LandryFieldsDad
All Star
^yeah. Just like to contribute whenever I get a glimpse into the warped
Female mind
Female mind
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
yup i learned the hard way
the less you text her..the more you are winning
one word text>>>>>
You should asked why they are still single?
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
we've al been down that road before, just ridiculous how some people have no remorse for their actions. One of these days they'll fukk with the wrong dude and it won't end well
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
That would have been perfect.
Kenny West
Veteran
"Married for 5 years, 6 kids. Still quite young (mid 30's)
Always been a bit of a nerd, not great looking but not a complete John Merrick. Met a girl had sex got pregnant. 9 years or so later we have 6 kids. Recently there has been a event that has pushed my other half over the edge. Something personal to her that has made her act out of character (or even back in character after all these years)
First wierd thing is she changes her Facebook password. I never normally check but I thought it strange when I logged in accidenttiley via a cookie and it gave me the error. Wierd.
Confronted her, made some crazy excuse. From then on she never I mean never logged into Facebook from any one of the 3 computers in the house. Only ever used her phone. More doubt.
She starts buying clothes. Never done that for years, worried about her weight, starts exercising. I guess all the usual signs.
So I install a keylogger. Not proud of it, but I did. I did try to scan the network traffic using wireshark but could never quite get it right.
Anyway took a few weeks, she was very careful, but finally got the P/W. Here is the kicker, the P/W is Ilove[mansname], wow. Ok.
I get on the account and search around and think that [mansname] is her cousin. Cool maybe thats cool. phew. Logged on tonight and find personal messages from another person with [mansname]
Some really personal shyt, talking about kissing each other and stuff like that. I don't know at this point if they / she has actually been cheating but the language used certainly implies this.
My plan is to lurk on the account untill I have concrete evidence present her with it and leave."
More: Possible cheating wife. Advise [35] [10 years together] : relationships
Always been a bit of a nerd, not great looking but not a complete John Merrick. Met a girl had sex got pregnant. 9 years or so later we have 6 kids. Recently there has been a event that has pushed my other half over the edge. Something personal to her that has made her act out of character (or even back in character after all these years)
First wierd thing is she changes her Facebook password. I never normally check but I thought it strange when I logged in accidenttiley via a cookie and it gave me the error. Wierd.
Confronted her, made some crazy excuse. From then on she never I mean never logged into Facebook from any one of the 3 computers in the house. Only ever used her phone. More doubt.
She starts buying clothes. Never done that for years, worried about her weight, starts exercising. I guess all the usual signs.
So I install a keylogger. Not proud of it, but I did. I did try to scan the network traffic using wireshark but could never quite get it right.
Anyway took a few weeks, she was very careful, but finally got the P/W. Here is the kicker, the P/W is Ilove[mansname], wow. Ok.
I get on the account and search around and think that [mansname] is her cousin. Cool maybe thats cool. phew. Logged on tonight and find personal messages from another person with [mansname]
Some really personal shyt, talking about kissing each other and stuff like that. I don't know at this point if they / she has actually been cheating but the language used certainly implies this.
My plan is to lurk on the account untill I have concrete evidence present her with it and leave."
More: Possible cheating wife. Advise [35] [10 years together] : relationships
gameover82
Pro
Yeah, I really feel sorry for you 90s babies. Ya'll have the generation of countless social networking and whore media blasting on television. At least during our era, we had a couple of decades of 'wholesome' shows. Whoredom wasn't nowhere near celebrated as it is now with shows like Bad Girls Club, Jersey Shore and the 50,000 other reality shows. Couple that with the idolization of women like Kim Kardashian and the such, it's really tough for ya'lls generation to find a wholesome women. Ya'll are the ones who need the knowledge the most, especially with the laws so tilted against ya'll.
Yo guys, I got to tell you this shyt that I just seen tonight at the bar (Long Read).
A couple of days ago, I went to a speed dating event in my area just to meet some new women and try to see if I can have some luck. One of my "dates" who seem cool was a former "model" who has two kids (30-ish white girl). So when I came to my picks at the end of the event, I wasn't going to pick her because of the kids but at the same time, I not looking for anything serious because I'm planning to move to Cali, so I said fukk it and pick her as one of my dates that i would like to know. The following day, I get an email from the event that she choose me too and gave me her email address. The next day I email her to see if she would be interested in meeting sometime. I don't get a response from her so I just chalk it up as a L and keep it moving.
Tonight when I go to the bar just to chill, guess who I see at the bar? Yup, the "model" chic with her girl and a simp ass guy ( 40-ish white guy). Now, I not chasing any bytches so i keep doing my thing at the bar and want to see if she recognize me. But at the same time I was watching this chic and let me say that I was a blessing in disguised that I was being ignored from her and seeing this shyt from her.
This chic was having this simp buy her and her girl drinks while she is dancing and grinding on the dance floor with 2 or 3 nikkaz while he is just chilling at the bar with NO fukkS TO GIVE!!!! Literally, this chic was having these 3 nikkaz grind on her ass, feel on her ass, popping her ass and pull her skirt up to see her panties and was enjoying that shyt. I had the
and 
look on my face watching this chic. What makes it more sad is that this simp just chill there with the 
and 
look and didn't do shyt. She even stop by every now and just to kiss the simp on the cheeks, give a pity dance and get another drink before going back to the 3 guys to get 
again. When I went outside later on to get a breather, there she is talking to the 3 dudes telling them the the simp is NOT her man and that she got to do her.
Brehs, how can a man let a women be so disrespectful in public and just eat it? I woulda left that bytch at the bar for that shyt but this simp was still trying to be the good dude for this scandalous ass hoe at the end of the night. We need to see these gems to the general public so that they can know how some of these females are and protect themselves from heartbreak and disrespect. Ol boy even had the
and 
look on his face at the end of the night dealing with the chic. After seeing this, all I got to said is "Glad that is not my bytch!"
A couple of days ago, I went to a speed dating event in my area just to meet some new women and try to see if I can have some luck. One of my "dates" who seem cool was a former "model" who has two kids (30-ish white girl). So when I came to my picks at the end of the event, I wasn't going to pick her because of the kids but at the same time, I not looking for anything serious because I'm planning to move to Cali, so I said fukk it and pick her as one of my dates that i would like to know. The following day, I get an email from the event that she choose me too and gave me her email address. The next day I email her to see if she would be interested in meeting sometime. I don't get a response from her so I just chalk it up as a L and keep it moving.
Tonight when I go to the bar just to chill, guess who I see at the bar? Yup, the "model" chic with her girl and a simp ass guy ( 40-ish white guy). Now, I not chasing any bytches so i keep doing my thing at the bar and want to see if she recognize me. But at the same time I was watching this chic and let me say that I was a blessing in disguised that I was being ignored from her and seeing this shyt from her.
This chic was having this simp buy her and her girl drinks while she is dancing and grinding on the dance floor with 2 or 3 nikkaz while he is just chilling at the bar with NO fukkS TO GIVE!!!! Literally, this chic was having these 3 nikkaz grind on her ass, feel on her ass, popping her ass and pull her skirt up to see her panties and was enjoying that shyt. I had the
and look on my face watching this chic. What makes it more sad is that this simp just chill there with the and look and didn't do shyt. She even stop by every now and just to kiss the simp on the cheeks, give a pity dance and get another drink before going back to the 3 guys to get again. When I went outside later on to get a breather, there she is talking to the 3 dudes telling them the the simp is NOT her man and that she got to do her. Brehs, how can a man let a women be so disrespectful in public and just eat it? I woulda left that bytch at the bar for that shyt but this simp was still trying to be the good dude for this scandalous ass hoe at the end of the night. We need to see these gems to the general public so that they can know how some of these females are and protect themselves from heartbreak and disrespect. Ol boy even had the
and look on his face at the end of the night dealing with the chic. After seeing this, all I got to said is "Glad that is not my bytch!"Yeah man, that's exactly what I'm talking about. The problem is that so many men these days are slaves to the vagina. They will allow any amount of disrespect go on as long as the woman is halfway beautiful because they place her sexuality above his own self-respect. The woman just has to be half-way pretty and the guy is going to allow just about anything to go on.
The real deal is that when dealing with a woman, you should not have to gameplan for her and come with all these rules and behavior on your part to 'win her over.' That type of woman you were talking about, you cut off any hopes of her even making the roster and keep it moving. A lot of guys get this misconception that their own behavior will be key to procuring a woman's loyalty. "Maybe I can do something the last guy didn't to get her to remain faithful." That is the wrong answer. A cheater is a cheater. And if a woman has behavior that needs to be 'handled', you simply don't deal with her. Let these animal behaving broads roam in the wild. Taking them into your household will only incur disaster.
The real deal is that when dealing with a woman, you should not have to gameplan for her and come with all these rules and behavior on your part to 'win her over.' That type of woman you were talking about, you cut off any hopes of her even making the roster and keep it moving. A lot of guys get this misconception that their own behavior will be key to procuring a woman's loyalty. "Maybe I can do something the last guy didn't to get her to remain faithful." That is the wrong answer. A cheater is a cheater. And if a woman has behavior that needs to be 'handled', you simply don't deal with her. Let these animal behaving broads roam in the wild. Taking them into your household will only incur disaster.
Never tell a woman you can't live without her, you're doing a disservice to yourself. The only people I can't imagine living without are my parents, I have never known a world that doesn't have them in it, and I dread the day I lose them. I love my girl very much, however I do not dread losing her, I have lived life without her before and it wasn't some horrible existence. Once you tell a woman some silly shyt like that you've lost all power, the only exceptions are if she's given up a kidney for you or risked her life for you, outside of that 
Once you say some shyt like that, she has a free pass to do whatever she wants basically, because after all she knows you cannot make it in this world without being in her presence. Your woman has to know you are desired and wanted by other women, she has to know you have other options and can live without her if it comes to it, she has to know that if she cheats there will be no second chances at all. I stay in shape because I feel better in general, however the added benefit is that it caused my girl to get in shape when she saw how women reacted to me. I know she has other options as well, I'm not stupid, but it's good to know that cause and effect is clearly ingrained in her mind.
Also, my ex told me she loved me more than anything else in the world and couldn't live without me, I had the
face after hearing it. She must have expected me to return the favor, I just said that was nice and loved her too. I find it impossible to place someone over the two people that gave me life, raised me, fed me, clothed me and did it simply because they loved me. I know my girl loves me, but at the end of the day if she didn't find me attractive to begin with that door never would have opened and she wouldn't have gotten to know me.
There are conditions that come with love from a woman, there are zero conditions from my family. I refuse to tell someone that does not have my blood that I cannot live without them, I can't imagine life without my parents, sister or family in general, a woman? Please, there were decades where I didn't even know you existed.
Once you say some shyt like that, she has a free pass to do whatever she wants basically, because after all she knows you cannot make it in this world without being in her presence. Your woman has to know you are desired and wanted by other women, she has to know you have other options and can live without her if it comes to it, she has to know that if she cheats there will be no second chances at all. I stay in shape because I feel better in general, however the added benefit is that it caused my girl to get in shape when she saw how women reacted to me. I know she has other options as well, I'm not stupid, but it's good to know that cause and effect is clearly ingrained in her mind.
Also, my ex told me she loved me more than anything else in the world and couldn't live without me, I had the
face after hearing it. She must have expected me to return the favor, I just said that was nice and loved her too. I find it impossible to place someone over the two people that gave me life, raised me, fed me, clothed me and did it simply because they loved me. I know my girl loves me, but at the end of the day if she didn't find me attractive to begin with that door never would have opened and she wouldn't have gotten to know me. There are conditions that come with love from a woman, there are zero conditions from my family. I refuse to tell someone that does not have my blood that I cannot live without them, I can't imagine life without my parents, sister or family in general, a woman? Please, there were decades where I didn't even know you existed.