Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mr Hate Coffee

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brehs... Don't fall for the woman argument trap.

Peep this I just got off the phone with a chick who I was cool with. She came to visit for the holiday and at the last minute asked to crash at my place. I was like cool. The entire time leading up she'd say shyt like "We're not gonna have sex." I was like cool. :manny: I'm old enough now to know that sex with most chicks means trouble. I value my peace of mind over the poon these days.

So she comes over and we kick it. First night I don't even do anything. Next day she throws it at me and I'm like :yeshrug: and it goes down. Later that day she proceeds to go in on me about how I only wanted her for sex. I'm like :dwillhuh: Then she calms down an hour later like nothing happened and asks me if I want to have sex again later. :mindblown: I was like :patrice: well maybe she realizes it's not a big deal and obliged.

So the next day she goes in on me again about how men aren't shyt and only want her for sex. I'm like :dwillhuh: and then tell her that we should just be friends. She tries to have sex with me one more time but I reject it. She leaves and we're on a good note. :blessed:

So she gets home and calls me up and asks if I want to be friends or more. I'm like :whoa: "let's just be friends. You're out of town and we have some personality differences that lead to problems." She then proceeds to go in on me for an hour on the phone. Now I'm a veteran so I just remain calm and don't bite. She literally spends the whole time berating me and baiting me into an argument. Finally I couldn't take it and gave her a dose of truth. Then she says I'm disrespectful and starts crying. :dwillhuh: Afterwards she says I hurt her and eventually I just had to hang up the phone because it was going no where positive.

So here's what happened. It's a classic woman tactic. She got rejected and couldn't process it so she needed a reason for her to be done with me instead. Her keeping me on the phone was a marathon strategy to wear me out and bait me into saying something inflammatory. Once I said that she could claim victim (every woman's favorite activity) and shift the narrative to how I hurt her and was a shytty guy.

Honestly, I have no one to blame but myself. I've seen these tactics by an ex girlfriend and should have known better. I'm just sharing with you guys so you can avoid the trap as well.
 

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brehs... Don't fall for the woman argument trap.



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So she gets home and calls me up and asks if I want to be friends or more. I'm like :whoa: "let's just be friends. You're out of town and we have some personality differences that lead to problems." She then proceeds to go in on me for an hour on the phone. Now I'm a veteran so I just remain calm and don't bite. She literally spends the whole time berating me and baiting me into an argument. Finally I couldn't take it and gave her a dose of truth. Then she says I'm disrespectful and starts crying. :dwillhuh: Afterwards she says I hurt her and eventually I just had to hang up the phone because it was going no where positive.

So here's what happened. It's a classic woman tactic. She got rejected and couldn't process it so she needed a reason for her to be done with me instead. Her keeping me on the phone was a marathon strategy to wear me out and bait me into saying something inflammatory. Once I said that she could claim victim (every woman's favorite activity) and shift the narrative to how I hurt her and was a shytty guy.

Honestly, I have no one to blame but myself. I've seen these tactics by an ex girlfriend and should have known better. I'm just sharing with you guys so you can avoid the trap as well.

Why stay on the phone for an hour just to hear her bytch and complain when you already Xed her?
 

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This is a random post guys but im serious. So i never wore diamond stud earrings before but was thinking of getting one for one of my ears.

never had an earring before.

Remember this thread is about self improvement too...i just want to spice up my physical appearance...already started gettng better haircuts and making sure i have clothes that fit me better after lifting iron this year.

can someone tell me the proces
 

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Why stay on the phone for an hour just to hear her bytch and complain when you already Xed her?

Nikka said SHE KEPT me on the phone, No you kept yourself on the phone lol

I still have another level of #HOH to reach I guess. I didn't have it in me to hang up. She was not letting me get off without doing something drastic.

Looking back I should've just hung up.
 

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How do y'all keep a roster of females?

I have 2 with another who's a possible and I just don't have time to keep em all happy, with school, work, gym, and time to myself:deadmanny:

Tomorrow is Labor Day and all 3 want to me to spend time with them:snoop:if I don't come up with a system I'm going to lose 2 of the 3
 

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no one cares to here about your bullshyt bestie stories in here. take that shyt to the salon.
I'm documenting this for ME. Putting me on ignore takes less than 2 seconds and poof, just like that I don't exist.

Give a shot cuz I'm doing the same :salute:
 

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accountability is rarely in a woman's DNA, you will get blamed for everything.

Just cut the cord and don't look back, women like these are nothing but trouble

brehs... Don't fall for the woman argument trap.

Peep this I just got off the phone with a chick who I was cool with. She came to visit for the holiday and at the last minute asked to crash at my place. I was like cool. The entire time leading up she'd say shyt like "We're not gonna have sex." I was like cool. :manny: I'm old enough now to know that sex with most chicks means trouble. I value my peace of mind over the poon these days.

So she comes over and we kick it. First night I don't even do anything. Next day she throws it at me and I'm like :yeshrug: and it goes down. Later that day she proceeds to go in on me about how I only wanted her for sex. I'm like :dwillhuh: Then she calms down an hour later like nothing happened and asks me if I want to have sex again later. :mindblown: I was like :patrice: well maybe she realizes it's not a big deal and obliged.

So the next day she goes in on me again about how men aren't shyt and only want her for sex. I'm like :dwillhuh: and then tell her that we should just be friends. She tries to have sex with me one more time but I reject it. She leaves and we're on a good note. :blessed:

So she gets home and calls me up and asks if I want to be friends or more. I'm like :whoa: "let's just be friends. You're out of town and we have some personality differences that lead to problems." She then proceeds to go in on me for an hour on the phone. Now I'm a veteran so I just remain calm and don't bite. She literally spends the whole time berating me and baiting me into an argument. Finally I couldn't take it and gave her a dose of truth. Then she says I'm disrespectful and starts crying. :dwillhuh: Afterwards she says I hurt her and eventually I just had to hang up the phone because it was going no where positive.

So here's what happened. It's a classic woman tactic. She got rejected and couldn't process it so she needed a reason for her to be done with me instead. Her keeping me on the phone was a marathon strategy to wear me out and bait me into saying something inflammatory. Once I said that she could claim victim (every woman's favorite activity) and shift the narrative to how I hurt her and was a shytty guy.

Honestly, I have no one to blame but myself. I've seen these tactics by an ex girlfriend and should have known better. I'm just sharing with you guys so you can avoid the trap as well.
 
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