I'll be 100 @TRUEST the only nikka output I trust without fail. He's helped me out considerably
All this pua shyt screams of being miserable. Men can't be operating out of fear even if it's the "wrong" option. You take it and do it because you got your own comvictions. Don't be a p*ssy.

All facts right hereA man have to change himself first if he wants to change his surroundings and the things that happen to him
Oh I agree that women can be cold-blooded savages to inexperienced brehs.... but I don't agree with the pessimistic all women are whores attitude that gets thrown in here frequently.The thread got 2000 pages. You telling me women are not demonic?Agree. paying for sex is wack. i never done it. I'm saying get what ever so you don't wallow in wondering "what I did wrong" when she didn't like you from the start. A woman that love you wouldn't leave.

"On a more positive note, I mentioned about a month ago that I was hesitant about going on a date with this girl who is going for her PhD. I was sweating it because I'm barely getting my bachelor's at the end of this school year. Shout out to the brehs that said to not stress about her education level being way higher than mines
We had our 3rd date today and already set up the 4th for next week-end. I will say that she did interrogate me about how far I was away from landing my "career", and when I said one year for my bachelor's and two years for my master's program, she said, "3 years? Oh that's not that bad."
TL;DR
-Some women want winners RIGHT NOW.
But there are women out there that will accept you as an unfinished product, as long as you're on your way to being a winner. Don't let your shortcomings right now hold you back, as long as you're doing something to improve.
You know, it may sound bitter but anytime I try the slightest interaction with a female of interest it just proves that I'm probably wasting my time.
Try to text other message with this one female, pretty much ignoring me....so I stopped trying and deleted contacts. See her not too much later one night asking me why I don't ever speak and shyt....
I pretty much ignored whatever else she may have said and it kept it moving....
Its like I have to mentally brace myself for a lifetime of loneliness. Which isn't that hard, since I've been alone practically my entire life....
I see decent looking females everyday, but I feel I'd just be wasting my time. I would say my only hope is perhaps I get lucky at the gym I go to....but then again that may make shyt weird/awkward if I have to see them all the time after if shyt weren't to work out....The last sentence alone is pretty much telling if how my mental state is at the moment....
Yeah, I try and concentrate on other things (not doing too bad actually), but this nagging desire for female attention aint going away no time soon....hasnt faltered since I was Child, now I'm about to be 33......
fukk.....
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and life in general just aint really hitting like that so I declined. And I've never really felt comfortable with how my voice sounds so I don't talk that much let alone to random women out here.On a more positive note, I mentioned about a month ago that I was hesitant about going on a date with this girl who is going for her PhD. I was sweating it because I'm barely getting my bachelor's at the end of this school year. Shout out to the brehs that said to not stress about her education level being way higher than mines
We had our 3rd date today and already set up the 4th for next week-end. I will say that she did interrogate me about how far I was away from landing my "career", and when I said one year for my bachelor's and two years for my master's program, she said, "3 years? Oh that's not that bad."
TL;DR
-Some women want winners RIGHT NOW.
But there are women out there that will accept you as an unfinished product, as long as you're on your way to being a winner. Don't let your shortcomings right now hold you back, as long as you're doing something to improve.

On a more positive note, I mentioned about a month ago that I was hesitant about going on a date with this girl who is going for her PhD. I was sweating it because I'm barely getting my bachelor's at the end of this school year. Shout out to the brehs that said to not stress about her education level being way higher than mines
We had our 3rd date today and already set up the 4th for next week-end. I will say that she did interrogate me about how far I was away from landing my "career", and when I said one year for my bachelor's and two years for my master's program, she said, "3 years? Oh that's not that bad."
TL;DR
-Some women want winners RIGHT NOW.
But there are women out there that will accept you as an unfinished product, as long as you're on your way to being a winner. Don't let your shortcomings right now hold you back, as long as you're doing something to improve.
This pretty much mirrors my mindset almost to a tee, i'm 25 though. This weighs on my mind pretty heavily all the time. I feel pathetic for even talking about this with other people let alone strangers on the internet.
But some part of me can't shake the feeling that it's too late for me. Like I'm just so far behind the curve when it comes to dating, that it's almost not really worth it for a woman. I feel like by now, most people kind of have their regular groups of people that they hang out with and you generally pair with people from those groups. I got friends, but I'm not really the guy you ask to be your wingman for a night on the town. My best friend just invited me to some party but my wardrobe isand life in general just aint really hitting like that so I declined. And I've never really felt comfortable with how my voice sounds so I don't talk that much let alone to random women out here.
Part of me knows that I can't give up but part of me wishes I could so I could get over this thirst.
I carry around so much guilt and shame for not being better that it's unbearable.


Ya boy ready for a relationship. Its hard out here B![]()

I be getting so heated that I took a chick iphone for ignoring me n threw it on top on the school engineering building
I'm fed up with the Ls and games
something gotta give
