Question to you guys- what does it mean if i guy sees you coming towards him and Uturns and preoccupies himself with something on a wall?
Also why dont guys shake my hand?
Backstory- so theres this guy that i see. See is the key we nevered talked. Church environment. He sits all the way across the room with his moms and pops. ive been occasionally popping up there since september. Maybe 2-3 times a month. I think hes handsome and think hes looking at me but it might be in my head. So one day we were at a church convention and i was walking down an aisle with my friend. Knows my friend and is cordial with her. So we are walking and he comes out a door and is coming towards us. Catches sight of us (or me) and does a awkward sharp Uturn and starts reading something on a wall. We walk past him. Ever since he did that im thinking " did he get flustered when saw me? Does he like me?" Being that he knows my friend he would be obligated to say hi to her and be introduced to me. But that was back in December. Ive seen in on a few occasions since then and he still never says anything to me. Am I overthinking his reaction? Or is he possibly a shy guy? I feel like bushing my crush on him because this always happens to me. I always think guys are looking st me and in actuality they dont even know i exist.
Second senario but not the guy above, just men in general. I find that men dont like shaking my hand. Church environment so it perfectly normal to shake hands with me. But on multiple occasions i find that men dont want to touch me. One time i was sitting between my brothers. Guy comes over shakes my brother's hand, glides over me, and shakes my other brother's hand. On other occasions they will shake the hands of all the women around me but keep there hands by their sides and give me a tight smile. One time i was with my parents and in laws walking. We run into a friend of my in law. He shakes my parents hands, in law hands, then ignores me. I felt so sad because it was random. One of my in laws noticed and looked at me strange like she dudnt know why he didnt say hi to me. Other times men give me really weak loose hand shakes. They firmly shake hands with a gurl next to me but will legit shake my hand with two fingers like im some gross thing they dont wanna touch. Whats up with that?
I think you gotta switch your approach again
..Men are very careful about shyt like that especially if your attractive
? No one will be upset at their sister shaking hands. In that environment shaking my hand is expected. Not like he would be hitting on me. But this has happened to me even if im alone.
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