Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

Im conflicted about the friendzone with females I don't have a problem if they don't want a romantic relationship with me and they think im cool so we could be friends but at the same time why should i be the one to listen to your relationship problems and not your close friends who are women

Only female friends I have are lesbians and 2 women I've known since middle school

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Only female friends I have are lesbians and 2 women I've known since middle school

How come?

 

[FukyourFort]

I don't keep female friends. I got aquaintances though. Overall they are one sided friendships and they want you to supply them male attention without giving sex. Attention to them is like sex to us

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I don't keep female friends. I got aquaintances though. Overall they are one sided friendships and they want you to supply them male attention without giving sex. Attention to them is like sex to us

Do you think they could ever legitimately be friends?

 

[Mr210]

How come?

Personally speaking I'm not quick to give someone the label friend, associates and acquaintances yes but not friend. So I have 3 female friends

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Do you think they could ever legitimately be friends?

Sure, but this only works when both truly never had any type of attraction for each other.

And this is usually VERY rare to achieve since attractiveness is what usually gets you talking to someone in the first place.

 

[Lo-Co]

I don't get attached at all. I hardly keep female friends anymore. I think I Hit the self-destruct button.

 

[TRUEST]

Im conflicted about the friendzone with females I don't have a problem if they don't want a romantic relationship with me and they think im cool so we could be friends but at the same time why should i be the one to listen to your relationship problems and not your close friends who are women

you're not being a man by agreeing to terms you're not comfortable with. u are the man. u dictate the terms. if u want a woman romantically, u let her know. and if she aint about it, u dip.

and when she throws that "aaah, u only want sex bullsh1t", u dont run away from it. u own it. "yeah im about sex. i want u. i think you're gorgeous. but if ur not on the same page, then, i think we should part ways. but feel free to link up with me if u change ur mind. " - u leave room for her to come back into ur life.

trust, she may act offended at first, but given women's tendency to overthinking things, she'll find herself intrigued by how u stood up for yourself and ur direct attitude. trust me on that.

what kind of man do u think u are being a passive idiot and allowing others to serve u a pile of sh1t to eat?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

you're not being a man by agreeing to terms you're not comfortable with. u are the man. u dictate the terms. if u want a woman romantically, u let her know. and if she aint about it, u dip.

and when she throws that "aaah, u only want sex bullsh1t", u dont run away from it. u own it. "yeah im about sex. i want u. i think you're gorgeous. but if ur not on the same page, then, i think we should part ways. but feel free to link up with me if u change ur mind. " - u leave room for her to come back into ur life.

trust, she may act offended at first, but given women's tendency to overthinking things, she'll find herself intrigued by how u stood up for yourself and ur direct attitude. trust me on that.

what kind of man do u think u are being a passive idiot and allowing others to serve u a pile of sh1t to eat?

 

[Lo-Co]

you're not being a man by agreeing to terms you're not comfortable with. u are the man. u dictate the terms. if u want a woman romantically, u let her know. and if she aint about it, u dip.

and when she throws that "aaah, u only want sex bullsh1t", u dont run away from it. u own it. "yeah im about sex. i want u. i think you're gorgeous. but if ur not on the same page, then, i think we should part ways. but feel free to link up with me if u change ur mind. " - u leave room for her to come back into ur life.

trust, she may act offended at first, but given women's tendency to overthinking things, she'll find herself intrigued by how u stood up for yourself and ur direct attitude. trust me on that.

what kind of man do u think u are being a passive idiot and allowing others to serve u a pile of sh1t to eat?

 

[Lo-Co]

Not much backstory really.

Took my shot cause I thought we were vibing, got rejected but made it pretty clear I don't really do friendzone shyt. Kept it cordial though but kinda went ghost, and now I'm an a$$hole and only cared about sex.

better than sticking around and being the emotional sponge that listens to her problems even though you dont give a shyt.

 

[Astroslik]

Update

We ended up going out for drinks and food last night at this popular bar in north hollywood, conversation went well and we talked about random shyt like sex, life and politics. She did about 90% of the talking which was GREAT, because i guided the conversation and did active listening. Brehs its KEY that whenever youre out with a chick she does most of the talking, you'll find out everything you need to know about her and women love talking about themselves. I just chimed in at particular moments to guide the convo where i wanted.

SIDENOTE- While at the bar i see this nikka pop in

i'm like because i literally just was talking to this chick about the show Atlanta, she never heard of the show so i told her to check it out. Dude sits in right next to us and orders a meal by himself, nobody knows who he was but myself. I ended up going to the bathroom he ends up coincidentally going after myself i dapped him up and said the show was fire and keep doing his thing . dude acts the exact same in real life as he does on the show.

Back to the story, after the drinks she ends up loosening up, she's a super lightweight and ordered some bullshyt fruity drink and started getting tipsy after like 3 sips I'm like and . Our convo ends up going fully sexual, we now talking about eating p*ssy and her sucking dikk and how she doesn't do that for anyone unless she really loves them and are in a relationship. She's also like i don't have sex with guys until I've known them for awhile i'm like because this is my 2nd time meeting her. Nevertheless I've always managed to get women who say shyt like this to end up sucking my dikk or fukking me rather soon after the comment(which relates to the climax of this story). after countless sexual innuendos and topics we end up asking for the tab, my dikk hard as hell and at this point i'm thinking about smashing and nothing else. For a split second i think about this website and what @Asantehene and @MilesTailsPrower said and i'm like these brehs were right, .


Now were in my car and she's like so what do you want to do? i'm like I'm not sure let me figure something out. As i mentioned in this thread i don't like bringing new women to my crib so i wasn't trying to go there, I asked her to go to her spot but she said her roommate was there with her mom and dad so she didn't want to go back i'm like and ready to throw her into the bushes, my dikk got soft because at this point I'm thinking she's just bullshytting and trying to play me. But then she asked how far do i live (insinuating to go back to my place), i over exaggerated the duration by like 10 minutes because i have a code of not bringing new women to my crib . Plus me driving her to my place, dropping her back home, then driving back home would be a inconvenience because we live in opposite directions.

All of a sudden she's like lets go to to the hollywood hills, park and look over the city. I'm like also because i forgot this is a perfect opportunity to smash this chick in my jeep, and i totally forgot about smashing in my car this whole night. We ended up going to this spot and i parked my car. We talk for like 30 minutes and all of a sudden she's like "can you massage my shoulders?" . I'm like thinking I'm about to fukk the shyt out of this women tonight. Instead of massaging her shoulders i end up massaging her legs , she's like "that's not my shoulder lol" and i'm like "i can go to your shoulders if you don't like it", she's like "no thats fine keep doing that " She's like 5'7 and i'm 6'1 so giving her a massage in the front seat was sort of awkward because she couldn't stretch her legs, plus I'm parking in sort of a residential area and i didn't want these rich cacs to call neighborhood patrol on me . So i'm like "lets go in the backseat " she's like "yeah i think we should".


We ended up going to the backseat and I'm touching her thighs some more, i can tell she's getting wet as fukk because I'm getting closer and closer to her p*ssy and she's like and . Now I'm touching her p*ssy and fingering her. She's enjoying it and one thing leads to another and she's sucking my dikk and i'm smashing in the backseat of my jeep on a rainy night IN LA. the ambience was perfect . We spent hours in the truck and i smashed about 3 times, we ended up getting In n out after then i dropped her off.

Now she's blowing me up in text all enamored after i dikked her down.

I laugh at all of my overthinking about this woman because she's one of the badder ones I've talked to, i was starting to put her on a pedestal which was nothing like me. even karl stanfield was looking at her like . I Wasn't going to allow that nikka to take my bytch even though he pulled up in that new tesla .


I was overthinking initially about whether i should try to impress her or just go out for drinks (i ended up keeping things simple and not putting her on a pedestal which most dudes she meets does.

If theres anything to take from this story its this

1. Don't listen to what women say, watch what they DO. This chick went from telling me she don't give head and fukk unless she knows the guy for awhile to having my dikk in my mouth and p*ssy within hours after the conversation.

2. Keep things simple, reading books on PUA and all this other shyt won't help you if thats not who you are, although you can take certain qualities and apply it.
3. If you have a Truck or suv utilize its space

4. If you talk a good game about sex make sure you can back it up, i can't front i was talking mad shyt but i lived up to the hype . Although I'm only 25, i take my health and fitness serious so i performed in my audition and got the role now she's mine if i want to smash again. The 1st impression smash is key to continuance of fukk buddyism

@MilesTailsPrower @Asantehene

update

threw this woman in the bushes when i told her were going dutch when she invited me to go to boiling crab on her "cheat day" this sunday. (some seafood place where you buy pounds of crab, not worth the price IMO). The money isn't the problem, its what i stand for to be honest

When she kept bringing the topic about going to the restaurant i'm like "who youre going with? " playing dumb as I'm setting up bushes for her to fall in. I know where she's headed


Her "with you duh "

Me: "Hmmm maybe, boiling crab is kinda expensive and not worth it "

Her "true, i just want carbs actually, rice, pasta maybe even wing stop"

in my head I'm thinking , am i a fukking food bank to you, the audacity

Me: "you know were going dutch on that right? "

Her: "what does going dutch mean? "

Me: you don't know what going dutch means? , go ahead and google it"

Her: "so you mean pay half lol? *in a sarcastic tone*

Me: Correct , whats with the sarcasm though?

Her: no response for like 4 hours "there is no sarcasm lol, you said youre only there for good dikk and conversation right?

Me: yup, nothing wrong with that though, better than bad dikk and bad convo

Her: didn't say anything was wrong

Me: no response, bushes activated and she's thrown in

bytch is so entitled and also without a job, no car, going to some expensive ass art school for no reason, grew up rich but family took a couple L's so now she's not where she's used to. she started bringing up all these expensive places to eat like she's my girlfriend when i CLEARLY told her I'm just here for good dikk and good conversation nothing more nothing less (literally verbatim).

Funny thing is she got some older nikkas who she's fukking with that she told me about, why don't you ask that older established nikka to take you out to boiling crab and not a 25 year old breh whose still building his foundation


not gonna lie, first couple times we chilled i did pay for her shyt to but that was just out of KINDNESS smh, i normally don't even do that. but i fukked up rookie mistake


you give them an inch they want a mile

I repeat
YOU GIVE THESE FEMALES AN INCH AND THEY WANT A MILES BREHS!

With that being said, i got a bad thick Guatemalan that i just signed to the practice squad , her cousin linked me up with her, we shall see how that first date goes next week

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Be the rejector and start blowing up nikkas phones

What had happened

 

[1thouwow]

I feel like that nikka Good Luck Chuck.
All my recent flings are somehow in love and shyt with their next man

 

[Trapperman Dave]

you're not being a man by agreeing to terms you're not comfortable with. u are the man. u dictate the terms. if u want a woman romantically, u let her know. and if she aint about it, u dip.

and when she throws that "aaah, u only want sex bullsh1t", u dont run away from it. u own it. "yeah im about sex. i want u. i think you're gorgeous. but if ur not on the same page, then, i think we should part ways. but feel free to link up with me if u change ur mind. " - u leave room for her to come back into ur life.

trust, she may act offended at first, but given women's tendency to overthinking things, she'll find herself intrigued by how u stood up for yourself and ur direct attitude. trust me on that.

what kind of man do u think u are being a passive idiot and allowing others to serve u a pile of sh1t to eat?

Thats the thing im not even tripping if she ain't trying to let me smash but i wouldn't let her confide in me or use me. I don't have a problem with being friends with a chick its not like im going to wait around for her.