Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Keep your mouth shut brehs till the time is right , not saying to lie or lead on.


yea this is my problem. i will say stuff off the cuff and chicks will use that against me or know which buttons to press to really devastate me. be careful who you share certain information with. there's this chick i talked to who i was telling a story of how a previous mentor of mine who i respected cut me off ... guess what brehs, she cut me off the next day, that was the last time i ever talked to her.
 

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So you tell me last night you would get back to me sometime today in regards to Saturday and so far nothing. I expected more from a 41 yr old. You can walk your divorced ass to the bushes
 

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I'm bout to legally change my name to "Mo bytches" cuz quality p*ssy just keep fallin in my lap.
 

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I used to be against talking on the phone... I'd have anxiety about not knowing what to say, or saying the wrong thing.

But I've become a lot more confident just socializing in general thanks to the gym and a job that demands communication. If you're a smooth talker and have a nice controlled tone, you should use talking on the phone to your advantage.

Not saying to have 2 hour convos or start initiating phone sex, but a couple of girls I'm talking to right now beg me to talk on the phone just because they "wanted to hear my voice."

I use it as a tool to keep them engaged since I don't see any girls on my roster more than once a week... A few phone conversations a week for 10-20 minutes does enough to keep them intrigued until the next date.
 

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I used to be against talking on the phone... I'd have anxiety about not knowing what to say, or saying the wrong thing.

But I've become a lot more confident just socializing in general thanks to the gym and a job that demands communication. If you're a smooth talker and have a nice controlled tone, you should use talking on the phone to your advantage.

Not saying to have 2 hour convos or start initiating phone sex, but a couple of girls I'm talking to right now beg me to talk on the phone just because they "wanted to hear my voice."

I use it as a tool to keep them engaged since I don't see any girls on my roster more than once a week... A few phone conversations a week for 10-20 minutes does enough to keep them intrigued until the next date.
Definitively need to work on my phone game, the amount of times I've resorted to saying stupid shyt just to avoid that awkward silence is ridiculous:snoop:
 

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It's funny because I didn't wanna tell this chick I'm in school finishing a degree, but I kinds lied to make it seem more than that. I've caught myself lately lying to women a bit more only to hide certain aspects about my life I feel like they might be unattracted and because I tend to be very secretive about my life.

And yeah women have a set criteria and yhe guy they can only date but it's xomolete bullshjt anyway they'll crumble just so long as a dude can finesse it. It's more of a defence mechanism to weed out dumb dudes when in reality they're just tryna front

Who cares if you lie to women. Women lie to your face all the time. " I got a boyfriend" (while you are in a club she dancing like a hoe) we gotta stop caring what these whores think about us. They have no skill what so ever.
 

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So the girl I talked to Thursday for 30 min just sent me a text saying she will be able to get together tonight around 1030pm. She had told me she would let me know yesterday. This is the woman who is 10 years older than me. I'm thinking I'm going to tell her since she didn't get back to me yesterday I made plans. For some reason I'm just not that eager to meet her, and I don't want to waste time and money tonight especially after what happened with the last woman
 

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My personal keys to success:

1.) Get a IG/FB account with lots of flicks of yourself and ya friends /fam having fun.

2.) Approach Approach Approach!

3.) Have sum female homegirls who'll vouch for you.

4.) Cut off ya beard. Don't be lookin scraggly like u just came off tha set of Duck Dynasty

5.) Carry ya self like u da number 1 pimp in da United States.

6.) Wear some nice smelling expensive cologne

7.) Don't "phone bone" and "text bone" chicks. Use da phone n text STRICTLY for meet ups. 3-5 min TOPS!!!

8.) Remember, just like u want a real feminine acting woman, a chick want a real, masculine man.

9.) Flirt with women NONSTOP. Compliment em, tease em, hug em etc
 

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I started talking to this chick on POF, asked if we could get together next Saturday, she stated she would be out of town and then she asked me what I was doing tonight to which I told her I already had plans. Without me asking she gave me her number. With my work schedule I won't be able to get with her until the weekend after next. She will probably lose interest by then, but oh well
 

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i feel like i just dont give a fukk about things at times. im not sure if thats bad or not. i go from looking :pachaha:to:vingwhat:. im happy. but i cant help the looks on my face. i think i look too stoic around women. :francis:
 
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