Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Tenchi Ryu]

This chick on this other forum starting to lowkey harass my ass...




And I made it clear I don't see her like that

 

[twan83]

@twan83 (gotta tag u bro)

So I've had desert dikk for maybe a lil over a month...

Me n my girl Broke up around Halloween


So I went on a dating app n found a bytch that lived maybe 5-10 mins away from my crib...

She sent some pic on snap n iMessage n all that... she looked AIIIIGGGGHHHTTT

Good enough to crack at least...

So we talked during the week and set up plans for her to come to my spot tonight....


When she got here I went outside... my street lights ain't that bright and the car was dark...

But as soon as I got in her whip I was On the inside.....

This bytch was poppped... about 20-25 lbs bigger then her pics and the filters really changed how she looked..

But like I said I ain't had any p*ssy in over a month so I made the executive decision to bring her in the crib and crack...


I put a movie on and shortly after I got topped off and she swallowed which was a positive...

Then 10 mins later my dikk was still hard so I ended up crackin too


After that she got to talking about just stayin the night since she only lives about 5 mins away...


That's when I hit my guy n told him "I need the CALL".. He hit me back n said "BET"

About 5 seconds later I get a call from him and put it on speaker phone and he's tellin me his cars fukkdd up n I gotta go pick him up


She must've knew what if was cuz she immideataly grabbed her shyt and I proceded to walk her out and say goodbye



Now damn this popped bytch got me in my feelings about my ex... like damn my ex was fine as hell and I would've never even GLANCED at this bytch I just cracked and now here I am fukkin her


This shyt makes me wanna order two dozen roses and a promise ring to my ex....


I feel horrible and defeated p

U nicer than me I tell em aight no fukks given when I don't want them there

I mean at least u got some
But like I said before it's gonna take time a good while when u invest time with someone for so long let alone when u feel ur not on their level and they are above u
Gotta build urself back up like u don't need a female to make u feel like that but the other way around she needs u to feel her value or self worth while also getting over ur ex

Everybody has a diff pace on dealing with heartbreak only u will know when ur ready but at the same time letting like pass u by cuz ur taking too long is not a good thing remember that

 

[jalamanta]

I'm 29....

Honestly idk why... she started acting distant and then told me she wasn't happy anymore and hadn't been for a while but didn't know how to tell me..

It was a 2 yr relationship

I am 27 and my girl left me two weeks ago. She is the same age and wanted to marry/have kids, 2.5 years relationship. I wasn't ready to commit so saw this shyt coming. Probably should've married her.

Now I am obviously looking to get my dikk wet, but thinking whether I should drop my standards to get easy p*ssy. I am afraid that post nut clarity will make me feel like shyt, like it happened to you.


I think the better strategy will be just fap and look for more quality options.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

I am 27 and my girl left me two weeks ago. She is the same age and wanted to marry/have kids, 2.5 years relationship. I wasn't ready to commit so saw this shyt coming. Probably should've married her.

Now I am obviously looking to get my dikk wet, but thinking whether I should drop my standards to get easy p*ssy. I am afraid that post nut clarity will make me feel like shyt, like it happened to you.


I think the better strategy will be just fap and look for more quality options.

Yeah it's hard to say....

I mean the bytch was popped but the Top was A1... but was that post nut kicked in I was ..

I'd say get your dikk wet if you're coming up on 30+ days....

 

[jalamanta]

Yeah it's hard to say....

I mean the bytch was popped but the Top was A1... but was that post nut kicked in I was ..

I'd say get your dikk wet if you're coming up on 30+ days....

That pressure.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

my friends girlfriend been giving me them bed room eyes



so much tension



but that's my homie

Explain

 

[Prynce]

What thread

 

[TRUEST]

@twan83 (gotta tag u bro)

So I've had desert dikk for maybe a lil over a month...

Me n my girl Broke up around Halloween


So I went on a dating app n found a bytch that lived maybe 5-10 mins away from my crib...

She sent some pic on snap n iMessage n all that... she looked AIIIIGGGGHHHTTT

Good enough to crack at least...

So we talked during the week and set up plans for her to come to my spot tonight....


When she got here I went outside... my street lights ain't that bright and the car was dark...

But as soon as I got in her whip I was On the inside.....

This bytch was poppped... about 20-25 lbs bigger then her pics and the filters really changed how she looked..

But like I said I ain't had any p*ssy in over a month so I made the executive decision to bring her in the crib and crack...


I put a movie on and shortly after I got topped off and she swallowed which was a positive...

Then 10 mins later my dikk was still hard so I ended up crackin too


After that she got to talking about just stayin the night since she only lives about 5 mins away...


That's when I hit my guy n told him "I need the CALL".. He hit me back n said "BET"

About 5 seconds later I get a call from him and put it on speaker phone and he's tellin me his cars fukkdd up n I gotta go pick him up


She must've knew what if was cuz she immideataly grabbed her shyt and I proceded to walk her out and say goodbye



Now damn this popped bytch got me in my feelings about my ex... like damn my ex was fine as hell and I would've never even GLANCED at this bytch I just cracked and now here I am fukkin her


This shyt makes me wanna order two dozen roses and a promise ring to my ex....


I feel horrible and defeated p

with the advent of porn, i've learned to not attempt to fukk a chick unless i'm really feeling her. back in the day, i'd fucck almost anything just so i can say "i conquered her". now, for one, i dont have the energy. second, i have absolutely no interest in the effort it takes to kick out a girl the house after im bored. and i hate hurting people's feelings.

in ur case, there's a reason yall broke up. and from the sound ur post, it seems u were more into her than she was into u. cause if that weren't the case, u wouldn't be making a thread about it.

 

[John Reena]

Brehs I don't understand something

When I act like I want a chick and show real interest. You know like actually try to show value and what I'm willing to do I get no where. I guess i try too hard but at the same time if you want something you have to put the work in for it and go get it. I mean maybe I haven't learned finesse yet but if I want something only thing I know how to do is go after it until I get it. But a lot of the times when I show genuine concern, care, sincerity and all that prince charming shyt I get lukewarmness. I mean i'm not a ugly dude at least I don't think and I have tangible qualities that make me more valuable then a lot of men. I also have a lot on intangibles, I mean I know myself and my value so I know not too many men are like me. Not to be too conceited but I'm just different than a lot of dudes in my age group which is mid 20's. I mean I act that way towards girl I like cause I have real passion towards them not out of desperation.

On the flip side when I genuinely don't give a damn about a woman they come flocking. I mean I been acting like a total mysterious introvert lately showing no interest cause honestly I don't have any. I mean these broads be having full blown convos with me about all they business and I just be like "yeah thats crazy" playing in my phone. They offering to do shyt for me, give me food and buy me things but I always decline cause I don't take things from women as a general rule. Honestly it's annoying cause I want to be left alone but they keep coming at me. Why do women work like that? When you try to be good to them it's a issue but when you treat them with disinterest you get everything you want out of them?

To add on to my second paragraph I feel like I might as well try to get something out of this chick throwing something at me but my conscious is making me go like cause I don't want to take advantage of a chick. I try to live be honorable. I try to stand on morals and principals when it comes to the opposite sex cause I have this thing where I don't want to be like other men. Don't really want the label of being a scumbag who takes advantage of women cause that's not who I am. But she throwing it and it's so easy it got me like considering it . So I can either try to finesse this into me smashing on some fwb shyt but I know it will never progress pass that cause she ain't shyt lol. I also know that I won't volunteer myself to do anything for her pass me hitting cause I don't feel no ways about her to do that and i'll dip out if what I really want comes around. My friends saying I should go for it but I don't feel comfortable using somebody. I just wanted y'all brehs opinion on this situation cause y'all know more than me. I mostly likely want do it cause i'm not comfortable with it and it goes against my morals but at the same time I am a man and I can't front she peaks a baser interest in me.

I think with a lot of chicks, they been so used to getting hurt that they jaded n think EVERY nikka who tryna make an effort to wife em is full of it n just tryna get the draws n bounce. It's ALOT of hurt/jaded chicks out here. At da end of the day, it's on them if they gonna take a chance n meet a great guy or are they gonna just be stuck on past bad relationships. Don't chase a chick who not tryna be with you though, cuz she obviously got sum internal issues she gotta deal wit. That's why u shouldn't take it personal or think it's YOU when a chick not feeling you.

 

[TRUEST]

I'm 29....

Honestly idk why... she started acting distant and then told me she wasn't happy anymore and hadn't been for a while but didn't know how to tell me..

It was a 2 yr relationship

she got bored. whatever u do, dont beg. either make urself exciting again, or think back to the beginning of the relationship and start doing what u were doing then to win her back.

 

[Marezzy]

Brehs went on a date with a fine African chick last night and she got a dude trying to figure out how to get her down the altar in a year. Want to cut it off with any other girls I talk to. Feeling really outta pocket. Is this what love at first sight is?

 

[Mr210]

Brehs went on a date with a fine African chick last night and she got a dude trying to figure out how to get her down the altar in a year. Want to cut it off with any other girls I talk to. Feeling really outta pocket. Is this what love at first sight is?

Slow your roll, was this a first date?

 

[Marezzy]

Slow your roll, was this a first date?

Exactly, it was but I'm not dumb man but you know when you have a catch.

 

[Mr210]

Exactly, it was but I'm not dumb man but you know when you have a catch.

Naw I feel you, I feel that way about my gf now. She is nothing like any other woman I've dates or been with

 

[Marezzy]

Naw I feel you, I feel that way about my gf now. She is nothing like any other woman I've dates or been with

I hope I catch up to you breh