Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Nuke Dukem

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Who gives the best relationship advice in this thread..?? (Or should I just post in here)


Me and my girl broke up last week, and I want some real advice... I already know the let it go advice that don't help none though..


Ima post what happened in a minute
 

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Who gives the best relationship advice in this thread..?? (Or should I just post in here)


Me and my girl broke up last week, and I want some real advice... I already know the let it go advice that don't help none though..


Ima post what happened in a minute
@twan83
 

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Who gives the best relationship advice in this thread..?? (Or should I just post in here)


Me and my girl broke up last week, and I want some real advice... I already know the let it go advice that don't help none though..


Ima post what happened in a minute


Truest does

How long were the 2 of you together and who broke up with who?
 

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Me and my girl been going out for 2 years last Saturday...

Always been a make up breakup relationship...

Well about two weeks ago she started getting distant (less texting/talking)

Then about a week ago she said

" You try to be the best bf? How u always get petty over stupid shyt I ask you for lil things like when we go out for food you make me beg you for it u always give me shyt cause u pay for everything when u make wayyyy more money than me
Yea I thought U where the one for me but I was wrong I gave u a chance from all those guys that where tryna talk too me I choose you we where great at the beginning you where sweet and everything but then u stop
U sneaky with your phone too when your with me so u probably where talking to girls I notice I just didn't say nothing too you"


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Yea that too nd then we be fighting over stupid stuff
When I ask you for food you always get mad nd say I ain't getting you nothing I'm not stopping no where
You kinda push me away
I just got tired of it "




Now I am cheap... always have been, it's a flaw...

My last relationship my other ex got mad about me being so cheap too...


I'm at work but I can elaborate further if y'all got more questions
 

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Me and my girl been going out for 2 years last Saturday...

Always been a make up breakup relationship...

Well about two weeks ago she started getting distant (less texting/talking)

Then about a week ago she said

" You try to be the best bf? How u always get petty over stupid shyt I ask you for lil things like when we go out for food you make me beg you for it u always give me shyt cause u pay for everything when u make wayyyy more money than me
Yea I thought U where the one for me but I was wrong I gave u a chance from all those guys that where tryna talk too me I choose you we where great at the beginning you where sweet and everything but then u stop
U sneaky with your phone too when your with me so u probably where talking to girls I notice I just didn't say nothing too you"


"
Yea that too nd then we be fighting over stupid stuff
When I ask you for food you always get mad nd say I ain't getting you nothing I'm not stopping no where
You kinda push me away
I just got tired of it "




Now I am cheap... always have been, it's a flaw...

My last relationship my other ex got mad about me being so cheap too...


I'm at work but I can elaborate further if y'all got more questions


Off the bat, if you know you are cheap are you letting the women you date know this so you aren't wasting each other time?
 

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Me and my girl been going out for 2 years last Saturday...

Always been a make up breakup relationship...

Well about two weeks ago she started getting distant (less texting/talking)

Then about a week ago she said

" You try to be the best bf? How u always get petty over stupid shyt I ask you for lil things like when we go out for food you make me beg you for it u always give me shyt cause u pay for everything when u make wayyyy more money than me
Yea I thought U where the one for me but I was wrong I gave u a chance from all those guys that where tryna talk too me I choose you we where great at the beginning you where sweet and everything but then u stop
U sneaky with your phone too when your with me so u probably where talking to girls I notice I just didn't say nothing too you"


"
Yea that too nd then we be fighting over stupid stuff
When I ask you for food you always get mad nd say I ain't getting you nothing I'm not stopping no where
You kinda push me away
I just got tired of it "




Now I am cheap... always have been, it's a flaw...

My last relationship my other ex got mad about me being so cheap too...


I'm at work but I can elaborate further if y'all got more questions

Not much to go by
But where u stepping out on her.honest?
Also I get it if ur cheap but like the other poster said where u with other girls if not what made u change?
Also to be blunt sound like u share that girl cuz if she breaking up with u over this cheap thing after 2years shyt don't sound right
Need way more info
 

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Not much to go by
But where u stepping out on her.honest?
Also I get it if ur cheap but like the other poster said where u with other girls if not what made u change?
Also to be blunt sound like u share that girl cuz if she breaking up with u over this cheap thing after 2years shyt don't sound right
Need way more info
I'm back at work, and I'll have to reply on my next break..


What's some important info y'all need to judge my situation

I'll make sure to include it in my next post
 

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I'm back at work, and I'll have to reply on my next break..


What's some important info y'all need to judge my situation

I'll make sure to include it in my next post


All ur saying is cuz ur cheap and petty over stupid shyt is why y'all broke up with a mix of supposedly u being sneaky with ur phone

shyt doesn't add up breh after 2 years
Unless ur petty shyt is that annoying and bad
Cheap part is if u told her that in advance she can't blame no one but herself for that she knew that
What are examples of being cheap

Like I said 2 years of u being cheap I don't think is why
The petty part could be depending how often and what u do I could see that
Finally if none of ur answers seem logically she met somebody else simple as that no way around it after 2 years would be the most likely answer
 

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but then you have valentines day fast approaching.
i can do valentines day if necessary. thats just one jawn and if you play your cards right you dont have to do tooo much

but having to spend my new years with the betch? having to buy a gift (i be buying good, expensive gifts or i dont buy anything)...i'll pass
 
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