Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just gonna say that this is a great place to ground yourself if you're feeling yourself too much and/or get inside your own head, gotta return to the foundation

"Charge it to the game and keep it moving" probably one of the best pieces of advice i ever got in terms of dealing with women
 
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Im on ig and this girl I was kinda trying to talk to liked a comment I made on one of her pics



Like 6 weeks ago



I don't really look to much in to this liking stuff on there but that just seemed oddly specific, you can never really tell what a woman is thinking, I haven't talked to her in like a week tho, might be trying to get my attention idk, I hate social media
 
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Man my Naija day one told me even his sister is on the uber feminist tip now. It seems America has been polluted wit the shyt beyond repair :mjlol: now even full blooded africans chicks be on the shyt :mjcry:
 
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Zeu$ said:
Man my Naija day one told me even his sister is on the uber feminist tip now. It seems America has been polluted wit the shyt beyond repair :mjlol: now even full blooded africans chicks be on the shyt :mjcry:
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u nigerian?
 
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Nah my best friend is. I'm blackity black ya'll from chicago:takedat:

Its frustrating. for the past like 3 years I've been attracting nothing but these redbone pretty ass thick/slim thick ass chicks...who also happen to be super fukking feminist. Like this might seem like a good problem to have because they nice to look at and fukk but its getting increasingly hard as a man to maintain your center when your supposed to be chick is attempting to undermine you mentally at every turn. it got the to the point with the last chick we couldn't even talk for more than 15 minutes without her going on some diatribe about the patriarchy or something. I'm a womanist tbh. I love women and would never disrepect one, hit, call our their name etc. but I aint one for the bullshyt any more. I offhand said that "how can she slap" vid was entertaining and she was like :picard: you have unresolved misogyny, are you a woman hater? you okay with domestic abuse. ITS A fukkING INDIAN GAME SHOW. okay so you okay with NORMALIZATION domestic abuse:mjgrin:? At that point I almost mind broke at the logical leaps and must of had a blank stare for a good 20 seconds but I gathered myself, turned on ps4 and started playing final fantasy as she ranted at me and I just hit the mhm okay, yeah I'm not tho. As she kept going I just said look if you I'm so bad why you here. No one forcing you to stay:yeshrug: so she bounced and that was that. I never thought I would legit get to this point where I felt next to nothing over losing a attractive chick but nikkas got to realize man, shyt aint worth the stress sometimes. I'd been dating her for like 6 months and had to deal with the lil sneak dissin of men but when she purposefully came at me when i've been nothing but a pure gentleman? naw you got to hit the door with that shyt. 0 tolerance for that disrespect.

I know this is a wall of text for that question but I had to vent breh lol.
 
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Nah my best friend is. I'm blackity black ya'll from chicago:takedat:

Its frustrating. for the past like 3 years I've been attracting nothing but these redbone pretty ass thick/slim thick ass chicks...who also happen to be super fukking feminist. Like this might seem like a good problem to have because they nice to look at and fukk but its getting increasingly hard as a man to maintain your center when your supposed to be chick is attempting to undermine you mentally at every turn. it got the to the point with the last chick we couldn't even talk for more than 15 minutes without her going on some diatribe about the patriarchy or something. I'm a womanist tbh. I love women and would never disrepect one, hit, call our their name etc. but I aint one for the bullshyt any more. I offhand said that "how can she slap" vid was entertaining and she was like :picard: you have unresolved misogyny, are you a woman hater? you okay with domestic abuse. ITS A fukkING INDIAN GAME SHOW. okay so you okay with NORMALIZATION domestic abuse:mjgrin:? At that point I almost mind broke at the logical leaps and must of had a blank stare for a good 20 seconds but I gathered myself, turned on ps4 and started playing final fantasy as she ranted at me and I just hit the mhm okay, yeah I'm not tho. As she kept going I just said look if you I'm so bad why you here. No one forcing you to stay:yeshrug: so she bounced and that was that. I never thought I would legit get to this point where I felt next to nothing over losing a attractive chick but nikkas got to realize man, shyt aint worth the stress sometimes. I'd been dating her for like 6 months and had to deal with the lil sneak dissin of men but when she purposefully came at me when i've been nothing but a pure gentleman? naw you got to hit the door with that shyt. 0 tolerance for that disrespect.

I know this is a wall of text for that question but I had to vent breh lol.
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u did good though. u know how the game goes. wouldnt be at all suprised if she hits u up within the next couple of days to a week. as long as u dont contact her.
 
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u did good though. u know how the game goes. wouldnt be at all suprised if she hits u up within the next couple of days to a week. as long as u dont contact her.
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Yeah I told her she change her mind hit me up but if not have a nice life. I dont argue or get mad with women no more unless they do some shyt that jeopardizes my livelihood. If Im arguing its because I logically think Im right and women dont usually deal in logic so I know arguing with one is 90% of the time a waste so I just let her get whatever she had off her chest and KIM. The old me would have apologized (for what mind you) to keep her around but fukk all thatlol

Shame. Really cute chick and smart but her soapbox was far too prominent a fixture in her life
 
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Im just here to vent :mjcry:

Me and shorty had a plan to get our lives straight then move in together. Come to find out she been fukking her "friend". Really made me realize how savage these thots are :mjcry:
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how did you find out breh? what did she say about all this? whats her explanation? How long has it been going on for?

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