Only thing I can't change is my face (not really ugly but an unassuming/youngish face doesn't get drawers wet) and height but everything else is changeableself Improvement is key.
Don't feel bad Breh, we in the same Boat. The first Step is to be honest with tour self and that's what your doing.No matter what Stay focused.
the thing is, even if you level up in any aspect, you are still not entitled to shyt. At the end of the day, you'll either get what you want or you won't. Leveling up can only increase your odds. There is no such thing as "deserve" . The smartest, hardest working man could die broke and miserable just like a bum could win the lotto.It's gonna sound fukked up (just the realism in me) but the entitlement is gone. I know that in my current state, I don't deserve shyt involving females, particularly ones who areally attractive or decent. We're not supposed to go "what's wrong with me why don't they like me" but I understand the concept of SMV (sexual market value) and that today I have 0 and it's up to me to get it. Now if I wanted to slide in some wildebeest maybe but even then IG got them gassed. But I understand that if I ever want access to good-looking and/or cool girls I gotta lock myself in the hyperbolic time chamber so to speak.
I frequent here to gather gems so I'm not being a dummy when the time comes but I know now is about the self work instead of tryna play the game with no tools. I do be feeling bad I can't contribute though.
facts
. You're always going to. I get looking in the mirror but it isnt always something that's wrong with you. Sometimes its just nature. Sometimes you just dont have IT or your personalit isnt conducive to having tons of women. Being the most suitable doesnt entitle you to or guarantee you the finest of women and other luxuries in life. As men we gotta focus on the positives and stop blaming one another.facts
i'm probably a lot of what homie is saying he needs to work on.
fit (6'1, 200lbs, broad shoulders, six pack etc)
good looking
(last week one stranger told me I was gorgeous, another literally sped walked up to me and said she just wanted to say i'm very handsome)
own place
good job
money in the bank
well dressed
etc
And while I do eat with women a decent amount I still deal with bullshyt from the majority
That stuff I know. I'll probably never have 5 and 6 women in my phone at my disposal at a time like brehs on here recommend. I'm too aloof, too sincere, and will probably never get looks or reactions from women like the one you referenced. I'm also adverse to a lot of social situations (which is also why I'll never do shyt with music). But I can still get off square zerofacts
i'm probably a lot of what homie is saying he needs to work on.
fit (6'1, 200lbs, broad shoulders, six pack etc)
good looking
(last week one stranger told me I was gorgeous, another literally sped walked up to me and said she just wanted to say i'm very handsome)
own place
good job
money in the bank
well dressed
etc
And while I do eat with women a decent amount I still deal with bullshyt from the majority
Them sounds like handsome nikka problems
watch porn
Just blocked yet another chick
My tolerance level for bullshyt this year is zip zero stingy wit deniro.
