Breh all you gotta do is ask if she wants to grab a drink and catch a vibe at the crib.
Either you have sexual performance issues or your self-esteem can't survive the potential that she says no to your question
What's going on breh. Help us help you. We brothers here.
in some capacity i haven't fukked in years forgot what it's like
1 month in the gym going hard with healthy eating and I feel like the mixtape rapper that got next
They be choosing in front of their man
.. My ignorance finna be one a hundo when my bread get rite .
am I wrong when she said that im thinking in my head " yea I can fukk this chick"...
Outside of getting your body right can you or someone else explain how these things will have women choosing? Maybe my definition of choosing is different. We're supposed to do those things anyway but that seems like factors to make women stay after you've smashed and not before...is that "choosing"?
I think the goal is to make yourself feel more confident...
Find out what you like point blank period before expecting a woman to find out for you. And dominance above all. Not necessarily talking about strong arming chicks, but never expect results from allowing a woman to lead the interaction. Oh, and no egos breh. Ego is the hindrance of sexual development. If you know you want to learn, be open to it and don't defend yourself if a chick is trying to tactfully give you some game on how to touch her or please her in bed.
Being organized, focused and having your time occupied with a purpose will make you act different. Your whole disposition will change. You won't need their attention or approbation as much. Women will feel different about you because you will carry yourself differently. As you said, these are all things you should do for yourself anyway but women choosing more is a side effect.
My definition of choosing is/was how women behave when they first see you/speak to you and don't know you that well. So basically all physical. I'm someone who's aware of what I lack and hyper-self-critical of where I'm at for my age but I can't imagine women smelling organization and lack of debt on me unless I'm in a suit every day.
it's not the lack of debt or organisation they smell. It's the confidence and peace of mind. The calm and focus. Choosing is not just based on the physical. It's your whole aura. Even your physical and the way your perceive it influences your aura. You could be in decent shape and feel like you're not up to par and not feel good about yourself. The next man could not be in shape as good as you yet coming out of a 40 pounds weight loss and feel better about himself than you which will translate in his aura and some women will choose him over you based on that. This is an over simplification of the concept but it applies in all aspects of your life.
I did say something in regards to my own aura some weeks back in here. Right now it can't be good so I hear you
If a bytch is complaining that she doesn't see her "boyfriend" enough just because she's working too much and etc, then something clearly ain't right.
How you got a nikka and you're still lonely?
Actions speak louder than words, god-damn it.
How can the man in that situation NOT be giving you constant dikk? How can HE be ok with that shyt? Does HE even care?
Either the nikka is a grade A simp that naively believes that he's the only one smashing/talking to the bytch, or the nikka himself could be also fukking around with other women like a woman be with nikkaz.....because, that lack of time has become an issue. If it's Friday and Saturday and she's at the house by HERSELF, tweeting shyt, watching movies then it's clear cut what's going on.
Women can go from "I don't need a man.... I don't have time to date.... I'm independent, I love money more than men" so suddenly wanting to see a nikka 24/7.
Then I be like "Damn, I thought you bytches wanted money over the dikk". These bytches like money so much (which has been like that) but they don't like sacrificing their own time to work for it. They just want a handout/easy way out. Again, red flags...
Going to work and going out with a person takes a-lot of effort and time especially if you got your own place. People can't blame a job for them not getting enough sex....it just shows where the priorities are (in her head).....
