Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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this is a myth.
i've never seen a dime who wasnt being thirsted over. unless shes one of those that never leave the house.
i say approach any girl u find attractive. and when u do approach, there's a certain way u need to carry urself to let her know it'll be her loss if she doesn't get on the team.

a man who comes at a girl on some "i'm trying to give you an opportunity to get to know me" type attitude, is the type of guy that will make these girls go "wtf??? give ME an opportunity?". have em all confused.

Shiiid, dimes scare the average dude TO DEATH. That's why u gotta be non average and go for it breh
 

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this is a myth.
i've never seen a dime who wasnt being thirsted over. unless shes one of those that never leave the house.
i say approach any girl u find attractive. and when u do approach, there's a certain way u need to carry urself to let her know it'll be her loss if she doesn't get on the team.

a man who comes at a girl on some "i'm trying to give you an opportunity to get to know me" type attitude, is the type of guy that will make these girls go "wtf??? give ME an opportunity?". have em all confused.

I've seen this stated over the years, and I must say, 8/10 for me, this shyt has been true. Sometimes I just go in not giving a fukk and expecting them to reject me but when they don't and actually give me the number I'm like :leon: , and they all say the same thing, nobody wants to approach them.

It's actually true in both cases they are either thirsted on or dudes too damn scared to approach them
I know from experience cuz I don't give a fukk how good u look im gonna approach with confident with nothing to lose with a simple smile eye contact and hi or hello how are u?

After we past that point success rate is really high and even when I haven't had success I still leave confident like it's her loss not mines too where a few times she changed her mind

Worse a woman gonna say is no to a breh
Just be calm and confident and smile and make good eye contact with a hello how are u? U be surprised how far u get with that
 

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Mann listen...


When a move moves a woman it's beyond words it's y when he hurts he hurts for real and it last so long and harder for him to move on so quickly
When u experience that shyt changes ur world upside down and ur foundation to where u see woman differently and even how to handle them and what u may want from them


 

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I was talking to this cute chick today while I was at the bookstore. She was physically my type and she really seemed cool dope personality with a good mindset on life. She was feeling me and obviously wanted to kick it. She really could of been good for me but the same thoughts in the back of my head kept coming up.

I could never love or care about her because she might hurt me. I could never trust her because she might use me. I could never open up to her because she might use that against me. I can't get close to her because she might desert me.

I don't think I'm any good for any woman anymore. shyt will never workout I'm too cold and distrustful inside.

Better off pumping and dumping
 
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Wanted to know what my coli brehs experiences have been with younger women.

Younger girls (21-23) ALL play the same fukkin game with me.

Every once in a while they'll subtly bring up other guys in our conversations..... I know exactly what they're trying to do, and it shouldn't make me jealous, but it still pisses me off.

These are girls that I'm already fukkin, so it's not me getting friendzoned.

Have you guys had the same experience or noticed any other trends with younger women?

I just don't pay that shyt any attention cuz I'm just using her for sex nothing more anyway
And I be like oh coo coo then I be like yea this one girl cute ass shyt gonna see her tomorrow since we hit it off the other night

Then that girl be all tight and in her feelings like y u telling me this
I be like thought we were having a friendly convo bout what's going on with other people so i brought her up like u brought him up
Not bothering me it's coo to me not like ur my gf or I'm ur bf
We just fukking around for fun :myman:
Then get hit with what if I want more
I be like I can give u more
She be like really
I be like yea
I be like how much more sex u want u then :troll:

She be like :mjcry:
I be like :manny:

Oh u mean a relationship
She be like yea
I be like na I'm good :mjlol:

How can u want one when u just were talking bout another dude just a min ago what kind of fool u take me for ur iust jealous and want something u can't have for urself cuz u thought I was only messing with u got the wrong one thinking that shyt

Side note: if they ask for proof of that so called girl gladly show proof it hits them even harder
Be like shouldn't have asked to see
 

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I was talking to this cute chick today while I was at the bookstore. She was physically my type and she really seemed cool dope personality with a good mindset on life. She was feeling me and obviously wanted to kick it. She really could of been good for me but the same thoughts in the back of my head kept coming up.

I could never love or care about her because she might hurt me. I could never trust her because she might use me. I could never open up to her because she might use that against me. I can't get close to her because she might desert me.

I don't think I'm any good for any woman anymore. shyt will never workout I'm too cold and distrustful inside.

Breh quit thinking that way
Should think more highly of yourself
With any female no matter who she is
And think is she worthy of me instead of the other way around

It's ok to be hurt take time to heal then proceed to move on take ur time no need to rush

And when u see a female of ur type or liking don't think bout love or how she gonna treat u

Just think of her as someone who seems coo I'll holler and slowly take it from there see how it goes
 

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Breh quit thinking that way
Should think more highly of yourself
With any female no matter who she is
And think is she worthy of me instead of the other way around

It's ok to be hurt take time to heal then proceed to move on take ur time no need to rush

And when u see a female of ur type or liking don't think bout love or how she gonna treat u

Just think of her as someone who seems coo I'll holler and slowly take it from there see how it goes
Ye have to change my mindset with that
 

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Fixed.

You gotta live breh. Believe me i fight being the same way.....my battle is being like that with everybody though.
Ye it is fear and I don't want to be vulnerable again but I have to take those risks. Just got to move different add some more nonchalantness and change the way i view getting to know people.

Should be just looking just to kick it not something serious.
 
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I was talking to this cute chick today while I was at the bookstore. She was physically my type and she really seemed cool dope personality with a good mindset on life. She was feeling me and obviously wanted to kick it. She really could of been good for me but the same thoughts in the back of my head kept coming up.

I could never love or care about her because she might hurt me. I could never trust her because she might use me. I could never open up to her because she might use that against me. I can't get close to her because she might desert me.

I don't think I'm any good for any woman anymore. shyt will never workout I'm too cold and distrustful inside.

Better off pumping and dumping


I wanna say most men have this in back of there heads but you don't want to live a life in fear. It anit health remember what you say and think WILL manifest itself in your life. Also be careful of your self talk. Bad self talk can cause all type of problems and majority of that bad self talk most guy wouldn't say it to there worst enemy. Put YOUR happiness first in life and be selfish if you have to to get this problem fixed cause most people will not care about you to understand. Handling what war is going on inside of you is the first step to getting out your own way .
 
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