Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[1thouwow]

same situation breh. one mo again

I deaded her and went ghost on her last year. She hmu in the summer like I got a new number, I kept it brief. She came back to my job to work for 2 weeks (she's a reservist) and I kept it brief too. She hmu afterwards and I fell for the trap

 

[FukyourFort]

I deaded her and went ghost on her last year. She hmu in the summer like I got a new number, I kept it brief. She came back to my job to work for 2 weeks (she's a reservist) and I kept it brief too. She hmu afterwards and I fell for the trap

i deaded mine for a couple months. she came back and i assumed that she wouldn't waste my time. i was wrong

had to have a real ass "talk" with myself last night. im a take this L but moving forward no more damn it

 

[Soundbwoy]

dont ignore my post breh help me


still no text

Don't be desperate talk to other chicks

 

[Soundbwoy]

I got this female that I took to chillis & a movie the first date...

Now the second date she wants to meet up for bowling...

I can't imagine getting ass off of bowling... like I imagine we're gonna go and then call it a night lol...


Okay so lemme ask you...

Like I'm in a bad spot.... I still live with family and I'm late 20's...

The plus is I just pay a few bills around the crib so I really have a lot more money to myself..

The bad part is it's awkward as hell bringing females back.. it ain't like I really sneak em in n then my family gets to sayin "don't be bringing these thots here it ain't a hotel" lol..

So I'll take a female on a date, and if she don't really got a spot of her own either it's almost a pointless date unless this bytch is gonna fukk in the whip OR I get a hotel.. I ain't really tryin to waste the bread on a hotel unless it's GURANTEED p*ssy.. you feel me...

Also the bytch I'm dating now.. our first date was chillis and a movie

Now the second one is suppose to be bowling at night... idk I don't see how Ima get coochie outta this lol

Get an airbnb

 

[Soundbwoy]

This thread is over 800 pages and you guys are still overthinking this

 

[lamont614]

You ever feel like you wasn't aggressive enough with a girl
I felt I was too nice
Ok first date with this new girl fine as wine


Bowling then we went and got tacos didn't even ask if she wanted to come back to my place later
(She even hinted I don't have to be at work til late the next day)

My best relationships was girls I had sex with first night

We did kiss when I walked her back to the car





Texted her when I got home


Her reply "thank you everything tonight I enjoyed getting to know you !!!"
Texted her a joke about the date she didn't reply back


Maybe I'm overthinking


I member I texted her one time she didn't reply next day she apologize about it and we went on from there

update



so i said fukk it texted her hey was up no reply


then i went full simp mode
so i texted her a meme "you ignoring me what i do?"



she texted me i was at work calm yourself
me come over
her ha ha im not that kind of girl
me relax just wanted your company
texted some bullshyt back and forth i called no reply



yeah its a wrap with the 7 and 8 i have no problem game tight not scary

with 9 and 10s is i get to simpish on dates scary to damn nice talk to much
i was getting better at it


going thru a drought so my game rusty



since i already went simp mode im going go all out try to set up second date see if she want to hang out on new years eve if not leave her in 2016

 

[True Blue Moon]

update



so i said fukk it texted her hey was up no reply


then i went full simp mode
so i texted her a meme "you ignoring me what i do?"



she texted me i was at work calm yourself
me come over
her ha ha im not that kind of girl
me relax just wanted your company
texted some bullshyt back and forth i called no reply



yeah its a wrap with the 7 and 8 i have no problem game tight not scary

with 9 and 10s is i get to simpish on dates scary to damn nice talk to much
i was getting better at it


going thru a drought so my game rusty



since i already went simp mode im going go all out try to set up second date see if she want to hang out on new years eve if not leave her in 2016

Dawg what the fukk

 

[lamont614]

update



so i said fukk it texted her hey was up no reply


then i went full simp mode
so i texted her a meme "you ignoring me what i do?"



she texted me i was at work calm yourself
me come over
her ha ha im not that kind of girl
me relax just wanted your company
texted some bullshyt back and forth i called no reply



yeah its a wrap with the 7 and 8 i have no problem game tight not scary

with 9 and 10s is i get to simpish on dates scary to damn nice talk to much
i was getting better at it


going thru a drought so my game rusty



since i already went simp mode im going go all out try to set up second date see if she want to hang out on new years eve if not leave her in 2016

girls love stringing you along sent her a text lets kick it tonight (on our first date i talked about going to see fences with her) and on new years because im getting a table if not DONT TEXT ME BACK ill take the hint instead of not texting back and letting me be free


she texts back she cant tonight because she works and already has plans for new years ...since she texted back now i think i got hope but deep down i know its over
i give up she was fine too
plus was witty

 

[True Blue Moon]

girls love stringing you along sent her a text lets kick it tonight (on our first date i talked about going to see fences with her) and on new years because im getting a table if not DONT TEXT ME BACK ill take the hint instead of not texting back and letting me be free


she texts back she cant tonight because she works and already has plans for new years ...since she texted back now i think i got hope but deep down i know its over
i give up she was fine too
plus was witty

You're in scarcity right now breh. Get into abundance. Meaning if there's one there's more. Plenty more.

Don't cope, thrive. Would you be hurt if every day you offered a chick a million bucks and she had excuses on why she didn't want it. You'd be sad for a minute cuz you can see how perfect that money would be in her life but would quickly realize that's on her and if she can't recognize that it could change her life she probably wouldn't do right by the money anyway. So why stress yourself out over a chick not being ready to step her game up? At the end of the day you're still the shyt cuz you over flow with abundance to share with anyone giving you good energy.

 

[Mr210]

This thread is over 800 pages and you guys are still overthinking this

Too many naive clowns, some people just aren't worth saving....I got focused and smarten up around page 400

 

[CASHAPP]

Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.

 

[Soundbwoy]

update



so i said fukk it texted her hey was up no reply


then i went full simp mode
so i texted her a meme "you ignoring me what i do?"



she texted me i was at work calm yourself
me come over
her ha ha im not that kind of girl
me relax just wanted your company
texted some bullshyt back and forth i called no reply



yeah its a wrap with the 7 and 8 i have no problem game tight not scary

with 9 and 10s is i get to simpish on dates scary to damn nice talk to much
i was getting better at it


going thru a drought so my game rusty



since i already went simp mode im going go all out try to set up second date see if she want to hang out on new years eve if not leave her in 2016

You're coming off as desperate which is boosting her ego

 

[Mr210]

Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.

My current girl I didn't kiss until the second date.

 

[KnowledgeOfSelf17]

Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.

You have to get her comfortable with you
For her to kiss you. If she's feeling you go for it.
Be romantic and not a creep with that btw.

 

[Water]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?