Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I won't lie I used to be a Simp one of my exes she dumped me this was years ago and continued to string me along thinking I had a chance of getting back with her only to find out she was dating someone else and then got married in front of my face, told myself from then to never wait for anyone if someone wants to be with you they will be with you

See fellas? Reincar showing u dat "Don't chase em, Replace em" lifestyle.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Neither do I I’m so brutally honest with her tell her what she needs to hear not what she wants
Steps outta line put her back in her place
If I make mistake and she corrects me I apologize
I have no issues admitting to my mistakes at all
I enjoy constructive criticism so I can learn to be better

Real man shyt. +rep

This is what I want to ring out in this thread. Walking this path isn't about getting over on bytches, it's about making your world better and sharing that energy with whatever woman/women you deem worthy to add to your life.

That means getting rid of your ego and connecting, while standing on your principles. Being "God's gift to women" shouldn't just be a cliche, you should be making your woman better and also heeding her wisdom so she can make you better.

 

[Javed]

A young breh need advice


I've been talking to this chick for the past two months and we weren't official but we're working to becoming serious. She's having a party at her house tomorrow and today she tells me that her ex is going to be there.

I'm like thanks for the heads up. But then she say "I still kind of like him and didn't want a fight to break out or anything"

after she said that I just dipped. I'm debating on whether or not to hit her up again or just keep it pushing.

Thoughts?

 

[sheedteef]

Yup. Well, the Canadian girl I was seeing told me she wanted to slow things down to focus on school and that I'd feel neglected with everything going on with her life. I'm sure it's another dude that caught her eye.. it's all gravy though. I'm talking to this one chick now that's two years younger than me right now. I'll see if she wants to do ice cream or coffee this weekend.

 

[sheedteef]

What I take from this thread is that we've all had to get the experience. From girls flaking on us, to using us for free rides/food, to bring used to make their exes jealous, to being strung along, all that. I rather get all this out the way and learn now versus later. This goes back to the yin and yang of men and women. Why we act the way we do and vice versa. We use the Steph Curry approach because we know that you gotta do so until you find something that sticks and go from there. It's also about keeping yourself as the main priority. They need us, we need them. It's all about working together to make the dream work.. and setting the tone and leading by example.

 

[MikelArteta]

What I take from this thread is that we've all had to get the experience. From girls flaking on us, to using us for free rides/food, to bring used to make their exes jealous, to being strung along, all that. I rather get all this out the way and learn now versus later. This goes back to the yin and yang of men and women. Why we act the way we do and vice versa. We use the Steph Curry approach because we know that you gotta do so until you find something that sticks and go from there. It's also about keeping yourself as the main priority. They need us, we need them. It's all about working together to make the dream work.. and setting the tone and leading by example.

exactly if a woman doesn't want to be with you take your time and find one that does

Know your value and never look back

 

[FakeNews]

Chick sent me a message cancelling a date with me we had setup on sunday. Something about car troubles and not having money to go out. Ok life happens, if its true, but I kind of want to bush her I had a feeling that she was going to either no show or cancel.

Reminds me of a time I linked with a chick on tinder. We had a date all planned I had to drive about 30 mins to see her. She cancelled. shyt had me furious. I ended up sending her a text saying she shouldn't have wasted my time. She knew we were meeting. It worked because we rescheduled ended up smashing

But back to other girl. I have not sent her a response yet or anything. what should be my next move? because I think she might be giving me the okey doke. I could be wrong though

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

K

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

My nikka what in the world are you even talking about.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

My nikka what in the world are you even talking about.

I don't know how to explain it

 

[The Message]

But back to other girl. I have not sent her a response yet or anything. what should be my next move? because I think she might be giving me the okey doke. I could be wrong though

your answer always lies with your gut feeling... NEVER ignore it.

my response to flaking...is no response. if a girl cancels on me whether its 12 hours in advance or 12 minutes before, whether they say they're sick or they have to take their auntie to the airport--it doesn't matter. I don't bother to respond to her text.

I used to be more understanding and forgiving and be open to rescheduling. I used to actually believe them when they said why they couldn't meet but experience has taught me to believe otherwise.

nowadays i have a bare bones approach to women: if she's interested enough, she will not cancel. period

the only exceptions I give are for women who run their own business or are running for political office lol

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

What I'm saying is women are making themselves known to me even more, but I keep on seeing symbols that remind me of my ex.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

It shouldn't be complicated for men in their 20's to understand WHEN a woman is interested and ISN'T.

If this is still a thing that's bothering a nikka mentally, fix your mentality and attitude ASAP. I'm all for criticizing the hoes, but nikkaz gotta criticize themselves, too.

If you're mad that shorty isn't responding like YOU want her to, that's no reason to take shyt personally. All that shows is that you (The man) don't have other bytches to talk to & get with. It also shows that a nikka is immature, got issues, doesn't have their priorities together at all. DON'T give all that away. Once a chick senses that you're all the way fukked up in the head, you're just going to scare her away. Ain't nothing you can do to change her perception. Especially if she thinks that you're going to try to stalk her and try to beat her up or kill her. I can't blame some women for feeling like that...because nikkaz in 2017 are on a whole new level of being brain dead.

The worst thing a nikka can do is fukk up a chance when a new woman is taking interest in you. nikkaz say they want to be noticed, but when a bytch actually does notice a nikka, mfs wanna be just like the women they despise....by ignoring the bytch.... Doesn't matter if she's a 10 or 5. Beggars can't be choosers.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Anytime you're trying to get the draws from a new woman, always be cool, mane.

Yea, flirt and all that, but remember, you can't pat yourself on the back until you meet AND smash.

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

Always can have every girl but the ones I want