Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had coffee with the co-worker from earlier because she wanted to show her appreciation for a project I had done for her. While we were talking, she throws out how much we have in common, then I remember she has a man.... :gucci:
Was this off of work hours?

I disagree with the two Nikkas saying you got friend zoned.

Why is she asking you for coffee if she has a man?

Men would use that "work related" reasoning if they wanted to link up with a co-worker:yeshrug:

I'd play it cool and keep it cordial but don't sweat it..if she wants to make a move, she'll pursue. Regardless of if she has a man or not.

I went out with a chick like that a while back who come to find out had a man. She only wanted to link up for the attention (and maybe to see if she still "had it") I fell back once I found out she wasn't single
 

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I don't get friend zoned though. I just exert so much time and energy cuz we vibin and then go completely ghost :mjlol:
Yeah thats why I said IME. If I come on strong like that at first I end up like a chatty patty friend. Im better in small doses until feelings are established, then I commit more time

Sounds like burnout in your case. You get tired of em like listening to a new song on repeat then throw em in the bushes
 

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I fukked a chick after two dates and then she got hella weird when I tried to set up another date. She said I fukked her too hard, never got that complaint but I'm all about growth so maybe I'll stop demon fukking girls off jump street :yeshrug: She asked me what I was doing this weekend on thurs, I said nada important and then she went ghost. Told her ehh its w/e if you change your mind hit me up and deleted her number. I got just about zero patience for female fukkery going forward.
 

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I fukked a chick after two dates and then she got hella weird when I tried to set up another date. She said I fukked her too hard, never got that complaint but I'm all about growth so maybe I'll stop demon fukking girls off jump street :yeshrug: She asked me what I was doing this weekend on thurs, I said nada important and then she went ghost. Told her ehh its w/e if you change your mind hit me up and deleted her number. I got just about zero patience for female fukkery going forward.
:dead:.

#HOH :wow:.
 

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breh its so liberating straight up having zero tolerance for the fukk shyt. I'm like I already hit with minimal effort :manny: the fukk I'mma be mad for. I'm the prize here love your loss. She wasn't getting wifed up anyway because she was on some weird poly shyt so its literally w/e lol. Oh we def HOH after last year shiiiddddd
 

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Where are y'all finding these women for relationships?

I'm gonna go out tonight. I've been having ok success with pulling women when I go out but I'm ready to get out the game for a while:wow:
 

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breh its so liberating straight up having zero tolerance for the fukk shyt. I'm like I already hit with minimal effort :manny: the fukk I'mma be mad for. I'm the prize here love your loss. She wasn't getting wifed up anyway because she was on some weird poly shyt so its literally w/e lol. Oh we def HOH after last year shiiiddddd
nah take a lesson from what shes telling u. if shes telling u u fuccked her too hard, u probably did...meaning, u had ur fun, but she didnt have hers. she didnt enjoy it. a girl saying u fuccked her too hard means u were fuccking like a teenage horn dog. she might be one of those slow love making type chicks.
 

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nah take a lesson from what shes telling u. if shes telling u u fuccked her too hard, u probably did...meaning, u had ur fun, but she didnt have hers. she didnt enjoy it. a girl saying u fuccked her too hard means u were fuccking like a teenage horn dog. she might be one of those slow love making type chicks.
Naw thats why I said Im about growth and will consider it in the future. I literally never got complaints before so I just did what I usually did. She hit me up a lil bit ago and said she wanted to meet up next saturday but she was still sore from when I hit last friday so yeah maybe I need to be a lot gentler with her
 

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Naw thats why I said Im about growth and will consider it in the future. I literally never got complaints before so I just did what I usually did. She hit me up a lil bit ago and said she wanted to meet up next saturday but she was still sore from when I hit last friday so yeah maybe I need to be a lot gentler with her
nah that sounds like bs.
 

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Brehs it's been like 5 years since I got friendzoned. Not to say I haven't caught L's along the way, but when I catch L's it's usually via flaky behavior.....

Was chopping it up with a girl who's showed interest in me in the past last night on FB messenger (She hit me up first), and she ended the convo with "Gnite Kiddo <3"

Get called Kiddo brehs
 

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Brehs it's been like 5 years since I got friendzoned. Not to say I haven't caught L's along the way, but when I catch L's it's usually via flaky behavior.....

Was chopping it up with a girl who's showed interest in me in the past last night on FB messenger (She hit me up first), and she ended the convo with "Gnite Kiddo <3"

Get called Kiddo brehs

:sadcam:
 

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Brehs it's been like 5 years since I got friendzoned. Not to say I haven't caught L's along the way, but when I catch L's it's usually via flaky behavior.....

Was chopping it up with a girl who's showed interest in me in the past last night on FB messenger (She hit me up first), and she ended the convo with "Gnite Kiddo <3"

Get called Kiddo brehs
I woulda beat her ass no funny shyt.

You needa start poppin those hoes for bad behavior :ufdup:.
 
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