Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Straw Hat Luffy]

With how society hates men now. And how every is accused of rape or sexual assault.

Brehs you be worried when hollering at the ladies now?

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Society hates men? Come on breh you sounding like one of those white dudes on reddit. Never be scared to pull up.

 

[twan83]

When it comes to women who live in other cities or other countries. Don’t become invested. Out of sight, out of mind. When they come see you cool. Don’t concern yourself with who or what she’s doing when you’re not there because YOU should be doing your thing regardless.

Don’t allow your attraction to turn you into a fool.

Reminds me of what happen with my ex fiancé in japan when I left japan duty station to get station in Texas

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Reminds me of what happen with my ex fiancé in japan when I left japan duty station to get station in Texas

I remember we chopped it up about that a few months back. I learned the same lesson. It only makes us better. These other dudes need to listen but they most likely won’t lol. It’s how it goes.

 

[twan83]

I remember we chopped it up about that a few months back. I learned the same lesson. It only makes us better. These other dudes need to listen but they most likely won’t lol. It’s how it goes.

Pretty much but they comeback it’s the disrespectful ones that need this thread when it’s just respect and experience giving out here. We may not all agree to stuff but we can respectfully disagree tho

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Pretty much but they comeback it’s the disrespectful ones that need this thread when it’s just respect and experience giving out here. We may not all agree to stuff but we can respectfully disagree tho

Truth. I noticed this thread took a turn about 5 or so pages back and I fell back. Too much nonsense.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Brehs help me

I cant seem to fully escape the friendzone. I aint tricking or nothing but still it’s a dark and manipulative place.

Everytime I cut this broad off, I end up going back. I cant stay angry at people for shyt.

I was to embarrassed to ask for advice on here but it’s like a nikka is institutionalised. Broad got mind control over me like Debo.

I’m too damn hardheaded and stupid man.

@Hennessypapi I know you always got good advice

The god Patrice spoke on this, basically it’s like you are in an ally 2 cars back and nothing you can do to get in front, you too far back,

I was interested in a girl back in the day, she just got out of a relationship, she basically was like I’m not looking for anything but a friend, i thought i could change that, thought she was the goat, so why not push until i get what i want, ( Delta, lightskin, freckles, bi-curious) long story short i played myself taking her out, etc, didn’t change a motherfukking thing, meanwhile, some other nikka was all in her draws,

Dog if you shoot your shot and it don’t work out move on, this ain’t a movie, bytches don’t have an epiphany and see you in a different light, until they fell off, and that’s a maybe, but you ain’t gonna nice your way into a relationship or the p*ssy

You right. I managed to cut her off but the comfort zone was too much. Luckily I got a bag coming in from savings and work so I can improve myself.

I got her a job at my work so Imma have to transfer.

Fr sometimes I feel like I’m shaming my brothers with this shyt but we all gotta learn.

Won’t let me rep but always appreciate your insight and advice.

Don’t you dare transfer fukk her, you work there and you act like the shyt don’t phase you even if it hurts, you combat it by finding and fukking with as many women as you can

It’s my nature man. I’m way too selfless and not even simp shyt, I’m one of those people who will give you the shirt off my back,male or female. I cant eat and watch others around me struggle.

I’m tryna change but it’s hard. I’m starting to understand people will take advantage.

I am too, but everyone doesn’t deserve your niceness and you have to discern that. And you have to take a step back and observe the situation and make sure you get what you give, maybe not dollar for dollar but effort for effort

I watched a decent amount of the Corey Wayne videos on his YouTube...

One point that he stressed was basically don’t text/talk to females too much or they’ll lose interest...

I agree 100% with that...

But here’s where I have a unique situation and don’t know how to handle it..


I have a female I met through a fb group back in September ... We started talking on message, then FaceTime/text all that... We ended up vibing so well that she came out here to CHICAGO (from TEXAS) the third week of November

Everything went great, we vibed just as well in person as we did on the phone...


So now she’s coming back out here in the middle of January ...


My issue is how do I keep someone interested in another state without over doing it on the communication...

She’s the type that’ll text me good morning & have whole random convos through out the day leading into night time then a good night text...

I don’t wanna text too much and fck it up like you can with any other female but then again it’s not like I can just pull up & see her in person whenever so phone calls/snaps/FaceTime is all we can do...

How should I handle this

Like op said enjoy your time with her, but know it could dissolve at a moments notice, don’t over invest emotionally, because it’s gonna hurt if she ghost on you or get a dude, or start acting different.

And don’t worry about how much you communicate with a chick, if you like her, and she mirrors your effort then that’s all that matters, you don’t have to be mysterious or play the game with a chick that’s into you, only thing you have to do is defeating their logic, that usually flys because most dudes are p*ssy hungry so they let shyt ride

When it comes to women who live in other cities or other countries. Don’t become invested. Out of sight, out of mind. When they come see you cool. Don’t concern yourself with who or what she’s doing when you’re not there because YOU should be doing your thing regardless.

Don’t allow your attraction to turn you into a fool.

Gospel.....


Chuuuch.....


Tabernacle......

 

[Cynic]

How Cuz she half naked in bed with I love u in the bed

Huh?

Wrong thread. It was for the random thoughts thread.

 

[Surreal]

doing things like setting her up for job - AT YOUR PLACE - is way out of pocket... now you talking about you have to get transferred... see how you fukked up your shyt and not hers? take care of yourself first, people second.

Answer me this: Is she going to ask for a transfer? I bet a my Coli cash that's a no. that's what i mean when you are wrong. Don't shyt where you eat at. Thats why i never put friends on where I work at - NEVER. I'll help them get a job somehwere else, but not where i work out. too many things can cause the work environment to go south

Sounds like community cooch bout to get her guts beat in by coworkers now after he got her the job. It's not ur cooch; it's just ur turn. Treat these females accordingly. She's a bopper

 

[Malik1time]

Is going to a basket ball game a good 1st date
Someone I know is a big Knicks fan and we always talking bout ball
Anyway she never been to MSG neither had i. What ya think? maybe go to a bar after or get food

 

[Claudex]

Someone is about to get bushed....​

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I just had this convo with the girl I'm seeing yesterday!! She told me she just got off a relationship:
Me: "You ain't trying to get into another relationship right after are you? "
Her: "Oh fukk no! "
Me: "Well I'm glad we're on the same page."
Her: "Seu safado!"
Me: ""

She started asking a lot of questions about my past relationships afterwards though. I kept the answers vague and short, and funny...but ionno. The moment feelings get caught I'm off the train breh.

Also she's asking for a christmas present. I told her she better buy me one first; but she's relentless and it's fukking up the Christmas spirit.

 

[360dagod]

Is going to a basket ball game a good 1st date
Someone I know is a big Knicks fan and we always talking bout ball
Anyway she never been to MSG neither had i. What ya think? maybe go to a bar after or get food

Those tickets are expensive..

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Some of y’all need to become more comfortable with telling a woman no.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Is going to a basket ball game a good 1st date
Someone I know is a big Knicks fan and we always talking bout ball
Anyway she never been to MSG neither had i. What ya think? maybe go to a bar after or get food

shyt why not, gon head take her to the game, but don’t just be taking her and you just fukking around, because that’s an expensive date

 

[Cynic]

I just had this convo with the girl I'm seeing yesterday!! She told me she just got off a relationship:​

Me: "You ain't trying to get into another relationship right after are you? "
Her: "Oh fukk no! "
Me: "Well I'm glad we're on the same page."
Her: "Seu safado!"
Me: ""

She started asking a lot of questions about my past relationships afterwards though. I kept the answers vague and short, and funny...but ionno. The moment feelings get caught I'm off the train breh.

Also she's asking for a christmas present. I told her she better buy me one first; but she's relentless and it's fukking up the Christmas spirit.

She's testing you mano. All women do this and it never ends.


As for presents buy her a gym voucher or a book on how to communicate better. I'm team #HOH through and through .