Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I wanna hit my ex up for sex, but I feel like I should let her do that. But I'm getting that urge. Since she hmu on Sunday night but I was at work
 

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Been talking to a chick that has a ring on her ring finger, haven’t brought it up yet, neither has she, i will after i smash :mjgrin:
 

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So im able to approach women in public and strike a conversation , most of the time we exchange numbers.
The problem im having tho is that they never respond to my text messages. I dont think its because they
find me ugly since they would have shot me down during the conversation :jbhmm:
 

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So im able to approach women in public and strike a conversation , most of the time we exchange numbers.
The problem im having tho is that they never respond to my text messages. I dont think its because they
find me ugly since they would have shot me down during the conversation :jbhmm:

You gotta call them...and even then it's a toss up..but texting not the answer...
 

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You gotta call them...and even then it's a toss up..but texting not the answer...

Word. These shorties have a million dudes texting them. We gotta stand out.

Case and point: Last night, I was chillin’ with this joint I pulled a few weeks ago. Bad little joint with a ridiculous ass. She went to show me some pictures on her phone and I peeped her text message notifications. She had 52 unread texts! That right there let me know exactly the kind of woman I was dealing with. We need to pay attention to what these women are telling us. Not overtly, but covertly. All these dudes sitting by waiting on a text when I just call her up like “I’m off early tonight, let’s link up.” I don’t even hit her up when I’m working or have shyt to do. She tried to hit me with the “you don’t really like me” bs. Nah shorty I’m doing EXACTLY what I need to do.
 
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I wanna hit my ex up for sex, but I feel like I should let her do that. But I'm getting that urge. Since she hmu on Sunday night but I was at work
stop being a hoe and do it then. Last 50 pages you been using this as a personal blog amid lapses in your ex debacle. Either go hook back up with that woman because any contact from a ex should be viewed as a invite to get it popping unless she says no, or delete that woman from your life. nikkas keep making the same mistakes and or not learning from them. Aint nothing wrong with messing with a ex if she reaching out to you which she seems to be doing and you obvs still care about her so do what it do, stop bullshytting like you don't care though. If I can see it through a computer screen I'm sure a woman youve been intimate with can as well.
 

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stop being a hoe and do it then. Last 50 pages you been using this as a personal blog amid lapses in your ex debacle. Either go hook back up with that woman because any contact from a ex should be viewed as a invite to get it popping unless she says no, or delete that woman from your life. nikkas keep making the same mistakes and or not learning from them. Aint nothing wrong with messing with a ex if she reaching out to you which she seems to be doing and you obvs still care about her so do what it do, stop bullshytting like you don't care though. If I can see it through a computer screen I'm sure a woman youve been intimate with can as well.
I did it breh. Thanks for the push though. I appreciate it
 

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Just starting out this week. Any good programs or tips? I'm trying to lose this shyt by spring/summer hopefully. Also that was sage advice about the shyt women do covertly as well.

No doubt fam. You just starting out? Diet and consistency are going to be your main factors. It’s real easy to go and then stop once you see the results you want. Keep at it.

As far as programs I would suggest starting with the main lifts: Bench Press, Deadlift, and Squat. You can’t go wrong with a 5x5 which is 5 sets of the most weight you can handle for 5 reps. That’ll get your strength up quick. Make sure you get a healthy dose of cardio to lean out and make that muscle definition pop.
 

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How do you guys not hold grudges in dating?

I'm still annoyed that I wasted over two months with one girl that wasn't into me. She wasted my time and in hindsight annoying to be around.

There's other women that I'm more into I can find. At 34 I can still pull younger women.

But my ego is still annoyed with this last chick..help me find inner peace brehs
I'm the same way....I'm very vindictive when it comes to females....

The homie True Blue said a while back you gotta let your ego go in order to get to where you want to be. Sounds like that’s why you can’t let things go. You’re taking what transpired as an indictment against you when that may not even be the case. If a woman has a fukked up mental state you can’t do a damn thing about it. Understand some things will always be out of your control.

It took me a while to internalize this. Hell, I’m an air traffic controller so I’m used to being in control of most things on a day to day basis. It’s not easy but when you accept it. shyt just rolls right off like teflon coating.
Same with me. The times I got rejected most of the time I thought it was some sort of indictment against me and my character or some shyt....It got to a point where I didn't even like talking to females, because I always had it in my head they'll be on some negative, funny-style shyt....

U just gotta realize women are goofy and just shrug off they nonsense. Plus, u think she all worried n stressing like u are about her? Hell nah. She gettin on with her life while u suffering.
Kind of why it's probably better to maintain a cold attitude towards women...they ain't giving a damn about you or your feelings at all.....they do bullshyt and shrug it off like they dropped a gum wrapper on the sidewalk....


Been doing a lot thinking, I believe that my main issue is that I just never really interacted with females as much as others throughout life. Females left a bad taste in my mouth when I was young, and it didn't improve much moving on. it was sort of like with everyone encounter/situation, my motivation would grow thinner and thinner....

Fast forward to today, while most men couldn't possibly keep count how many women they've actually APPROACHED, I can probably count on both my fingers (and maybe toes) how many I have. I don't know who all may believe in the zodiac and that kind of shyt, but I'm a Scorpio, so my libido is very high; I just have never really been able to do much about it. Thing is, due to being without the touch of a female so long, my soul has been through constant strain. I think it's starting to come to a head, so I need to get off this Debbie Downer shyt and do something....It has gone from an ego think to a mental health thing now....

Unfortunately this is a hell of a pickle....I'm about to be 34, with minimal experience in every area when it comes to women....talk about playing "catch-up"....:ld:
 
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