Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Wifey Mexican here just chill and see how things go breh her being clingy better than nothing at all
Just keep things normal if she blow up ur phone so be it most want a female like that
If u hate how clingy or obssessed she is then cut her if not appreciate it
Just look for subtle changes if she has any
It's ok to have doubts bout trust it's not ok to make moves with no proof or any major signs
Get over the hurt part breh that shyt can happen at any given time in a relationship

that's true, and naw I do appreciate it you're right. I gotta eliminate my own doubts and just move forward. You're right, I gotta chill on that too.

True, I wouldn't do it to her tho but I don't feel like getting fd over. I hung out with a friend and he calmed me down like it's very likely it'll happen so I'm cool now. That ish was just eating me up.

 

[True Blue Moon]

might not be enough hours in the day but there are enough days in a week

i dont juggle that many girls...i'm just saying that it is not that difficult and has benefits. I'll juggle a few (lets say three or four) and let the pieces fall where they may typically. Typically one crab tends to fight off the others and escape the bucket to emerge as the one I'll invest all my time/effort into.

This is the disconnect I feel brehs are getting with what we're saying. I'm not talking about hitting the club three or four nights per week looking for ass and blowing up dating apps, I'm saying if you're not ready to commit to one woman, have three or four that you're casual enough with to not get distracted by and that serve different needs in your life. And inevitably, when the time and energy is right, one will emerge as the queen and jump over the others.

If that's what you're looking for. This shouldn't distract you from your money any more than going to the gym and checking your e-mails should. A roster could be as simple as a few chicks you get a hotel with every now and then when you both have down time from securing the bag. Doesn't have to be this all out desperate hunt, and shouldn't be.

 

[HearNoEvil]

Yesterday I moved in to a PWI in a major city (UT Austin). I enjoyed sharing theory with y'all, but this is my first chance to gain practical experience in months. I'm already seeing things in a new light. I'll be on hiatus for about two weeks, and we'll be able to better advise each other when I come back.

Leave me lots of gems to catch up on.

 

[Shadow King]

Reading The Manipulated Man and I don't know if I can finish this shyt this is a woman bashing women worse than any of us ever could

 

[Stir Fry]

Me and the secretary at my job have a huge amount of chemistry. She's witty, got a very sharp tongue, cute face, and just my type of body. We talk shyt to each other all day, and it's veering into the realm of sexual innuendos getting thrown around quite often. I'm happily married though, and while I'm ok being strong at this point, long term, it's looking like this is going to be a very tough fight. On a side note, my wife is great, we're a solid team, but she's not exactly a giver when it comes to intimacy. She was a cheater in all her previous relationships and she's told me that she wouldn't hold it against me if i ever stepped out, as she just wants me to be happy. I'm sure in reality this probably wouldn't hold true, and plus it's just some p*ssy and I'd like to look back when I'm old and be able to tell our daughter that neither of us had ever stepped out on one or the other. Any brehs ever been in this situation and have some pointers? I don't think simply ignoring her will be a viable option, I've been great at changing the subject when it goes to far, but i can't lie, i really want to smash. She also has a bf, btw.

 

[Ohene]

Me and the secretary at my job have a huge amount of chemistry. She's witty, got a very sharp tongue, cute face, and just my type of body. We talk shyt to each other all day, and it's veering into the realm of sexual innuendos getting thrown around quite often. I'm happily married though, and while I'm ok being strong at this point, long term, it's looking like this is going to be a very tough fight. On a side note, my wife is great, we're a solid team, but she's not exactly a giver when it comes to intimacy. She was a cheater in all her previous relationships and she's told me that she wouldn't hold it against me if i ever stepped out, as she just wants me to be happy. I'm sure in reality this probably wouldn't hold true, and plus it's just some p*ssy and I'd like to look back when I'm old and be able to tell our daughter that neither of us had ever stepped out on one or the other. Any brehs ever been in this situation and have some pointers? I don't think simply ignoring her will be a viable option, I've been great at changing the subject when it goes to far, but i can't lie, i really want to smash. She also has a bf, btw.

what makes you confident your wife hasnt cheated on you if she did on everyone else

 

[360dagod]

Me and the secretary at my job have a huge amount of chemistry. She's witty, got a very sharp tongue, cute face, and just my type of body. We talk shyt to each other all day, and it's veering into the realm of sexual innuendos getting thrown around quite often. I'm happily married though, and while I'm ok being strong at this point, long term, it's looking like this is going to be a very tough fight. On a side note, my wife is great, we're a solid team, but she's not exactly a giver when it comes to intimacy. She was a cheater in all her previous relationships and she's told me that she wouldn't hold it against me if i ever stepped out, as she just wants me to be happy. I'm sure in reality this probably wouldn't hold true, and plus it's just some p*ssy and I'd like to look back when I'm old and be able to tell our daughter that neither of us had ever stepped out on one or the other. Any brehs ever been in this situation and have some pointers? I don't think simply ignoring her will be a viable option, I've been great at changing the subject when it goes to far, but i can't lie, i really want to smash. She also has a bf, btw.

 

[Stir Fry]

what makes you confident your wife hasnt cheated on you if she did on everyone else

We're closer than two boogers in a nose. We're very transparent with each other, but at this point I don't think me and the secretary are so close that I should discuss it with her before anything happens. I'm trying to think ahead and be proactive and figure this out myself.

 

[DaRealness]

Random question, if your lady withholds sex from you because you guys are having issues, is it fair to withhold spending money on her?

Yeah, but if it has to come to that then the relationship is as good as dead anyway.

I remember a thread a long time ago about women who end up physically attacking and damn near killing their men who refuse sex which is a real common thing. The real reason that happens is because they deep down feel threatened by any men who they can't control sexually. They expect men to always think with their dikks (which most do), so when their man manifests self control and goes against the norm they can't handle that so they either resort to shaming tactics or end up being physically abusive.

In any case, it's bullshyt I personally don't have time for so I'd tell her to bounce.

 

[DaRealness]

BTW my divorce came through this week and the feeling is especially since we luckily never had kids together.

 

[Mr.bocario]

Reading The Manipulated Man and I don't know if I can finish this shyt this is a woman bashing women worse than any of us ever could

I didn't really look at that book as women bashing.

I took it as women aren't as dumb and helpless as society makes them out to be.

I mean, look all the time effort and energy spent as men trying to obtain their attention.

Most women don't have to ounce of the work in order to get a mans attention and the book just points that out

 

[Atlrocafella]

BTW my divorce came through this week and the feeling is especially since we luckily never had kids together.

Clean slate!!

 

[DaRealness]

Clean slate!!

Indeed. Even better that I'm going to Jamaica in a few weeks for a much needed break too.

 

[Shadow King]

I didn't really look at that book as women bashing.

I took it as women aren't as dumb and helpless as society makes them out to be.

I mean, look all the time effort and energy spent as men trying to obtain their attention.

Most women don't have to ounce of the work in order to get a mans attention and the book just points that out

I'm on page 35 and I know there's plenty more book but it's almost like a Coli nikka wrote it thus far

Granted it was written damn near 50 years ago when the effects of feminism were still unfolding but thus far nothing has made me go

 

[TRUEST]

Me and the secretary at my job have a huge amount of chemistry. She's witty, got a very sharp tongue, cute face, and just my type of body. We talk shyt to each other all day, and it's veering into the realm of sexual innuendos getting thrown around quite often. I'm happily married though, and while I'm ok being strong at this point, long term, it's looking like this is going to be a very tough fight. On a side note, my wife is great, we're a solid team, but she's not exactly a giver when it comes to intimacy. She was a cheater in all her previous relationships and she's told me that she wouldn't hold it against me if i ever stepped out, as she just wants me to be happy. I'm sure in reality this probably wouldn't hold true, and plus it's just some p*ssy and I'd like to look back when I'm old and be able to tell our daughter that neither of us had ever stepped out on one or the other. Any brehs ever been in this situation and have some pointers? I don't think simply ignoring her will be a viable option, I've been great at changing the subject when it goes to far, but i can't lie, i really want to smash. She also has a bf, btw.

ima let the coli brethrens school u on the bolded. but the one thing i'll point out to u is, first, go get that kid tested to make sure shes really urs.
ur wife sounds trifling.