Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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i been there mr fieldsMickey Kane
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Sh*t like that annoys me.
How old is she?
How old is she?
Already playing games and wants you to chase, but because you didn't she brings out the I really like you it's just hard to trust...trying for you to ask why, so she can tell you about all the guys who treated her horribly
lol, she's a fukking retard.How about this one..
I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..
I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.
Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok
Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.
Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.
Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out"
Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh
if it were me, i'd wait and see if she starts sending texts about how sorry she is and blablabla. get her emotionally invested. then i'd mold her into a good fukkbuddy and take it from there. maybe she graduates from fb to girlfriend if she plays her position well. maybe not
Lol @ ill let you know by 6. That's just her using you as plan b. the instant a woman gives you any crap like that and I mean that very instant you tell her "you know what nevermind I have other things I can do just call me back some other time when you're free and we'll work something out"How about this one..
I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..
I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.
Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok
Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.
Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.
Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out
Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh
the key to solve that one is in the bold. if you're trying to get her to put out, get her to simp like they get us to simp. that way you keep her mind and by extension her body.
a woman is with you because she thinks she can't do better. but she hides it with confidence. if she thinks you know she feels that way she'll get very insecure and her emotional state will change. she'll start simping you. to have a successful relationship all you have to do is get her to simp without you ODing on the powertrip you get. go too far and she'll either start acting a little too crazy and it becomes a nuisance OR she'll focus all her energy to find your vulnerabilities and attack them until she can get YOU to simp. and once that happens, she'll simp you less and try to find another man cause she "solved" you. all this is not even done consciously on their part.
to recap: the best way to deal with a woman is to make sure they're ALWAYS slightly simping you. no matter how much time you've been with her (a few months or 20 years). you can never stop. i like your concept but one nuance or spin i'd add to it is:
a man could get his woman to simp a little and be happy with her and keep her in his life. some men will abuse the power and some won't. but they could still love the girl.
a woman on the other hand actually tries to get her man to simp and once he does, she becomes unhappy and looks for another man because she doesn't feel good about it. she can't be happy in that type of relationship (that's one lesson i learned the hard way...)
Craigslist? That site isin my area. A young man got chopped up in a garage by trying to date from craigslist. shyt is dead now.
im just glad the few craigslist encounters i did no wild shyt like that ever happened
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How about this one..
I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..
I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.
Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok
Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.
Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.
Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out
Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh
This is why I stop making plans on the weekend with women until We are really close. Been there breh...
"My SO makes about double what I make and he has no student loans, while I have three. He asked me to sign a prenup that says if we divorce I won't be able to take any of his money.
I understand that he's looking out for his finances, but I was hurt when he asked me to sign a prenup. I feel like he values his money more than he values our relationship and that he doesn't trust me.
After thinking about it I have decided I will not sign a prenup. If he doesn't trust me not to fleece him for his money then he shouldn't be marrying me. However, I will agree to never get married on paper. We can call ourselves married, go through the ceremony, wear rings, etc. But we will not register with the state as married. Then, if we were to split, there would be no messy divorce. We could just walk away, him with his money and me with mine."
Read more: Guys, if you were marrying a girl and she didn't want to sign a prenup, would you agree to this compromise? : MensRights
I understand that he's looking out for his finances, but I was hurt when he asked me to sign a prenup. I feel like he values his money more than he values our relationship and that he doesn't trust me.
After thinking about it I have decided I will not sign a prenup. If he doesn't trust me not to fleece him for his money then he shouldn't be marrying me. However, I will agree to never get married on paper. We can call ourselves married, go through the ceremony, wear rings, etc. But we will not register with the state as married. Then, if we were to split, there would be no messy divorce. We could just walk away, him with his money and me with mine."
Read more: Guys, if you were marrying a girl and she didn't want to sign a prenup, would you agree to this compromise? : MensRights
You getting it. Make dates with new women on Tues-Thurs nights.
this is the kinds situation where you need the ability to just walk away from the woman.
this woman is saying she's hurt that he asked her to sign a prenup? she's hurt because she feels if they get a divorce she should be entitled to his shyt? she is so self absorbed she can't even see it from his perspective. being prepared for failure is not the same thing as planning to fail.
this is the kinda woman where you just woke up and the house is on fire you get the hell outta there right now. you don't go looking for any stuff or try to save anything else other than yourself.
people's emotions get involved in this sort of thing and they make emotional decisions. usually compromises in favor of their emotions. i am a firm believer that your emotions should not come into play into major decisions you make in life. your emotions do not care about what's in your best interest or your well being all they are is single minded and driven by the primal need to satisfy themselves and that satisfaction may but typically is not in your best interest. many times that satisfaction is both short term and short sighted and comes at your own expense.
i read that whole thing and at the point where she lives in a building with a dude she used to date and talks to him and buys weed from him (hell smokes weed) he should have bailed. shyt like this isn't a dilemma.
this guy has low self-esteem that's the only way a guy would ever put up with some crap like that.
my policy is if you ever catch a woman cheating on you here's what you do and the only thing you do: next time you speak to her tell her its over and you don't wanna talk about it. if you really feel the need to talk about it tell her "you know what you did and I forgive you for it but i'm not dealing with the kinda person that does shyt like that." then tell her you don't want an apology and you don't wanna talk about it and stop speaking to her.
you don't explain how you found out, talk about what she did, argue with her about it, or any of that bs. you just end it because its already over anyway. its just a one sided relationship at that point.
if a woman ever cheats on a man she's rationalized a reason for doing it and feels justified in her actions and no amount of talking it out will change that. she's not sorry she did it she's sorry she got caught. also women don't typically cheat on men they respect.
there's no real way to fix it. if you keep dealing with her the relationship will inevitably fail you're just postponing the failure of it slightly.