PewPew
I came from nothing
Bro if it was up to me we would be. But ultimately it is not. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Bro if it was up to me we would be. But ultimately it is not. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink
u are coming from a position of weakness though. sounds to me like u want her, but she doesnt want u as much of as u want her, and thats most likely because ur not making her want u. u seem too available for her. just from ur posts alone, u come off too agreeable. women dont like that. take the lead in that relationship.
and if u like this girl, u better act fast before some other dude knocks her up. right now, shes got a kid with u. and uve got the advantage. keep it that way.
Been chopping it up with one of the dopest chicks I've ever met, our conversations are great, she has a great career, she's 30 I'm 25. she goes to the same gym as me so we talk for all the time when we see each other. Time literally flies by when we talk. Bad Armenian chick with a crazy ass to waist ratio, very fun and outgoing. We talk about science and philosophy 
. We are so immersed in each other's convos, 
She's also a fellow alumni from my college.
Problem is she's married,
Closest thing I've had to that young innonence e wet behind the ears crush that I had before the game built me up and tore me down which taught me (and still teaches me) powerful lessons
It hurts though brehs
. We are so immersed in each other's convos, She's also a fellow alumni from my college.
Problem is she's married
,Closest thing I've had to that young innonence e wet behind the ears crush that I had before the game built me up and tore me down which taught me (and still teaches me) powerful lessons
It hurts though brehs
You know what u gotta doBeen chopping it up with one of the dopest chicks I've ever met, our conversations are great, she has a great career, she's 30 I'm 25. she goes to the same gym as me so we talk for all the time when we see each other. Time literally flies by when we talk. Bad Armenian chick with a crazy ass to waist ratio, very fun and outgoing. We talk about science and philosophy
She's also a fellow alumni from my college.
Problem is she's married
Closest thing I've had to that young innonence e wet behind the ears crush that I had before the game built me up and tore me down which taught me (and still teaches me) powerful lessons
It hurts though brehs
PewPew
I came from nothing
Bro you hit several nails on the head. My biggest issue is I don't know how to be fake or coy. I do agree that I am perhaps too available and agreeable, but I don't know how to act otherwise. If I have a chance to spend time with the family I created, I'm going to take that chance 9 times out of 10.
It's like this, if I gotta be fake busy or seem unavailable for you to be more interested in me, then that's not someone I want or need in my life. I don't want the headache or mind games of having to play pretend with another grown adult. I'm an extremely straightforward person when it comes to things I want.
Which is why I'm back out in the field doing my thing, and she knows it too. And she's out doing her thing as well. If our paths happen to lead to us being together again, so be it. But I'm not going to change who I am to try and please someone.
PewPew
I came from nothing
Been chopping it up with one of the dopest chicks I've ever met, our conversations are great, she has a great career, she's 30 I'm 25. she goes to the same gym as me so we talk for all the time when we see each other. Time literally flies by when we talk. Bad Armenian chick with a crazy ass to waist ratio, very fun and outgoing. We talk about science and philosophy
She's also a fellow alumni from my college.
Problem is she's married
Closest thing I've had to that young innonence e wet behind the ears crush that I had before the game built me up and tore me down which taught me (and still teaches me) powerful lessons
It hurts though brehs
DONT DO IT! Enjoy the conversations breh but don't do it. Just let her be and the universe will reward you with a badder chick
dont fake being busy. BE BUSY. get a hobby. and not some lame ass hobby but one that improves u. or can make u money. when u have places to be and people to see, u will be able to say sh1t like the following to a woman and actually mean it:
you: "hey, i cant meet at 7pm tonight. how about tomorrow at noon".
that'll be a shock to her considering uve been her errand boy all this time.
her: "why tomorrow at noon? what are u doing tonight????? "
you: "i have plans sweetheart and i dont know when i'll be able to wrap things up here".
her: "what plans?????"
you: "i cant talk right now hun. ill see u tomorrow at noon."
trust, she'll be there at noon.
and when u do see her the following day and she presses u for info, u give open ended answers. one of the things ive learned when dealing with women is, never be direct with them. give them enough answers to give urself wiggle room in the future.
her: where were u last night
you: i was out with some friends of friends
if she later finds out the friends of friends is a woman. she cant say u lied because u actually didnt.
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PewPew
I came from nothing
Breh i sincerely appreciate the advice and words but i think you may have missed my point. In the first post you quoted where you called me sophomoric, which i dont mind at all, I was ranting about all the meaningless sex ive been having and yearning for a more real connection.
I am busy breh. I work two jobs and close to 70 hours a week. On top of that i have a daughter who i see every week, friends, the gym, studying for my ccna, other chicks im entertaining, and side hustles. I genuinely dont have much time so if and when i have the chance to spend it with the mother of my daughter, and my daughter as well, i do not see the harm. Ive turned her down plenty of times fam, and shes does the same with me
im going to keep it cordial brehs, I have a strict code not to mess with married womenYou know what u gotta do
Plus if she cheated for me that would ruin my perception of her
. She's only been in 1 relationship too, (her husband) lucky mf 
Action Mike
All praise..
She wants me to say "I love you too" but I wouldn't mean it so I dont 
I just don't feel it to say it
Damn brehs, were to go from here..
I just don't feel it to say it
Damn brehs, were to go from here..
MollyGalaga
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Bout to throw in the towel like my nikka Kent
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MollyGalaga
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Oh my god i just realized that a bytch was tryna do this to me
Jack Michaelson
Pro
Chick tried this shyt with me told about how I was an amazing guy and I deserved an amazing girl.
I later found out the bytch was a slut so she was right.
Still kinda wish I would've got to hit.
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