Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This thread is a perfect encapsulation of everything we've been talking about. Babygirl was just in this thread talking about rewarding her boyfriend and taking him on a trip and how she's representing another fella online

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/91732-phoenix-knightly-got-illadope-her-avy.html

Cats are in that thread acting bewildered, but we done told ya'll how it is in this day and age. They could just be playing, but even so, her boyfriend still looks like a sucker with his woman playing around and representing another man.

It be funny how cats think we are lying until the results show right up in their face over and over.

That's why I be telling you cats never to make decisions trying to control the vagina. You never have and never will own it no matter what she tells you, so trying to rush a woman into a relationship, rushing a kid in her (getting her pregnant), or any other such moves in order to 'lock her in' is drenched in sucker marinade. A woman will get to wherever she wants to be no matter what 'obligations' she really has. Believe that there.

even if its a joke it doesn't matter, the intent is there, imagine her man goes on the ocmputer and she forgot to log out and he sees that?

its like meeting a girl off a dating site you get serious delete your profile, and use her laptop and that dating site is open and she has a account still and she says shes only still there for the forums:duck:

and with these chicks nowadays you say something why you getting so angry for you dont trust me

or you dont check em in their mind your weak
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I want this shorty bad, idky either, I think I just wanna fukk. She be low key playing me tho, mad wishy washy. I already know what I gotta do and am gonna do, so I'm really just venting but damn I wanted to fukk :noah:
 

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Okay so I've got a roster of females I'm trying to and have set up dates with...

My question is ...

How persistent do I have to be with these females...

Like the average-below average females text back always and quick as hell usually


The good / better looking women text back but aren't exactly the ones to start a convo up or they might just drop out and then I start it up again later



* I already know if a female is really really feeling you they'll make the effort...

My thing is how persistent should I be with some of em... I mean I'm not gonna be like drake and delete a number off a one word response but I don't wanna push it if it ain't really going anywhere



*as I'm making this post I guess the best way to gauge this is to see how willing they are to kick it in person... that way I'll know who's bout it and who's isn't
 

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@twan83 (Want your input)


Okay so I've got a roster of females I'm trying to and have set up dates with...

My question is ...

How persistent do I have to be with these females...

Like the average-below average females text back always and quick as hell usually


The good / better looking women text back but aren't exactly the ones to start a convo up or they might just drop out and then I start it up again later



* I already know if a female is really really feeling you they'll make the effort...

My thing is how persistent should I be with some of em... I mean I'm not gonna be like drake and delete a number off a one word response but I don't wanna push it if it ain't really going anywhere



*as I'm making this post I guess the best way to gauge this is to see how willing they are to kick it in person... that way I'll know who's bout it and who's isn't

U act same way u would with the lower tier Imo

When I had a roster I wasn't gonna all persistent fukk all that I talk to u when I talk too u
The more effort u put in trying to get to know me the more I'll give back simple as that even then I still didn't talk as much just more than normal for those who put in effort and if I'm feeling em most slightly more just depends

It's a learn and go situation for most part
Don't put all ur eggs in 1 basket when u got a roster u spread it around some more than others

When it's time to be serious start making roster cuts till u have a MVP
 

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U act same way u would with the lower tier Imo

When I had a roster I wasn't gonna all persistent fukk all that I talk to u when I talk too u
The more effort u put in trying to get to know me the more I'll give back simple as that even then I still didn't talk as much just more than normal for those who put in effort and if I'm feeling em most slightly more just depends

It's a learn and go situation for most part
Don't put all ur eggs in 1 basket when u got a roster u spread it around some more than others

When it's time to be serious start making roster cuts till u have a MVP

My guy said he has a system..

It's 3 tiers..

Female 1 (Main) - this is the one you'd wanna make your main... you put the most time/effort into her..

Female 2 (Runner up) - She's not quite as bad as female number 1 but she has potential and you wouldn't be mad if she did become the main one

Female 3 (Scraggler) - she's the one you keep around to get ya dikk wet and you only hit her up once or twice a week..


My guys reasoning being that anything over 3 gets difficult, and hard to manage...


I feel you tho... it just seems like the ones I do go on dates with and am feeling don't hit my line like the ones that I'm not really into lol
 

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I just don't understand the logic of women.. You try to set up a date or something.. They make up something like they can't.. You respect the curve and don't hit them up anymore. Then they hit you up 2 weeks later trying to spark a conversation... :scust:


Women have no logic... in dating. It's all about intuition ...if it feels right , if it feels good etc


Just ignore them cold turkey ... they just want attention and figure why not hit the reserve of n!ggas that can entertain me ?
 

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for yall duddes on here who wants to see what a good woman is like and a woman who loves her man, yall should watch that documentary on Anthony Weiner. u can tell that woman respects the hell out of him, even if the whole world thought of him as a joke. the pain in her eyes over the things shes been put through, yet, she still stuck by him. i mean, i dont expect any woman to do half of what she's done for him. but if u find a woman like that brehs, u better snatch her up.

im watching this sh1t and i just cant believe it. 9 out of 10 of these degenerate women these days woulda dipped, especially when everyone else is making fun of their man.
 

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they were just listing some things that when they see...it usually means good for the chick they're dating. they're not saying they expect evreything
THat's cool. But, I'm usually against such specificity in dealing with ppl.

General stuff is smart; ie, no kids, has a job/degree, owns a home.

No social media is ridicilous and coli/SOHH brehs been talking that talk so long. It's so ":mjcry: I just want to have her all to myself so no one can take her" :dry:
 

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My guy said he has a system..

It's 3 tiers..

Female 1 (Main) - this is the one you'd wanna make your main... you put the most time/effort into her..

Female 2 (Runner up) - She's not quite as bad as female number 1 but she has potential and you wouldn't be mad if she did become the main one

Female 3 (Scraggler) - she's the one you keep around to get ya dikk wet and you only hit her up once or twice a week..


My guys reasoning being that anything over 3 gets difficult, and hard to manage...


I feel you tho... it just seems like the ones I do go on dates with and am feeling don't hit my line like the ones that I'm not really into lol


I had a roster as deep as the spurs bench while it was fun and great shyt is a headache after awhile I had a roster 12 deep :russ:

But i also had it to where i ain't ur Man U ain't my girl do u and I'll do me u gotta earn ur place in that line up and if u do right I'll start making cuts just cuz of u

As far as tier goes I get what he is saying tho which is true but also subjective it goes Case by case basis

Me personally from experience I only do 3 at most after doing 12 deep
Also nothing wrong having several numbers seeing how it plays out then start making cuts after while too

Still comes down to the most basic thing
They have to earn their place with u not the other way around
U make time for people who shown a lot of interest in u consistently and give them a some back and when u find one that suites u best u can give most to her and split what's left to the rest if u still have a roster

U keep a roster or make one cuz u ain't ready to have a relationship for how long as u desire but also understand some won't stay for that long too cuz they can't wait forever for u to make a commitment
So ur roster will always be changing up ever so often but u will have some who will stay around cuz they want u that bad or just wanna have fun or u laid it down that bad they can't leave
 
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