Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.
Women are fickle bro. Most women are usually sprung on one guy even if they arent with them. The ones that turned you down may just be still in that sprung stage over another guy. The moral of the story is to not take it personal.
 
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Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

Part of the game homie.

Do you click and like every girl you talk to?
 

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All day breh :myman:

Im having issues with implementing the whole semen retention thing. I got that Multiorgasmic Man next up on my list of books to read tho :youngsabo:

Any tips / hows your progress been?

I think I'm gonna skip the solo pracice and just dive in head first
I lost track with it but it's funny you mention it because I'm about to get serious with it. I usually skip the exercises too or do them every now and then. I'm giving myself a solid two weeks of doing them so I can put that part of it out of my head and be more in the game during sex.

I've been able to improve a lot when I dabble, but haven't given it my full focus. I'm thinking if I take the L and go through the process I can stop get 20 and 30 percent better here and there and finally take that step of being an enlightened savage between the sheets :wow:
 

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Eh...we went Dutch most of the time so it wasn't that.

She used me for companionship and someone to do something with for sure.
this is gay best friend type behavior bro. you need to be making it clear much sooner that you trying to fukk. be more aggressive sexually and see if she's cool with it or not. it shoudl take no more than 2-3 dates max to see if she's feeling you on a physical level or not
 

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this is gay best friend type behavior bro. you need to be making it clear much sooner that you trying to fukk. be more aggressive sexually and see if she's cool with it or not. it shoudl take no more than 2-3 dates max to see if she's feeling you on a physical level or not

Probably saw some of the negative things as her being cautious and hesitant for her age.

I've made out with this girl BTW and kissed many times which ultimately confused me. Also her using us doing something together as her helping me get through my father's death :stopitslime:

Well I fukked two girls last week so :yeshrug:
 

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where you 25-35 out of school brehs going to meet women? While I am in the cosmetic industry its a big no no to be hitting on custormers and shyt at work imo I'm not trying to get fired over some bytch taking me giving her a compliment the wrong way or something. So that pretty much leaves bars, lounges, malls etc but none of that shyt really my scene. I'm on the longest drought I've had in a lonnnnnnnnnnnggggggg time (like over two months :sadcam:) and trying to set up some stomping grounds.
 

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I need help breh i always text some girls but the convo goes dry and they never respond to me:francis: my text game is trash but i think I act clingy to hang out with them :hhh: maybe cuz I try to avoid the friend zone so I try to hang out asap:francis: I need help brehs??? I've been striking out way too much:francis: i got 3 numbers last week in school but all 3 have been a total diaster:francis:
 

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I need help breh i always text some girls but the convo goes dry and they never respond to me:francis: my text game is trash but i think I act clingy to hang out with them :hhh: maybe cuz I try to avoid the friend zone so I try to hang out asap:francis: I need help brehs??? I've been striking out way too much:francis: i got 3 numbers last week in school but all 3 have been a total diaster:francis:

trying to hang out asap is the right decision. If a girl is attracted to you they gonna make it easy to get together. perhaps try waiting a few days next time. Women goofy and love being left in the dark about a mans initial motives, it builds attraction. texting should be for logistics not getting to know these byrds because most aren't very interesting over the phone because they don't have to be
 
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trying to hang out asap is the right decision. If a girl is attracted to you they gonna make it easy to get together. perhaps try waiting a few days next time. Women goofy and love being left in the dark about a mans initial motives, it builds attraction. texting should be for logistics not getting to know these byrds because most aren't very interesting over the phone because they don't have to be
Ohhh:ohhh: that's my major issue but the thing is how do I get to know them if texting is out the picture? I'm guessing ypu have to call them?
 

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Ohhh:ohhh: that's my major issue but the thing is how do I get to know them if texting is out the picture? I'm guessing ypu have to call them?
get them out and on a date breh. If you have to vehemently convince them to spend YOUR time getting to know them cuz lets be real women don't go on dates to impress you, its you to seduce them. So if its like pulling teeth for you just to get them to take a few hours out of their fukking existence to get a cup of coffee or something just move on lol.

until you have sex with ol girl this is how texting should go

Malik: Hey its malik it was good seeing you blah blah blah. theres this spot I like, you free sometime this week to check it out? (always ask if they are free, less pressure and no one, no one is so busy that they are actually never free to do what they want to, remember that)
Girl: Anything other than saying yes to said date or rescheduling said date is useless info tbh.

Thats literally how it should go imo. Building rapport over the phone is amateur stupid shyt. no one fukks a girl from text logs. Get her out the house and do your thing. Move fast, and with a purpose. Theres some nikka dikk she'll suck within hours and she making you jump through hoops to just get to know her :dahell: AS you get older youll start to see it probably. Any woman being cold to you off jump just dead it. waste of your mental.
 

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SO check this. Girl I smashed last week...this 28 year old.

Ever since we had sex she has been ignoring me and basically said she will have to ignore me so I don't get sprung and fall in love with her. :skip:

So I got back from Miami after about 8-9 days of not texting her and got down to the point after some banter:


Me: I have a proposition. I think we had great chemistry, had fun together, and enjoyed each other's company. Why not do it again soon? Or we can just not talk to each other again and just be Snapchat buddies but what's the fun in that? ;)


Her: Hey I hear you. I feel really bad because I was definitely getting the "let's settle down" vibes and I just really can't. You're really an amazing guy and I don't want to hold you back because you're a great guy and deserve someone who is open to the possibility and I just am not right now.


Basically told her that I have to entertain the possibility but why not just do things with no labels and no expectations. I'm not trying to marry you today, just hang out.

Oh yeah she just got out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago so of course that's there. She was a fun fukk and I want to do it again I won't lie :lolbron:

I can fukk around with her and do that while finding someone who's more serious. :yeshrug:
 

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Guy that I serve at work told me I should become a martial artist and personal trainer so I've been looking into that. Tryna get my health right and stuff
 
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