Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[drugxglory]

Give examples, how did the gems change u?

Just off the first page alone.
Learned how much females secretly like to compete (jealousy) I been hangin out wit this one girl lately, calling me everyday n shyt & she said she hit me up becuz she got jealous i asked what was her friends name while i was viewing their IG live video one day, she thought i was gonna get at her friend

my text game started to be fire, i used to not know how to approach a female when first texting her, now its straight to the point, learned to charge it to the game

 

[Dreamzeedream]

The hell if I don't. All the bad bytches of the world and I'm going to settle for this?

A shhiiidddd... bet I'm out.

I still in love with her?,
How long y'all been together

 

[Tug life]

It's clear that she wants a serious relationship w/ you.
Her current BF is just a proxy, she wants you to fill his spot.
If you don't want to be her new man just drop her, find a new FWB. If you continue messing w/ this chick behind her BF's back it could get real

I swear to god every word in this post is facts that why i love this thread.

So like i said you are 100% correct. After writing this post she hit me up and apologized. We talked and i went over to her house. We fukked a a couple times every week since then plus we also hang out its more than sex.

But like you said her BF is just a proxy and she told me a couple times she likes me more and enjoys the sex and time we spend together.

Again looking back i shouldve dropped her because it all came to a head about two hours ago. A lil backstory she told me her and her BF have an arrangement where they can see other people. She also told me its long distance but he stops by from time to time.

Im at work and im texting her to plan to take her to my homeboy show. I was at her house earlier also. Any way she says she wants to see me now after work. Long story short i get there we kiss and all that, but something told me to hop in the shower first. So im getting out drying off and i hear her door close. Im like i know she didn't leave. Then i hear her say someones here he was like who? She said tug life he said who the fukk is tug life? I was literally like so im thinking of all kinds of lies to explain why im in his girl shower at 2 in the morning also while thinking they have an arrangement. So i walk out and he in the other room on the phone saying "yeah she got some other nikka in the crib im like this about to get ugly. So i go to the living room to get my bag and i told her like look im outta her pass me my bag and she just looking at me mad dumb. Im like yo pass my bag so i can dip she still sitting there so i grab my shyt and head for the door.

 

[Tug life]

Her man is walking down the hall in my direction. I try to walk right pass him but he put his hand on my shoulder like nah go back in the living room. Im like cause honestly im the one in the wrong.So he's like so this is what it is? I come home to somebody fukking my girl? Then he ask her "do you know what i do for a living? Im out here risking my life getting shot at as a undercover" im like inside cause he probably got the roscoe with him. But no lie im like cause i really did not want to be a part of this. She keeps saying that they have an arrangement and he denies that. He ask how long we been fukking and all that. Long story short he wasn't mad at me but was furious at her. But he did say if i was in the bed when he came he would've attacked me. But all jokes aside i should've just cut it off with her way back. Now i really feel bad that i was a part of something that could damage somebody's life. He did say he had a fiance that cheated on him, and how every time he puts his heart out it gets crushed. I was like for him cause bytches aint shyt man.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Y'all dudes are funny sometimes. I never understood the point of asking for advice, not taking it, and deciding to learn the lesson the hard way. Glad you came out unscathed but you EASILY could've allowed the woman to cost you your life. Never worth it breh.

Anyway, like I always say, y'all better be lifting! Had a shorty from the island hit my DM last night to set up a date with me today after work. Bold. I like it. I need to get the fukk outta here and over to England though. I need more black women in my life.

 

[NerdNash]

Don't chill with your ex

 

[Malik1time]

Just off the first page alone.
Learned how much females secretly like to compete (jealousy) I been hangin out wit this one girl lately, calling me everyday n shyt & she said she hit me up becuz she got jealous i asked what was her friends name while i was viewing their IG live video one day, she thought i was gonna get at her friend

my text game started to be fire, i used to not know how to approach a female when first texting her, now its straight to the point, learned to charge it to the game

My text game is for some reason I'm better talking face to face then texting

 

[Shadow King]

My uncle tells this story of how my cousin's cousin (I don't know how long ago this was) tells my uncle, "____, all the girls like you."
Unc: "No they don't"
Cuz of Cuz: "Yes they do they just don't know how to talk to you. The knuckleheads, they know how to approach them (they were likely talking about women in/around the hold though). They don't know how to approach YOU."

My uncle is like, "That could be the same deal with you."


It's extra simple but something I felt I shouldn't ponder alone

 

[360dagod]

All of yall in here trying to knock up chicks that are beyond intoxication with ya team, that 19 year old that got violated in Chicago should be enough to stop that shyt asap...

If you see she getting out of control, take her ass home off rip

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Another successful evening. I'm telling y'all, become your best self and you can't lose.

 

[Turk]

Certain negative situations and fall outs I have with chicks be getting me in my feelings....but then again I think of it as Karma for a lot of the a$$hole shyt I've done in the past and trying to rectify now.

 

[sheedteef]

Yeah. There's this black chick from Toronto I'm seeing right now. She's down here for school. Last Sunday we met up after not seeing each other because she was in D.C. with her family for a family reunion. She gave me a big hug and a kiss and said how much she missed me. We went to a vegan spot I recommended to catch up and talk.

We then went grocery shopping and back to her place to unload the groceries. I was just sitting down on her couch and she asked if she could sit closer to me, I said "sure " so she puts the Kardashians on. We just ended up making out and cuddling the rest of the day until I went back home. She asked me if I wanted to go with her to Austin sometime next month and hangout for a weekend. I told her I'm going to L.A. next week and she wanted to hang out again before I leave. So far, so good. I ain't placing no flowers on her but she's cool. I'm taking this shyt slow because we've both never been in a relationship

 

[DCSpinerz]

Don't trust a woman with an harem of men flirting heavily on her social media accounts and buying her gifts even though she told you that she likes you and you only.

 

[DCSpinerz]

Don't chill with your ex

Don't be friends with your ex and don't communicate with your ex.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Don't trust a woman with an harem of men flirting heavily on her social media accounts and buying her gifts even though she told you that she likes you and you only.

So don't trust 85% of women lol. I'm not being a dikk but those are just the waters we men have to be able to navigate these days. Trust is valuable, and not easy to come by.