Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Mr210 said:
Yea def. Way too much overanalyzing and nitpicking but when you point that out their response is, "you will learn"
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You are going to make mistakes but the goal is to learn from them, if you feel like calling a chick and you end up having a 2hour convo there is nothing wrong with that imo
 
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maybe I'm just a lil too impatient, but what happened to the part of ur conversation where u asked her to come to the crib? how did the conversation jump from that to something completely unrelated to that? i've seen the pic of this chick, she's cute, and it is baffling to me how u can do this to yourself.

first, this girl has some sort of interest in you. i know this from everything else u've said.
second, the interest she has in u is being stifled by ur inability to cross over from being a passive scavenger to a fierce hunter
when u ask a girl to come through and she dithers, or doesn't offer a convincing alternative, u need to just go silent because anything else u do after that will be lame. the last thing a girl can have the nerve to do to me is complain about another man. i'm deading that sh1t fast before it even comes close to that.

i think a lot of u guys are just content with a girl showing u attention or liking u. an ego boost don't get a man's d1ck wet.

whenever this girl hits u up, and u let her direct the conversation into no man's land, guess who loses? you.

don't worry about sounding redundant. if everytime this girl hits u up, u allude to her coming over and when she doesn't, u ignore her, she'll connect the dots and either eventually agrees or will just stop hitting u up. either way, u don't lose.
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Which is why when I asked her to to come to the crib she side stepped the question...but she proceed to still flirt. I want be talking to her anymore I don't have advice for women that's trying to figure how to self love themselves ,or whatever may be happening with her "Man".

I know she will still send me direct snapchat photos thoe. Other than that I anit got much to say. If I wanted to I could burn that little empire down on some hose of cards shyt but I anit the time nor do I want to. I just want be speaking to her at all. Trust I've left my mark that why she keeps trying to talk to me or get wisdom.
 
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every fat n' shag nasty dude that's got a fine chick on his arm (who's MADLY in-love with him) is absolute proof that confidence is one of the greatest allures for women. they can smell insecurity a mile away, and if your level of insecurity is trumping hers you're a huge "HELL NAW" on the Richter-Scale. figure out how to maintain your cool around women you really want, and learn how to keep those desires in check long enough to get a better idea of who she is FIRST. life aint a giant porn scene....it's full of out-takes and conversations that must be had as well.
 
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Black Atticus said:
every fat n' shag nasty dude that's got a fine chick on his arm (who's MADLY in-love with him) is absolute proof that confidence is one of the greatest allures for women. they can smell insecurity a mile away, and if your level of insecurity is trumping hers you're a huge "HELL NAW" on the Richter-Scale. figure out how to maintain your cool around women you really want, and learn how to keep those desires in check long enough to get a better idea of who she is FIRST. life aint a giant porn scene....it's full of out-takes and conversations that must be had as well.
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Yep I went through a phase where I was mad insecure in relationships, looking back I'm ashamed but once I really looked at myself my flaws and addressed them things changed and my relationships changed for the better. I'm now at ease and don't sweat as much stuff
 
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I told my homeboy he needs to read this thread he is going on his first date since he got a divorce 18 months ago, asking me all these damn questions.

He was like "yo mr210, she is letting me pick her up from her place but when the date is over to I take her to my place or back to hers" I told him to take her back to her place, if something further is going to go down she will give him the hint and it can go down at her place. I told him just make sure he walks her to her door
 
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Soundbwoy said:
You are going to make mistakes but the goal is to learn from them, if you feel like calling a chick and you end up having a 2hour convo there is nothing wrong with that imo
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I think the context around this long phone convo is necessary. Can you have a 2 hr convo with a women?? Sure.
Should you?(with a women that you haven't even smashed yet or w/e?) Probably not. There's something to it about being a dude on the phone all the time with a chick you haven't really gotten yet. Phone game initially should be for meeting up and brief check ups. Once y'all already getting serious then I'd say talking on the phone a lil longer is alright BUT that's just me though :manny:. I personally don't want to start blabbing for hours with a new chick right from the jump.
 
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What's everyone's thoughts on a woman you dating sending you a pic of herself? Do you ask for one? Do you wait for her to send you one? Do you not care until the 2 of you are further along
 
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Man I'm about to have this chick come up out them pockets :stopitslime:

Shorty ignore my text earlier but I'm looking at her RIGHT NOW streaming live on FB.

I just want my $40 bacc and I"m chargin her to the game :camby:

Edit: I just called her and went straight to the point about that $40 and she like tomorrow.

Then she just mentioned her phone off so she can only receive calls and shyt. I didn't even say nothing about me texting her.

I told her to come over because she said she was coming later too see her cousin(her cousin lives with my cousin downstairs).

I tell her "shyt come now then why you gotta wait for her?" "U ain't doing nothing now."

She's like "I'm not going to be doing nothing there either.."
I'm like "You wasn't doin nothin downstairs last time anyway."

She goes "I wasn't doing nothing upstairs either i just watched a movie"

:damn:
 
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