that wanted to talk to me in the first place. Calling me asking what kind of girls I like and if I have a girl.
 
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She told me she doesn't drink before. Also, she hasn't responded to my text that I sent earlier where i said "?i sent you a text few days ago you never said anything.."
Frankly it seems like she's just on some other shyt now. I feel like I'm chasing her even though she was the one that wanted to talk to me in the first place. Calling me asking what kind of girls I like and if I have a girl.

u may have fuccked this one up. next time a chick comes at u the way she does, ASSUME she wants to have fun and seal the deal. whatever u've seen in the movies where guys play it slow and they act all romantic and take their time is bullsh1t. dont model ur behavior after that crap.

a girl comes at u like this again, u set a date and a time to meet up asap. if she doesn't drink, fine. ask her out for coffee, ice cream. if she doesn't like either of those, i personally would just dead that conversation. girls who like u will meet up half way. u ask her out to drink and she says she doesn't drink. fine. girls who like u will come up with an alternative.
 

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u may have fuccked this one up. next time a chick comes at u the way she does, ASSUME she wants to have fun and seal the deal. whatever u've seen in the movies where guys play it slow and they act all romantic and take their time is bullsh1t. dont model ur behavior after that crap.

a girl comes at u like this again, u set a date and a time to meet up asap. if she doesn't drink, fine. ask her out for coffee, ice cream. if she doesn't like either of those, i personally would just dead that conversation. girls who like u will meet up half way. u ask her out to drink and she says she doesn't drink. fine. girls who like u will come up with an alternative.
At this point I feel like another text would just make me look needy. The first few days she seemed very interested. She not very talkative though... Barely says much in text nor in person. Her saying "U never text me back" sounds like some nonsense as i never gotb any response from that text i sent Sunday.
 

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At this point I feel like another text would just make me look needy. The first few days she seemed very interested. She not very talkative though... Barely says much in text nor in person. Her saying "U never text me back" sounds like some nonsense as i never gotb any response from that text i sent Sunday.

sheprobably never got the text. or maybe she did and it was amongst the many other texts she gets from guys and she may have accidentally deleted it (because maybe shes dating multiple people at the moment...which is extremely likely if she's hot enough and unscrupulous).

in cases like this, i would have just called her up. attraction is not just physical. a female who's on the fence about u can be made to change if she finds herself attracted to the way u talk, your voice, calmness, etc. i've resorted to direct phone calls many times when i suspected a chick was unsure about me. and sure enough they swung my way. well, most of them did.

but ur right, any additional texts from u (without her initiating it) would be needy.

chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on.
 
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things aint working out with her man, or shes bored. either way, be the boss men are created to be and tell this chick to bring a bottle of wine and head over to your place.


Yeah you can tell that back when I was really trynna Holla at her ...she is just in the relationship cause they have been together for about five years. You can tell thoe she is only sometimes happy. She'll have a lil to drank this weekend and snap me thoe that or she'll just send a picture directly.

Breh you gotta tell @kevm3 that we are hunters and that even when you think about women your still "entertaining" them. It built in us to HUNT. :lolbron:
 

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Yeah you can tell that back when I was really trynna Holla at her ...she is just in the relationship cause they have been together for about five years. You can tell thoe she is only sometimes happy. She'll have a lil to drank this weekend and snap me thoe that or she'll just send a picture directly.

Breh you gotta tell @kevm3 that we are hunters and that even when you think about women your still "entertaining" them. It built in us to HUNT. :lolbron:

kev is more of a religious guy so he sees things in a religious way. and i respect that.
im religious too but i take my beliefs a different route.
what makes life great is the enjoyment we can have it.
obviously women play a big role, other wise this thread wouldn't be as big as it is.
i like women and i think of them a lot. but to maximize ur profit in ur dealings with them or with anything for that matter, u have to study and you must understand and learn the best way to apply what you've learned to get the most of what u want.

i see too many guys in here "taking things slow". that's very bad. matter of fact, i remember a post from kevm3 several years ago where he said there was a chick who was interested in him and who he kinda liked. but at the time, he was busy with something or whatever but then come to find out a short while later, the girl got pregnant by some other dude. this is just an (one) example of why u dont d1ck around...unless u really dont have the time and u have more important priorities as i believe he did at that time.
 

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sheprobably never got the text. or maybe she did and it was amongst the many other texts she gets from guys and she may have accidentally deleted it (because maybe shes dating multiple people at the moment...which is extremely likely if she's hot enough and unscrupulous).

in cases like this, i would have just called her up. attraction is not just physical. a female who's on the fence about u can be made to change if she finds herself attracted to the way u talk, your voice, calmness, etc. i've resorted to direct phone calls many times when i suspected a chick was unsure about me. and sure enough they swung my way. well, most of them did.

but ur right, any additional texts from u (without her initiating it) would be needy.

chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on.
She finally responded to my text that said "?i text you a few days ago and you never said nothing" with "nah". I can't tell if she lying but my gut instinct telling me she did get it.

:francis:

I'll call her later and see what's good. She nothing special imo. I'll give her a time and date to come through or whatever.
 
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kev is more of a religious guy so he sees things in a religious way. and i respect that.
im religious too but i take my beliefs a different route.
what makes life great is the enjoyment we can have it.
obviously women play a big role, other wise this thread wouldn't be as big as it is.
i like women and i think of them a lot. but to maximize ur profit in ur dealings with them or with anything for that matter, u have to study and you must understand and learn the best way to apply what you've learned to get the most of what u want.

i see too many guys in here "taking things slow". that's very bad. matter of fact, i remember a post from kevm3 several years ago where he said there was a chick who was interested in him and who he kinda liked. but at the time, he was busy with something or whatever but then come to find out a short while later, the girl got pregnant by some other dude. this is just an (one) example of why u dont d1ck around...unless u really dont have the time and u have more important priorities as i believe he did at that time.


Im a Christian man as well my father is a preacher. I believe diffrent about women always have. Like I said many times in this thread I've always had a feeling about how to solve problems that women but I was bad at putting it into action. I would finesse when I needed to be hard and vice versa.

I can also add that my grandfather was an ex pimp and later turned his life around to Christianity. I also have an uncle that is an ex pimp as well. This why I beleive I've always had or looked at women diffrent as a creature you have to stay on they ass . You always get to a women mentally cause you sex game anit going to keep them. You gotta pimp without putting them on the corner. This is why I encourage many dudes to listen to patrice oneal the black phillip show it would save a lot of guys so pain.
 

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Yeah you can tell that back when I was really trynna Holla at her ...she is just in the relationship cause they have been together for about five years. You can tell thoe she is only sometimes happy. She'll have a lil to drank this weekend and snap me thoe that or she'll just send a picture directly.

Breh you gotta tell @kevm3 that we are hunters and that even when you think about women your still "entertaining" them. It built in us to HUNT. :lolbron:

I already know that men are hunters. The real question is whether the prey is worth catching, and with the lower standard many women are setting in this day and age, my answer is, in most instances, no. What in the world do I look like spending all of this time trying to keep some woman entertained who has been around the block and back, took countless sausage, can't cook, can't clean, refuses to obey her man, etc. etc. She's lucky that I'm even talking to her, much less making any effort to pursue her.

All throughout this thread, men have been advised to step their game up, improve themselves, be more of a leader, get a better body in the gym, be a better conversationalist, etc. Men tell other men to better themselves and offer a better product to women. On the other hand, I rarely, if ever see women telling other women to offer a better product for men. in fact, they constantly make excuses for other women to offer men as little quality in womanhood as possible. They justify other women whoring, lying, not cooking, not cleaning, not obeying their man, etc. etc. Now why world I work harder to reward a woman who is actively working in the accomplice of other women to offer us less?

We're in the time of strong 'feminism', and we're in a generation who is strongly indulging in the 'sexual revolution.' By the time you get to that woman you are going so gaga over, you're probably the 40th guy in line for your turn. Have fun trying to wife that up. Here's the thing about hoes. Hoes 'ho up'. It's in their nature to be transient. You can spend all this time and effort keeping them entertained, but no matter what you do, sooner or later, she's going to get bored and she's going to jump ship. What was all your effort worth then when all the value she brought walked out the door with her?

The real problem in this day and age is we have a squadron of settle for less negroes who actually feel they need to know how to make a single mother with 10 kids by 8 daddies pay them attention and they're willing to cook for her, clean, pay all her bills and let her do whatever she wants. In reality, she should be wondering how to get YOUR attention. In order for women to really make me want to 'hunt', they need to be more worthy prey. They need to bring more to the table. It's like going fishing. Fishing is cool, but not when the fish you're catching are filled with mercury. The problem in this day and age is that women don't have to do anything to get attention. That's why women who bring NOTHING to the table can make outrageous demands.

I'm sorry, I'd much rather be spending my time working on financial independence and doing things I enjoy than trying to convince the neighborhood floozy to pay me some attention. In fact, when you've got all that money and fame from perfecting your craft, you don't have to chase women. They chase YOU.
 

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She finally responded to my text that said "?i text you a few days ago and you never said nothing" with "nah". I can't tell if she lying but my gut instinct telling me she did get it.

:francis:

I'll call her later and see what's good. She nothing special imo. I'll give her a time and date to come through or whatever.

Ain't it funny how your texts always seem to make it through to your homeboys, but somehow these broads never receive it? What are they using, phones from 1999?

These women be getting these texts but they have the audacity to look at it and ignore it.
 

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Ain't it funny how your texts always seem to make it through to your homeboys, but somehow these broads never receive it? What are they using, phones from 1999?

These women be getting these texts but they have the audacity to look at it and ignore it.
Apparently she replied to me but I never responded which I'm finding to be :duck:
 

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Here's why women are winning. They know how to IGNORE you and won't deal with you if you aren't bringing whatever demands they are asking for. I mean dudes are asking for strategies to get with single mothers with several kids who don't even look that great. That's how bad it is. Those women should be gameplanning on how to GET YOU. But the problem is settle for less negroes keep paying these women attention and pursue them no matter how little they bring to the table.

Here's my motto. Stop suffering over these broads. If you hit her up and she doesn't hit you back, move on. If she doesn't bring anything to the table, move on. You are here to give these women an opportunity, not drag them off into prison. If she can't be cordial, move on and open the opportunity for another woman.
 
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