Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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At what age did yall get out the game and settle down? I'll be 23 in a couple weeks but i think im reaching that point

Im graduating this May and i have my career lined up, ill have to move somewhere once i graduate. So its hard to get involved with someone from my school bc everyone has their own plans after graduation.

Tired of hooking up:mjcry:
Tired of one night stands:mjcry:
Im at the point now where im not really hurting for drawls, but if i wanna meet someone new ill just go out on the weekend. Other than that, im real lowkey just chilling with gym/work/relaxing:flabbynsick:


Should i just lay low and save $$ till i move, then try to find someone in my new city?
wow. u got tired of it this early? chances are ur just tired of messing with chicks u barely like but who were just available.
 
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Women finicky as hell. Co-worker just stopped talking to me out the blue. Even my good mornings get ignored. Got me asking what the fukk I do to her?
 

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Y'all gotta stop hitting up your exes, man. A chick that is feeling you can't help but express it. If you have history with her and she hasn't spoken to you in months, it's because she doesn't want to. Love yourself enough to move on.
Yup. I was gonna try to find my ex (LDR) not to get her back but over concern for her safety cause 3 months with no speaking is odd. But I'm not going to.
If she's alive, she don't wanna speak. If she's dead, I can't do shyt about it :manny:
 

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Yup. I was gonna try to find my ex (LDR) not to get her back but over concern for her safety cause 3 months with no speaking is odd. But I'm not going to.
If she's alive, she don't wanna speak. If she's dead, I can't do shyt about it :manny:
Yeah man. And I'm willing to bet she's not like an orphan or something with no love in her life, so she has people that can check on her well being. Keeping those attachments up is a slippery slope.
 

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Welp another relationship down the drain. This one only lasted about 8 weeks. Thess past 2 weeks we havent been able to really see eachother. Last time I was her was last thursday. She's busy with 2 jobs and taking some courses online. Pretty much only get to see her once a week.

Trying to be patient but I told her we should just take a break. I'll fallback. If she wants to continue the relationship she has my info if not, I told her there's no resentment on my part.:manny:

She says she still wants a relationship w/ me but we'll see.
 

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Yeah man. And I'm willing to bet she's not like an orphan or something with no love in her life, so she has people that can check on her well being. Keeping those attachments up is a slippery slope.
She's not an orphan but is not really on speaking terms with her mother or brother. She didn't have much of anybody which is why I am/was concerned.
 

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She's not an orphan but is not really on speaking terms with her mother or brother. She didn't have much of anybody which is why I am/was concerned.

Breh my ex manic depressive and I'm pretty sure without treatment in ten years time shes going to be in horrible mental shape. I used to think it'd be nice of me to stay in contact to make sure she doesn't off herself or some shyt but I was lying to myself as I really wouldn't mind if I got back with her in the back of my mind. You got to cut these women off cold turkey. They didn't care enough about your well being or feeling when they left you so pardon the french fukk her well being or feelings. Its not our problem any more, its the next nikkas to fix that. We already did our part (if you were a stand up dude in the relationship) our obligation is over.
 

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Breh my ex manic depressive and I'm pretty sure without treatment in ten years time shes going to be in horrible mental shape. I used to think it'd be nice of me to stay in contact to make sure she doesn't off herself or some shyt but I was lying to myself as I really wouldn't mind if I got back with her in the back of my mind. You got to cut these women off cold turkey. They didn't care enough about your well being or feeling when they left you so pardon the french fukk her well being or feelings. Its not our problem any more, its the next nikkas to fix that. We already did our part (if you were a stand up dude in the relationship) our obligation is over.
If you got the impression that she disappeared while we were together that's not really true...I broke up with her. But your point still stands. Just crazy to not know if somebody who you once felt that close to is alive anymore. I'll be alright.
 

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If you got the impression that she disappeared while we were together that's not really true...I broke up with her. But your point still stands. Just crazy to not know if somebody who you once felt that close to is alive anymore. I'll be alright.
ahh. still...staying in contact only keeps the wound fresh. I had to learn this personally for myself. I still care about my ex a lot and hope shes alright. but its not in my best interest to find out. if she is good. if not hopefully i don't here about it.
 

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Well this page just made me think about ex
Her birthdays coming up and i wonder if i should tell her
 
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