Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Crayola Coyote

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breh said it best u can't be that blunt unless u know how to work ur word game which isn't worth it

Ex; broad I met talked to her whole night and she was really feeling me and looking for something also is what vibe I got from her
So I was like I keep it 100 with u I ain't looking for nothing serious
Just enjoying life to the fullest but if u want someone to hit up and mess around with I'm game and she was like oh I see well ok but don't catch feelings for me then (which I don't and they do)


Other times Some I will tell straight up I just wanna fukk and they will say yes or no

If a female is feeling u enough some will straight up let u hit off the bat or talk that shyt I ain't like that and let u hit or u just won't get play at all


It's just best to say I ain't looking for nothing serious right now but for the right girl I will make an exception line (paraphrasing what he said)
You will get a better success that way

I skip all that "listen I'm gonna be straight up with you" I just get to the point, I do not have time for all that talking. Just not interested. She down or not. Other chicks in the room I gotta talk to also.
 

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You can convey the same message with your words without being so blunt.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but I'll make an exception if the right girl comes along"

^ Same message, but you won't scare chicks off.

I feel like I'm giving her hope that she will be my gf instead of just dropping the panties. But I'll copy/paste this in my iPhone. :dame:
 

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I skip all that "listen I'm gonna be straight up with you" I just get to the point, I do not have time for all that talking. Just not interested. She down or not. Other chicks in the room I gotta talk to also.

I feel u on that but if ur wondering y u ain't getting play
Being blunt isn't always the way to go without something added with it
Yea they may be other females but if u keep running into same issue
Then it comes down too u may need to put in more work before getting to straight to the point breh

If u don't wanna say what breh said
And u just wanna smash from get go
Reality is a few things

1. U ain't got it like that enough to even be that straight forward to them without some additive too it

2. Choose ur words carefully and word it differently too see if response will get better results

Imo u need to have them damn near peak level while engaging convo
I mean they really feeling u laughing and touching u then tell them what's up but not to that blunt extreme
Not a lot of guys can do that bluntness and it work some can most don't so what u do is like any sport U ADJUST YOUR GAME that's key

U see or feel u got her where u want
Sometimes tell tell signs can tell u off bat she down to fukk


Ex: u dancing with her be smooth and she grinding on u
You could easily move ur head closer to her or usually they do and if she over her caressing ur damn face and shyt 9/10 she wanna fukk

Then talk to her bout hey u wanna get out here and she probably will say yea
And hate to break it too u breh I mean a lot want that adventure sex where she really wants it there and now where going to ur place or hers ain't gonna cut it
U gonna need to find a spot close by bar or club and smash outside or in ur car cuz they want that high of being possible caught or the sense of adventure to where they down to fukk right now around the area

And if u ain't down u lost breh
Too many times that end up being the case for me whether It's my car or outside that shyt turns them on like crazy

But understand it's not always gonna happen and also being too blunt can backfire and sometimes u gotta smash on site too that's how the game is
If u don't learn to adjust ur game breh ur gonna keep having same issues and whether some of us give u diff advice or same
It doesn't work for some and works for others
It's the effort and adjustment u make that can make the difference
 

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I feel u on that but if ur wondering y u ain't getting play
Being blunt isn't always the way to go without something added with it
Yea they may be other females but if u keep running into same issue
Then it comes down too u may need to put in more work before getting to straight to the point breh

If u don't wanna say what breh said
And u just wanna smash from get go
Reality is a few things

1. U ain't got it like that enough to even be that straight forward to them without some additive too it

2. Choose ur words carefully and word it differently too see if response will get better results

Imo u need to have them damn near peak level while engaging convo
I mean they really feeling u laughing and touching u then tell them what's up but not to that blunt extreme
Not a lot of guys can do that bluntness and it work some can most don't so what u do is like any sport U ADJUST YOUR GAME that's key

U see or feel u got her where u want
Sometimes tell tell signs can tell u off bat she down to fukk


Ex: u dancing with her be smooth and she grinding on u
You could easily move ur head closer to her or usually they do and if she over her caressing ur damn face and shyt 9/10 she wanna fukk

Then talk to her bout hey u wanna get out here and she probably will say yea
And hate to break it too u breh I mean a lot want that adventure sex where she really wants it there and now where going to ur place or hers ain't gonna cut it
U gonna need to find a spot close by bar or club and smash outside or in ur car cuz they want that high of being possible caught or the sense of adventure to where they down to fukk right now around the area

And if u ain't down u lost breh
Too many times that end up being the case for me whether It's my car or outside that shyt turns them on like crazy

But understand it's not always gonna happen and also being too blunt can backfire and sometimes u gotta smash on site too that's how the game is
If u don't learn to adjust ur game breh ur gonna keep having same issues and whether some of us give u diff advice or same
It doesn't work for some and works for others
It's the effort and adjustment u make that can make the difference
You gotta adjust like belicheck did in the 2nd half vs the patriots
 

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You gotta adjust like belicheck did in the 2nd half vs the patriots

It's true u can have elite game and run into the gsw down 3-1 and just need that slight opening or adjustment to comeback and win the chip on a difficult female

Adjustment is the biggest thing most brehs don't make it can be a simple as adjustment or something drastic sometimes if u really wanna get down

And also patience can benefit u

Not saying u should do this to all females but if u that determine take that approach
 

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Yea man it's true but I was in an area of town I'm never really around and I just said to myself

"Why not".

I got a "No" but the world is still spinning, but I do catch your drift.
I agree. As long as you're not worried about rejection there's never a reason not to shoot your shot. Worst that happens is she says no.
 

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It's true u can have elite game and run into the gsw down 3-1 and just need that slight opening or adjustment to comeback and win the chip on a difficult female

Adjustment is the biggest thing most brehs don't make it can be a simple as adjustment or something drastic sometimes if u really wanna get down

And also patience can benefit u

Not saying u should do this to all females but if u that determine take that approach

I use to ask "how do you feel about sucking dikk?" I get response as chicks throwing their drink at me, getting yelled at or ignored. Then I reword it as "how do you feel about giving head" and got a response as "well.. I like giving head and pleasing the guy I'm with.. " so when that went the way I wanted it to go with I asked another question "well.. I'm looking for a woman that is interested in giving head and enjoys it. Not interested in sex. Are you that type of woman? Cause if you are not I will end the conversation right now, ask another chick this question and go. you enjoy you night.. if so" she would tell me " well see.." but then I get super bored and look for another chick.. idk I guess she wasn't down:francis:
 

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It's true u can have elite game and run into the gsw down 3-1 and just need that slight opening or adjustment to comeback and win the chip on a difficult female

Adjustment is the biggest thing most brehs don't make it can be a simple as adjustment or something drastic sometimes if u really wanna get down

And also patience can benefit u

Not saying u should do this to all females but if u that determine take that approach
i needed to read this. i already know but sometimes you just need to see shyt in front of you for it to register at the right time lol.
 

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I feel u on that but if ur wondering y u ain't getting play
Being blunt isn't always the way to go without something added with it
Yea they may be other females but if u keep running into same issue
Then it comes down too u may need to put in more work before getting to straight to the point breh

If u don't wanna say what breh said
And u just wanna smash from get go
Reality is a few things

1. U ain't got it like that enough to even be that straight forward to them without some additive too it

2. Choose ur words carefully and word it differently too see if response will get better results

Imo u need to have them damn near peak level while engaging convo
I mean they really feeling u laughing and touching u then tell them what's up but not to that blunt extreme
Not a lot of guys can do that bluntness and it work some can most don't so what u do is like any sport U ADJUST YOUR GAME that's key

U see or feel u got her where u want
Sometimes tell tell signs can tell u off bat she down to fukk


Ex: u dancing with her be smooth and she grinding on u
You could easily move ur head closer to her or usually they do and if she over her caressing ur damn face and shyt 9/10 she wanna fukk

Then talk to her bout hey u wanna get out here and she probably will say yea
And hate to break it too u breh I mean a lot want that adventure sex where she really wants it there and now where going to ur place or hers ain't gonna cut it
U gonna need to find a spot close by bar or club and smash outside or in ur car cuz they want that high of being possible caught or the sense of adventure to where they down to fukk right now around the area

And if u ain't down u lost breh
Too many times that end up being the case for me whether It's my car or outside that shyt turns them on like crazy

But understand it's not always gonna happen and also being too blunt can backfire and sometimes u gotta smash on site too that's how the game is
If u don't learn to adjust ur game breh ur gonna keep having same issues and whether some of us give u diff advice or same
It doesn't work for some and works for others
It's the effort and adjustment u make that can make the difference

That didn't cross my mind to smash a chick/ get head right at the spot. I always say let's go back to your place. but I will readjust my wording this weekend. I only smashed a chick (she was 38 Im 26) once and got head 2x. Everything else is straight Ls after Ls. I have no problem approaching chicks in the street, bars, clubs, school etc.
 

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I agree. As long as you're not worried about rejection there's never a reason not to shoot your shot. Worst that happens is she says no.

How do y'all ask a chick to sleep with you or do a sexual act that you are not attracted to. She is not ugly, but decent. I cannot do it..
 
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