Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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my intent was never to hurt her or any chick.
I just don't want to be in a relationship, and its not like im going out with other women or even talking to other chicks.
I just don't want that label, I just don't want all that ish that comes along with a relationship.
The meeting families, talks about the future, falling in love, fights, being there and ish

I thought you had a ting you were wifing bruh? :wtf: Remember you talking about travelling with her and shyt

Things ain't work out?
 

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I kind of feel breh who talked about holding grudges. Like I have no problem with rejection. I can handle it just dont play games. If she would have told me she wasn't that interested in the beginning everything would have been fine.

I was good until I just reflected on some shyt that happened with me and this chick recently and this shyt got me upset.

Dont tell me you cant make our date because of car trouble but I see you snapping pics of you driving the next day!

Dont tell me you all good with rescheduling our date, but dont make an attempt to reschedule

Dont tell me "okay" When I tell you to hit me up on the phone but you haven't


Yo I'm about to go to the gym :bryan:
 

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When will you guys understand that women aren’t men. You’re expecting communication that you would get from another man. It isn’t going to happen. Very rarely will a woman tell you exactly, in explicit terms, what she really means. If she does it’s usually because she’s exasperated with you not taking the hints she’s giving you.

Sounds to me that she told you exactly what it was, based on ACTIONS. That was on you for not picking it up fast enough.
 

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I kind of feel breh who talked about holding grudges. Like I have no problem with rejection. I can handle it just dont play games. If she would have told me she wasn't that interested in the beginning everything would have been fine.

I was good until I just reflected on some shyt that happened with me and this chick recently and this shyt got me upset.

Dont tell me you cant make our date because of car trouble but I see you snapping pics of you driving the next day!

Dont tell me you all good with rescheduling our date, but dont make an attempt to reschedule

Dont tell me "okay" When I tell you to hit me up on the phone but you haven't


Yo I'm about to go to the gym :bryan:
Rule of thumb, until you in a relationship have a one flake rule. One flake no re schedule equals bushes. Also if her excuse doesnt involve an emergency or her being on her period consider it that shes mot into you like that. If youve been seriously dating for a while and she like i got to cancel Im feeling bad its more forgivable because yall already fukking and have a connection and you gonna see her again soon most likely anyway if you been doing shyt right. If it happens often then tbat may be a problem. A mew prospect though should have a way less lenient time with you. Youre the man you should see yourself as a gift to be with. If she acting goofy dont get mad KIM.
 

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I think that Dao de
Ching can be true too. Be still and go with the flow. Its weird the way it can work or not work, but you gotta go with the flow and don't entertain much and switch tracks

My friend and I were gonna hangout then she hmu later saying he's on her period, but still was tryna text me. I just called her and we talked for a few minutes then I said goodnight and didn't respond to the text. I be feeling like that texting ish can be a power struggle and people know that consciously or subconsciously. Its kinda sick and cowardice. Anyway I'll just fallback in the cut and kim.
 

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Rule of thumb, until you in a relationship have a one flake rule. One flake no re schedule equals bushes. Also if her excuse doesnt involve an emergency or her being on her period consider it that shes mot into you like that. If youve been seriously dating for a while and she like i got to cancel Im feeling bad its more forgivable because yall already fukking and have a connection and you gonna see her again soon most likely anyway if you been doing shyt right. If it happens often then tbat may be a problem. A mew prospect though should have a way less lenient time with you. Youre the man you should see yourself as a gift to be with. If she acting goofy dont get mad KIM.

Some of y’all need to face reality it’s a cold world out there
U either adapt or u fail

Any female that don’t show enough interest in u to your liking :camby: her or out at bottom of roster as a hit and quit status

Nobody got time for the damn games
If a female is feeling u enough she will make the time to call, txt, and set up dates too see u often enough
Even if she has a job that has lots of hours sure it might not be tons of the big 3 call, txt, and dates but u will see enough and the effort from her

Cuz I know damn well if another dude catch her eye she would make sure she make that time for u

It’s like that joe song ALL THE THINGS (flip script and make a female version)

She will do all the things another women wouldn’t do just to get that dude locked down that’s a fact


We tell u brehs the things U NEED TO HEAR NOT WHAT U WANT TO HEAR

It’s ultimately ur choice if u choose to listen or not
 

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Some of y’all need to face reality it’s a cold world out there
U either adapt or u fail

Any female that don’t show enough interest in u to your liking :camby: her or out at bottom of roster as a hit and quit status

Nobody got time for the damn games
If a female is feeling u enough she will make the time to call, txt, and set up dates too see u often enough
Even if she has a job that has lots of hours sure it might not be tons of the big 3 call, txt, and dates but u will see enough and the effort from her

Cuz I know damn well if another dude catch her eye she would make sure she make that time for u

It’s like that joe song ALL THE THINGS (flip script and make a female version)

She will do all the things another women wouldn’t do just to get that dude locked down that’s a fact


We tell u brehs the things U NEED TO HEAR NOT WHAT U WANT TO HEAR

It’s ultimately ur choice if u choose to listen or not
You agreeing or disagreeing wit me fam:lupe:
 

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:patrice: she told me, that I'm sleeping on myself and that's all she gotta say. And when I asked her how I'm doing that. She changed the subject

You know, I always hear females say those kind of things about me...."Why you ain't got no girlfriend???" "It's been THAT long? Howwww???,", etc...Never really understood that, I didn't get much play coming up....

But then again, like I've mentioned, I can count on two hands how many women I've approached in any manner....so I suppose I don't know my true potential. It's been my fear of rejection/ridicule that kept me from approaching more....but I think it's high time I got over that shyt....
 
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You know, I always hear females say those kind of things about me...."Why you ain't got no girlfriend???" "It's been THAT long? Howwww???,", etc...Never really understood that, I didn't get much play coming up....

But then again, like I've mentioned, I can count on two hands how many women I've approached in any manner....so I suppose I don't know my true potential. It's been my fear of rejection/ridicule that kept me from approaching more....but I think it's high time I got over that shyt....
:mindblown:
 
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When will you guys understand that women aren’t men. You’re expecting communication that you would get from another man. It isn’t going to happen. Very rarely will a woman tell you exactly, in explicit terms, what she really means. If she does it’s usually because she’s exasperated with you not taking the hints she’s giving you.

Sounds to me that she told you exactly what it was, based on ACTIONS. That was on you for not picking it up fast enough.
lol...nikkas is always blaming men
nah man...we gotta hold women to a higher standard

If it's a common thing something about your energy or approach is probably throwing them off.
lmao again! men blaming men!! :laff:

yall need to stop doing that shyt man. it isnt always the man's fault. How could his energy or approach be off if he said the shorty was interested up UNTIL he showed interest
 
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