Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Day 2 of my breakup:to:

Today was hard at first brehs. I woke up sad, almost had tears in my eyes. I already warned her that I would delete her off social media after we broke up but I still felt a little something when I checked and saw that she also removed me on Snapchat after I did. It feels weird now because most of the time I would use snapchat these last couple of months were for our back and forth snaps and talks. Not seeing her in my friends list or her name showing up everytime kind of makes me want to back off of these social media apps for a bit.

Despite mad urges, I managed not to check her fb, instagram, twitter or anything like that. I had random thoughts like "Maybe she already replaced me or she was cheating on me, I should check and see" but I figured out that what I don't know can't hurt me now. I've kind of accepted that it's over but I'm still reminiscing about our early days and our first talks.
 

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It's a struggle not to get too cocky or full of myself. A lot of times I get the thought that I'm too good for a lot of chicks and I have to check myself. Don't want to play myself or be a a$$hole.

I'm pretty humble in every part of my life but when it comes to this I become shallow and very picky:patrice:
 

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Day 2 of my breakup:to:

Today was hard at first brehs. I woke up sad, almost had tears in my eyes. I already warned her that I would delete her off social media after we broke up but I still felt a little something when I checked and saw that she also removed me on Snapchat after I did. It feels weird now because most of the time I would use snapchat these last couple of months were for our back and forth snaps and talks. Not seeing her in my friends list or her name showing up everytime kind of makes me want to back off of these social media apps for a bit.

Despite mad urges, I managed not to check her fb, instagram, twitter or anything like that. I had random thoughts like "Maybe she already replaced me or she was cheating on me, I should check and see" but I figured out that what I don't know can't hurt me now. I've kind of accepted that it's over but I'm still reminiscing about our early days and our first talks.

U ain't gotta do all that extra stuff like deleting her off social media. Just don't hit her up n shyt. Now, it's time to get at NEW chicks nonstop and have sum fun.

:obama:
 

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It's a struggle not to get too cocky or full of myself. A lot of times I get the thought that I'm too good for a lot of chicks and I have to check myself. Don't want to play myself or be a a$$hole.

I'm pretty humble in every part of my life but when it comes to this I become shallow and very picky:patrice:

U got da right mindset. Don't change that. Cuz once u got that mindset, it's YOU and it oozes out ya pores and then chicks see it and be turned on. Keep doin you
 

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Going thru a chick phone to me, is like googling "What Are The Signs That's She's Cheating On Me"......If u at THAT point, u gotta charge her to da game bub.

I agree....I've gone through 2 of my exes phones and I found exactly what I was expecting . Now if I ever have that urge again I'm just going to move on
 

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Day 2 of my breakup:to:

Today was hard at first brehs. I woke up sad, almost had tears in my eyes. I already warned her that I would delete her off social media after we broke up but I still felt a little something when I checked and saw that she also removed me on Snapchat after I did. It feels weird now because most of the time I would use snapchat these last couple of months were for our back and forth snaps and talks. Not seeing her in my friends list or her name showing up everytime kind of makes me want to back off of these social media apps for a bit.

Despite mad urges, I managed not to check her fb, instagram, twitter or anything like that. I had random thoughts like "Maybe she already replaced me or she was cheating on me, I should check and see" but I figured out that what I don't know can't hurt me now. I've kind of accepted that it's over but I'm still reminiscing about our early days and our first talks.

Stay strong breh. All you have to do to turn this into a W is just not contact her. That's all you have to do. Don't give her any attention at all on any kind of social media or anything and if she hit you up don't reply at all either for a while and eventually you'll be gucci might even be able to repipe her down the line and then curve her yourself.

Just don't respond or reach out breh. And i personally wouldn't check her social media either. It's nothin for a chick to find some thirsty dude so you might as well not torture yourself by looking for it besides even if there is a new dude that shyt will almost 100% fall apart soon enough.
 
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Does anyone else struggle with having a potential gem on your team but can't commit to her cause you enjoy the single, selfish, I do what I want life and not have to answer to anyone?
 

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So my ex text me this morning that she says "I want to be something between friends and a couple. I don't want to be in the way if you get into something with someone else"

thoughts :jbhmm:
 

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So my ex text me this morning that she says "I want to be something between friends and a couple. I don't want to be in the way if you get into something with someone else"

thoughts :jbhmm:

Tell her to kick rocks. She know it's about to get cold and she ain't got no options. "Something btw a couple and friend." Wtf is that? Bushes!!
 

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Tell her to kick rocks. She know it's about to get cold and she ain't got no options. "Something btw a couple and friend." Wtf is that? Bushes!!
sounds like a goofy bytch way of wanting to be friends with benefits.

I honestly don't see the harm in continuing to fukk her. Her body still perfect and her p*ssy still get wet :yeshrug:
 

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Fellas, if you are in a relationship and find out a co-worker likes you heavy and other coworkers are trying to hook y'all up but you aren't having it, do you tell your girl?
 
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