a lotta ppl dont be checking fb like thatYo breh is up with these chicks?
There was this nice Caribbean girl at my job. We were vibing imo. She would always say bye to me whenever she would go home. We would also talk often after work. I really feel like she was choosing on me. However, as I have stated previously on here I dont fukk with co workers
Well eventually she ends up transferring to a new building. So I literally I haven't seen this chick in like two months. Well one day last week I was like let me search for her on FB. I Send her a message on Saturday afternoon no response no nothing we on Monday now
So is it the wave now to avoid dudes on social media even though you know/knew them personally? We doing that now? Guess I read shawty wrong and she was never into me like that. Looking at her profile doesn't look like she has a man, but it does look like she left the company. Maybe she doesn't want to deal with anyone from the company. IDK. Nevertheless I'd be lying if I said I wasn't expecting some sort of response. So that does have me a little tight, but I'd be more upset if I didn't reach out to her than her apparently rejecting me.
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I was chopping it up with this chick then proceeded to ask her what’s her number so I can call you sometime..........she responds by saying:
“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”
Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”
I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number
Chime on this brehs..
“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”
Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”
I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number
Chime on this brehs..
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I was chopping it up with this chick then proceeded to ask her what’s her number so I can call you sometime..........she responds by saying:
“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”
Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”
I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number
Chime on this brehs..
I would’ve dropped the conversation and walked away.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Why would you want to anyway?
True Blue Moon
Superstar
She's shyt testing you. Brush it off and come back with humor or something emotionally detached from the hoops she's trying to get you to jump through. If she's even having that back and forth it means that the answer is yes.I was chopping it up with this chick then proceeded to ask her what’s her number so I can call you sometime..........she responds by saying:
“Not, may I have your number or is it okay if we exchange numbers?”
Then says: “I’m sorry, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, but there is a difference between asking & telling.”
I’m getting a feeling that I have to ask for permission to get the number
Chime on this brehs..
Don't let her tests throw you off your square.
Stand on your shyt but KEEP IT LIGHT AND PLAYFUL -- in a way that makes her feel silly for playing this game, but not like you're hurt and angry about it.
EDIT:
That's in the moment though. If it's already passed and y'all have gone your separate ways for the day I wouldn't go back behind her trying to get the number again unless she engages you first.
She's making easy things hard, which is feminine energy 101. It's fine to wrestle or spar with that as long as it's on your terms and with you setting the tone and not acquiescing to her nonsense.
StretfordRed
Afro-European
Ex contacted me almost exactly one year after she left. I let her message marinate for 12 hours. This is how conversation went:
Her: Hello, how are you?
Me: Good, you?
Her: Good, thank you
I can't believe this is the person I've spent three years with. You left bytch, let it go already, fukk your weird ass messages.
I've been in a pain for half a year after she left, and now she expects me to chase her after I felt like shyt?
bytch brought that pain back with her weird ass texting.
This is the worst because your heart rate spikes, you can’t think straight and your mind races
Best thing is to not have responded as it may open the flood gates to start a “friendship” (women love being friends with exes to not make them feel bad)
But since you have, try and keep it moving and not think too much of it
StretfordRed
Afro-European
On a side note. When you plan a date with a chick and she says you decide what we do. How you feel?
Me I get a lil annoyed because what I want to do is not social at all
Me I get a lil annoyed because what I want to do is not social at all
annoying as fukk breh. as a man you gotta do all the work until you smashOn a side note. When you plan a date with a chick and she says you decide what we do. How you feel?
Me I get a lil annoyed because what I want to do is not social at all
Goon for hire
All Star
Coli brehs should I go ahead and bush this new girl?
We hung out Saturday night and it was cool, I thought we were vibing well.
But I realize now I am the one instigating all conversation.
Sunday she waited for me to text her and then texted and FaceTime me.
Same thing earlier in school today, she waited for me to send a text (we don't have any classes together.)
Did talk with her after school and abit during lunch.
Does it sound like she's just not that interested and I should bush her before I make a fool out of myself again?
We hung out Saturday night and it was cool, I thought we were vibing well.
But I realize now I am the one instigating all conversation.
Sunday she waited for me to text her and then texted and FaceTime me.
Same thing earlier in school today, she waited for me to send a text (we don't have any classes together.)
Did talk with her after school and abit during lunch.
Does it sound like she's just not that interested and I should bush her before I make a fool out of myself again?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I don’t see how anything you typed would make you think you should drop her. You guys just met. You want her to be knocking down your door already? Nothing matters until you smash. THEN you’ll know where you stand with her.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Weird the kinds feminine energy I been getting today. Think even that Asian chick I mentioned was peeping. The subtlties
Goon for hire
All Star
I read in here that when a girl is really feeling you though they go out of their way to initiate conversation.
I am the one initiating all conversations.....after I start conversations though she will talk and be open with me, but it just seems she is waiting for me to initiate everything
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
It’s what men do. We initiate. Don’t overthink this. If she’s actually giving you a conversation and not a bunch of one word answers then you’re fine. Right now you’re just a dude she is getting to know. You’re expecting too much too soon. Keep it simple for now.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
All girls are different, but it's in their nature to be more passive than us. A girl will get mad that you didn't approach, swearing that she approached you first just by making a face or offering a half-smile.
They're not used to leading the charge.
Even if you're hitting her up more often, as long as she's showing you equal and greater energy back, don't sweat it. It's too soon to have any expectations at all, so ride that wave of energy to see where it goes.
Better yet, LEAD that wave of energy.
Check yourself if you're overpursuing her, but if not, let it ride.