dude you're overthinking it. a first date should never ever, i repeat ever, i repeat NEVER EVER be more than any of these:
coffee
drinks
restaurants
anyone who tells u different is most likely naive or just haven't thought about it long enough to see the pitfalls of anything other than these three.
and if im reading correctly, did u really think taking a girl "painting" on a first date was a wise idea? wtf??
when u take a girl to drinks, u can control how much she drinks by limiting the amount of time u spend wiht her on that date. if ur not feeling a girl, or if u sense shes not feeling u, ask for the check and jet out of there. there's no way a chick should consume more than 3 drinks. by the 2nd drink u should be feeling her out to see if she's down to head back to your place.
i really cant believe some of u guys in here. painting? on the first date? jeez
Yea I have no idea what you are even talking about so I won't bother further responding, because you are putting words in my mouth that I never said


