DarkHorse23
Banned
I'll pm you.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
Someone sell me on the appeal of going clubbing.
Bars >>>>>
-Clothing is more casual.. you don't have to worry about motherfukkers stepping on expensive ass dress shoes or spilling drinks on dress shirts/slacks.
-Drinks are cheaper/easier to get
-Less crowded, easier to move around and scope out girls
-Don't have to wait in line to get in for an hour... can hit up several different bars in a night with a small cover charge
Bars >>>>>
-Clothing is more casual.. you don't have to worry about motherfukkers stepping on expensive ass dress shoes or spilling drinks on dress shirts/slacks.
-Drinks are cheaper/easier to get
-Less crowded, easier to move around and scope out girls
-Don't have to wait in line to get in for an hour... can hit up several different bars in a night with a small cover charge
If a girl nexts me I use it as motivation and a learning experience. I find out if I did something wrong and what I can do to fix it. This thread has been priceless for that.
Sometime's it's not even about you doing something wrong, there can be a number of reasons why a chick isn't feeling you. But I'm going extra hard in the gym and in school to make sure I'm that motherfukker that's not getting passed up
Yep I learned that these past couple years, sometimes a rejection has nothing to do with the guy. Last year I was rejected by this woman that I was feeling and she gave similar vibes. Come to find out months she rejected me because of family stuff she was going through
Youseenmywork
KING
Well for me personally it never really goes away. I can say its just not as strong as is now as was it in my 20s. For a lot of my 20s the question that was always on my mind was "how come i cant get the women i want" Which is the reason I'm able to give some knowledge that is in this thread. Yes there is many reason why a women can rejected you or try to put you in the friend zone. The way I think is as a man the other areas of life I'm not going to give you an excess why I'm not accomplished in other areas of my life. I'm tell you what I'm doing about them and then give a solution.
Women just don't function like us. They ALWAYS have something going on. If your not careful you'll fail for some of their exusess.
Whats great is the older you get your so called bitterness or resentment turns to wisdom. Like at 32 NO women is putting me in the friend zone. At this age it just doesn't happen.
I can also add that all that so called bitterness or resentment goes into others area of my life. That energy gets channeled into other of my life that could use my attention.
I still have a lot to learn I'm on only 32. Truth be told I sat out the game before my ex girlfriend for about 2yrs and half. I can say I wasn't bitter or angry it comes a time were your just not inspired to chase quote unquote.
I believe I have about 4 yrs left in me with just dealing with women. I plan to have my own blog that I hope to truly just inspire and motivate me to be better men in this feminine world we live in now.
SIDE NOTE: I will start approaching women come January I'll do what I did in college which is just approach a ceartin number of women for a month or at this stage however long I feel like. I know I said September/ October. I just have soo many other things that needs my attention. I do the whole approach 3/4 women day for 8 weeks straight starting I January.
Youseenmywork
KING
he is right...my homeboy in that same situation....no friends..besides me...And its a chore to even speak to him..
DarkHorse23
Banned
Thank you for your perspective
Sounds like simping... like maybe the guy has been stuffed in the friendzone so many times he's just accustomed to it. Now there is nothing wrong with having platonic friends, but if you're shaming other guys for it, then you're taking it too far. In my experience, the vast majority of women don't make quality friends. There are a couple of women that hold a friendship down, but a lot of women just look at friendship as what benefits she can get from some guy without having to reciprocate.
because im not a phone person..and it aint that much in the word to talk about on a consistent basis
Youseenmywork
KING
Youseenmywork
KING
Yeah its a few Avenues you can take that tweet. I don't have a problem with guys having platonic female friends. It's the reason why you have these beautiful women as friends like what's the motive behind it? What are the benefits besides trying to get her to hook you up with one of her female friends? Is that considered a real Friendship ?
It's funny you say that, I lost contact with almost all the people I went to college with after I graduated because I hate talking on the phone and I'm not much of a texter . I came back home after graduating but no one I went to college lives here, it sorta sucks because I primarily hang out with coworkers and since they are all married and have kids I don't even do that much