True Blue Moon
Superstar
Exactly. This is an age where chicks probably routinely wake up to dikk pics in their DMs. Subtlety will get the panties in greater numbers than just putting your dikk on the table.
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Cats don't get this.....good comment
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
porn? come on dude.
u goto be silly some times and gauge a woman's response. women already know its hard for a guy to talk to them. so the ones that like u will help you along by feeding u material. the ones that dont wont be talkative. leave these women alone!
say for instance u see a girl walking a dog. u can say, adorable looking dog u got there. what breed is that? a girl who likes u will go into details about this. a girl who doesnt like u will say thank u, smile a lil bit, and walk off or say thank u as they're walking off.
say for instance u at a grocery store and u see a girl buying some cooking materials. u can walk up to her and be like "hmmm what are we cooking tonight". a lot of them will giggle at this and will tell u. the ones who have boyfriends, husbands or kids will put that in their response. if a girl doesnt mention anything about a husband, kids or boyfriend, u can be like "that sounds delicious". u should save me some. and from there u can have her text u how the food comes out. etc. ive had
the one thing i goto tell u is, u come off as a straightup lunatic. like, a creep. i know its tough to see a fine ass and not want to jump right into it. but the women with features that are desirable get bombarded with creeps like u. u need to be calm and learn to say just enough to gauge interest and if the girl aint feeling u, keep it short and vanish. a girl who aint feeling u will give u all the signals in the world shes not feeling u. watch for those signals.
I'm not worried if a woman see me as a creep or a lunatic. I'm worried if she is gonna waste my time. Got what you are saying, I'll try it out this Saturday.
@Zeu$ when was/did the light bulb moment/process jump off for you? Was it directly after high school? Or something quicker that's happened over the last couple of years? I ask cause I'm young but not THAT young and as you age learning experiences stop being just those and evolve into actions with repercussions.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Maybe you should stop being his friend. Save him the trouble of being around a dude that always telling him that his height is the issue when it's not.
It was a looonnnngggg time coming. In high school I got zero play. Short, angry, mean=no puss. As I grew I got a lot more chill and traveled but still would always get the lets just be friends shyt from chicks. I had flings and shyt and one relationship over the next few years but nothing super serious. Then I met my ex a few years ago and she was perfect to me and best part she was totally into me...initially. Over the next two years we broke up so many fukking times (was actually what brought me into this thread) and after one of them @TRUEST told me to read this book by corey wayne. Now a lot of his shyt works, but alot of it doesn't for me but for every dude questioning why hes not getting what he wants from women I think you should read it. After dealing with my ex, reading that book, and getting fed up with how my woman woes were going i just straight up decided to do what works, and throw out the rest. HMMMMM women react well when you make yourself scarce...better blow her phone up every day! shyt like that kills brehs. they know what works but not strong enough to do it.
Beyond that I just built myself into a really really fun nikka to want to be with. I'm obviously still short as shyt. But i'm weird to women. I work in cosmetics, I got a closet full of skin care and shea moisture, but I will fukk their brains out. I'm chill I never pressure women for shyt, why bother, they gonna do what they want just like you are. So while most nikkas are pressuring her to do this that and the third I'm just like hey come be with me when you feel like it. they come they have a great time because I'm a great dude to be around we fukk and after that if theirs real chemistry go from there. they say no I tell them thats cool and if they change they mind hit me up. Its that simple. I feel the biggest arbiter to me being better with women is letting go of desperation. Coming from a place of scarcity is never good in any facet of life especially with women. It could be the first chick I've talked to seriously in months and I won't come off as needy or desperate because I don't really need them. I'd say thats the easiest way to get women. pretty much exude like you don't need them to complete you or some storybook shyt.
well you def wont be getting head if she thinks your a creep homie. you at like 9 right now, you need to be around a 3 lol
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Homie is leading with conversations about porn and sucking dikk and then blaming them for playing games
Gotta have some finesse.
Women like sex so I'm gonna talk about sex. I'm tired of talking about bullshyt I'm not interested in with women. Women will not play games if you be upfront with them about your agenda. They have a choice to take it or leave it. I only smashed one chick last year 2016 that was 10 years older than me, just off of me telling her to cut the bullshyt out. "I'm not one of those guys to play these game with." I'm going to take your guys advice cause we all have a goal to achieve. And these women that are in my town are not "hot" but decent/average looking but not enough for you waste your time with them if they reject you. ( have terrible attitudes) Plus they are white/Hispanic and I'm black. Get my drift.
no offense but this is stupid. If you don't want to talk about bullshyt then don't. You only slept with one women doing what you are doing last year and you don't see how changing what you are doing might be beneficial? Sex isn't even that amazing with random bytches breh. I don't get it. You can go pay for some ass if thats all you want and truly stop wasting your time.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
There is another girl that will be ecstatic that I lead her to salvation by her giving me head. I cannot stop right here .. I have to keep moving forward.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Coming from dudes that always get women. You brehs on here saying that it's 2017 and women are out here busting it wide open. Well.. im going after those women you guys are talking about. I do not need pay for sex when it's free. I want to be that dude that always getting women at a drop of a hat.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
I feel you on that my breh, but you know how they say that for women, foreplay is just as important, if not more important than sex? It's been my experience that they love the dance as much as the act of sticking it in. So while they want your dikk as much as you want their p*ssy, sometimes they gotta be opened up first. That's why I'm so quick to caution you against seeing everything outside of the panties dropping as bullshyt.
Plus, it seems to frustrate you when the up front approach doesn't get results. Aside from what they want, it seems like you'll have more peace of mind taking an approach that gets you better results. Like, if the "Do you suck dikk?" approach works 10 out of 100 times, but the feeling the vibe out and chit chatting, THEN going in for the kill approach works 40 out of 100 times, it seems like it'll be less stressful, while also carrying over into different parts of your life.
To take it a step further, communicating differently with them than you would any other person subconsciously puts them on a pedestal to an extent. For example, if you wanted to get into flipping property, and came across a dude that is a millionaire by flipping property, would you approach breh like "Hey man. I wanna get into property. Can you get me started and take over some properties for me so I can get rich too?"
Nah, cuz that wouldn't work and doesn't really serve either one of you. But if you find common ground, provide dude some value and just become cool with him, you'll maximize that interaction so much better than just throwing a grenade on some "this might not work, but fukk it, I don't play games" shyt.
I'm not saying you gotta invest 6 months into a chick just to get some ass, but hopefully you get the analogy I'm trying to make. If you just treat them like people, while still having the goal of getting ass in the back of your head, I think you'll see a greater return on your efforts.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Damn. Your analogys are A-1. I understand. I also have no issue touching women ether.