Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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TheIsleofMan
All Star
How do you guys stay patient when dealing with women that you've just met? Does having a goal help? No fap
? I know I probably have some form of add or something but I swear, I'll cut a person off quickly if I'm texting them or when I'm trying to get their number (even though my options are slimmer than a slice of cheese). Also, some advice for college students that I wish I had (even though I had a girl in college
). Just saying hi or good morning to a chick will get you in there (then see her at a party and 
) Don't even need to start a conversation. it's worked for me outside of school so I know it has to work while you're in school.
? I know I probably have some form of add or something but I swear, I'll cut a person off quickly if I'm texting them or when I'm trying to get their number (even though my options are slimmer than a slice of cheese). Also, some advice for college students that I wish I had (even though I had a girl in college). Just saying hi or good morning to a chick will get you in there (then see her at a party and ) Don't even need to start a conversation. it's worked for me outside of school so I know it has to work while you're in school.A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
brehette i know thru a mutual friend gave me her number recently and we've been talking for a few weeks. my gold digger alarm went off almost instantly because my home girl must've told her what i'm about. chick was tryna get at me in a way that was almost too aggressive initially. my career already makes my free-time difficult, so i usually don't even give brehettes a second chance if they flake on the first date. lo and behold, last weekend, brehette cancels at the last minute despite texting me constantly the days before... says it was an emergency. says all is well afterwards. at face value, i felt a little relieved cuz i am kind of stressed with work atm and a high maintenance chick is gonna drive me over the deep end, so i can just chalk it up to the game.
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she apologizes and i tell her that it's cool, but i'll be busy the next few weeks so it will be difficult to chilll. she then leaves a voicemail and offers to hang out on sunday AM (
) ... i tell her i'm busy and can't.
she sends a few more texts i just curve, but i finally respond during the week, thinking i'll give her one more chance... try to hash some shyt out for this weekend. she says some ish about she's working weekends, and this morning says she got too drunk at a wedding on friday
just texted that if she wants to hang out from now on, she can just text me... and that plans are on her next time if she wants to link. maybe i was too blunt, but at this point she will either fall back out of my life for good or slide thru
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she apologizes and i tell her that it's cool, but i'll be busy the next few weeks so it will be difficult to chilll. she then leaves a voicemail and offers to hang out on sunday AM (
) ... i tell her i'm busy and can't.she sends a few more texts i just curve, but i finally respond during the week, thinking i'll give her one more chance... try to hash some shyt out for this weekend. she says some ish about she's working weekends, and this morning says she got too drunk at a wedding on friday
just texted that if she wants to hang out from now on, she can just text me... and that plans are on her next time if she wants to link. maybe i was too blunt, but at this point she will either fall back out of my life for good or slide thru
Youseenmywork
KING
You handled the ending perfectly. Why do you have to chase her around to get her to hang out.brehette i know thru a mutual friend gave me her number recently and we've been talking for a few weeks. my gold digger alarm went off almost instantly because my home girl must've told her what i'm about. chick was tryna get at me in a way that was almost too aggressive initially. my career already makes my free-time difficult, so i usually don't even give brehettes a second chance if they flake on the first date. lo and behold, last weekend, brehette cancels at the last minute despite texting me constantly the days before... says it was an emergency. says all is well afterwards. at face value, i felt a little relieved cuz i am kind of stressed with work atm and a high maintenance chick is gonna drive me over the deep end, so i can just chalk it up to the game.
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she apologizes and i tell her that it's cool, but i'll be busy the next few weeks so it will be difficult to chilll. she then leaves a voicemail and offers to hang out on sunday AM (
she sends a few more texts i just curve, but i finally respond during the week, thinking i'll give her one more chance... try to hash some shyt out for this weekend. she says some ish about she's working weekends, and this morning says she got too drunk at a wedding on friday
just texted that if she wants to hang out from now on, she can just text me... and that plans are on her next time if she wants to link. maybe i was too blunt, but at this point she will either fall back out of my life for good or slide thru
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Brehsss, my ex-girl who I caught talking/ dealing with another nikka, keep calling and still wants to hook up on the side. She obviously still fukking wit this dude.
Im really confused what to do, Im borderline about to turn HOH. Im thinking I should be a savage, keep fukking her & have a stable of women
. In my years of dating I havent dated a woman who I considered wifey material
Im really confused what to do, Im borderline about to turn HOH. Im thinking I should be a savage, keep fukking her & have a stable of women
. In my years of dating I havent dated a woman who I considered wifey materialI feel like I look unapproachable. Most of the time I look
Im just mellow
Thats me as well..
Youseenmywork
KING
Brehsss, my ex-girl who I caught talking/ dealing with another nikka, keep calling and still wants to hook up on the side. She obviously still fukking wit this dude.
Im really confused what to do, Im borderline about to turn HOH. Im thinking I should be a savage, keep fukking her & have a stable of women
She belongs to the game. I would just stop dealing with her. If you do deal with her get another girl and let her be the secondary female ...lol she can never be the main chic again.
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InDePickWest
Im Not American
God is good.
I literally almost fainted.
She told me she was thinking bout me
Talking to girls is hella scary
But the reward
Me too much like her 
Ol girl is so damn fine.
Black love comes in various forms
God is good.
I literally almost fainted.
She told me she was thinking bout me
Talking to girls is hella scary
But the reward
Ol girl is so damn fine.
But now you gotta make her wait for a text
InDePickWest
Im Not American
I'm already knowing.Black love comes in various forms
But now you gotta make her wait for a text
She won't hear from me for a day or so.
But imma be thinking bout her heavy
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
She been blowing up my phone since last night I never answered, already called my phone 3 times today, she wanna hear me cry & maybe sad over her. Im not gonna stroke her ego. Im gonna fukk with her mind, Im not gonna answer my phone on weekends, make her think, Im fukking sum1 already
nikkas want us to have that jolly negro smile 24/7 seven on someThats me as well..
"Mawnin bawse mane"I like being happy but I don't need to be that uncomfortably happy. People hate on that too.
I had less respect smiling all the time. I was told I looked shady before because I was so happy.
Youseenmywork
KING
She been blowing up my phone since last night I never answered, already called my phone 3 times today, she wanna hear me cry & maybe sad over her. Im not gonna stroke her ego. Im gonna fukk with her mind, Im not gonna answer my phone on weekends, make her think, Im fukking sum1 already
When women break up with you or whatever the best thing to do is not to care EVEN if you do just pretend not to care. Women don't leave UNLESS they matter. Women HATE a man being indifferent.
For a lot of you younger guy it takes a while to get to that point. I'm 32 so my mind is like a grave yard of shyt I've learned. I always say my mind is ...demented when it comes to women.