Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Rell Lauren]

Gotta figure out to break my shell. I get attention from women. The last two days especially, including this morning, I had one purposely stand next to me on the train. Her attempt at flirting/getting my attention wasn't good at all. I personally had a bad experience trying to talk to someone on the train I usually rebuff those. There's one woman I always see on my morning commute because we live around thebcornth from each other. Just don't want to make that awkward as well.

 

[360dagod]

My "friend" who disappeared for a bit can't wait to see a nikka all of a sudden...
Part of me believes after her friend seen me, she told her about my weight loss and she hit me up from there...after her friend was eyeing me and changed views after I caught her..

The train is starting to pull off

The gym and the outdoor track have done more for a nikka than most of my friends...im never abandoning them

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

My "friend" who disappeared for a bit can't wait to see a nikka all of a sudden...
Part of me believes after her friend seen me, she told her about my weight loss and she hit me up from there...after her friend was eyeing me and changed views after I caught her..

The train is starting to pull off

The gym and the outdoor track have done more for a nikka than most of my friends...im never abandoning them

You never should. I’m glad you’re realizing your potential breh! Things will only get better from here. Eventually you’ll have a shorty or two try to get you to taper off because it makes them insecure that you put so much time into this activity that may or may not involve them. DON’T DO IT. Your grind got you this far.

 

[360dagod]

You never should. I’m glad you’re realizing your potential breh! Things will only get better from here. Eventually you’ll have a shorty or two try to get you to taper off because it makes them insecure that you put so much time into this activity that may or may not involve them. DON’T DO IT. Your grind got you this far.

Breh...

I been outta shape for so long man...

I haven't seen the 160s on a scale in probably 7-8 years...

Just gonna cut to 140 and build back up...its been a journey

 

[switchmemorylanes]

My ex (I broke up with her I'm on my purpose)(she mad time consuming , clingy and disrespectful) put on her Instagram that she is a free spirit. No lie that shyt pissed me off.

Forget that girl man. Like you said, you're on your purpose. Don't get distracted. Delete, block, move forward.

 

[Lord Bison]

My ex (I broke up with her I'm on my purpose)(she mad time consuming , clingy and disrespectful) put on her Instagram that she is a free spirit. No lie that shyt pissed me off.

She's a free spirit, but you're a free man. So I think the trade-off works in your favor.

 

[BornStar]

She's a free spirit, but you're a free man. So I think the trade-off works in your favor.

I guess. Like Kodak said

"All I want is money, all she want is me.
She just wanna be loved, she just wanna be please
All I want is money, all she want is me."

She made some sacrifices for me.
When I'm in a comfortable place in my grind I will come back with my hand out.
Whether if she moved on or not.

Me being me if you done something good for me I always remember. Reciprocation will be there.

 

[Lord Bison]

I guess. Like Kodak said

"All I want is money, all she want is me.
She just wanna be loved, she just wanna be please
All I want is money, all she want is me."

She made some sacrifices for me.
When I'm in a comfortable place in my grind I will come back with my hand out.
Whether if she moved on or not.

Me being me if you done something good for me I always remember. Reciprocation will be there.

I feel you but you said earlier that she was being mad disrespectful. It's okay to appreciate the sacrifice and give back but is it worth going back to that same disrespect?

 

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I feel you but you said earlier that she was being mad disrespectful. It's okay to appreciate the sacrifice and give back but is it worth going back to that same disrespect?

Never. It is never acceptable or worth tolerating any kind of disrespect from a woman.

You sound like you got a good set up going excluding this chick. Bush her. If she's interested she'll move on her own time. You have better things to do.

 

[BornStar]

I feel you but you said earlier that she was being mad disrespectful. It's okay to appreciate the sacrifice and give back but is it worth going back to that same disrespect?

Good question. In my mind the sacrifices Trump the disrespectful behavior and mouth. That can be fixed. However those sacrifices wouldn't have been made by other women. Taking me to work everyday when my car was getting inspected. Bringing me good everyday buying from her own pockets. Etc. However there is a lot more to the story.

Never. It is never acceptable or worth tolerating any kind of disrespect from a woman.

You sound like you got a good set up going excluding this chick. Bush her. If she's interested she'll move on her own time. You have better things to do.

Thanks for the good words I will keep that in mind. I am staying on the path.

 

[Lord Bison]

Never. It is never acceptable or worth tolerating any kind of disrespect from a woman.

You sound like you got a good set up going excluding this chick. Bush her. If she's interested she'll move on her own time. You have better things to do.

That's how I feel. At first my ex was great and she held a nikka down at first. I was ready to go all the way with her and let her move into my spot, but around the 6 month mark is when she started to get mad clingy and disrespectful. The disrespect she gave me plus she gave very blatant and clear hints that she was going to cheat made my decision easy to bush her ass regardless of what she did for me in the past. It's like if you walk into your job and start cussing out your manager, do you think you'll still be employed there?

Good question. In my mind the sacrifices Trump the disrespectful behavior and mouth. That can be fixed. However those sacrifices wouldn't have been made by other women. Taking me to work everyday when my car was getting inspected. Bringing me good everyday buying from her own pockets. Etc. However there is a lot more to the story.

Like breh said, never take disrespect from a woman EVER. That idea that you can "fix" a woman's foul mouth is what can help you catch a case later on down the line. You'd be better off investing in someone new that won't give you that kind of lip from jump.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women don't change and on the odd chance they do change they will want a new negro anyways so yeah.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's how I feel. At first my ex was great and she held a nikka down at first. I was ready to go all the way with her and let her move into my spot, but around the 6 month mark is when she started to get mad clingy and disrespectful. The disrespect she gave me plus she gave very blatant and clear hints that she was going to cheat made my decision easy to bush her ass regardless of what she did for me in the past. It's like if you walk into your job and start cussing out your manager, do you think you'll still be employed there?


Like breh said, never take disrespect from a woman EVER. That idea that you can "fix" a woman's foul mouth is what can help you catch a case later on down the line. You'd be better off investing in someone new that won't give you that kind of lip from jump.

yep when a woman disrespects you it's because she has no respect for you and respect and attraction go side by side

I don't even go back and forth when chicks start to disrespect I just nip it in the bud and go on my merry way, go find another simp.

 

[BornStar]

Like breh said, never take disrespect from a woman EVER. That idea that you can "fix" a woman's foul mouth is what can help you catch a case later on down the line. You'd be better off investing in someone new that won't give you that kind of lip from jump.

Yeah This would be a hard task. She is a cute ass mocha chocolate girl that disrespects her own parents. Told her mother to kiss her assand said worse. Never been disciplined before, gets everything she wants, daddys little girl , (she be eating his pockets if she needs to) and she has the queen complex.

yep when a woman disrespects you it's because she has no respect for you and respect and attraction go side by side

I don't even go back and forth when chicks start to disrespect I just nip it in the bud and go on my merry way, go find another simp.

Exactly and that is exactly what I did i checked her and got ghost. Now she is basically chasing me down . I told her to do what she does but the fact of me loving her won't change. I will see how this plays out. After my building stage i might hit the savagery mode.

 

[Lord Bison]

yep when a woman disrespects you it's because she has no respect for you and respect and attraction go side by side

I don't even go back and forth when chicks start to disrespect I just nip it in the bud and go on my merry way, go find another simp.

Same here. I'm amazed at how quick I can walk away from a woman versus me trying to "make it work" in my 20's. My ex had an azz that was a work of art and could fucc like a porn star. Despite all that, there was no way her disrespect was going to fly. What I didn't realize afterwards was the power that a man can receive from walking away from a gorgeous woman with a fat azz. If you can walk away from chicks like that, you become damn near invincible when dealing with BS from chicks in the future.

Yeah This would be a hard task. She is a cute ass mocha chocolate girl that disrespects her own parents. Told her mother to kiss her assand said worse. Never been disciplined before, gets everything she wants, daddys little girl , (she be eating his pockets if she needs to) and she has the queen complex.


Exactly and that is exactly what I did i checked her and got ghost. Now she is basically chasing me down . I told her to do what she does but the fact of me loving her won't change. I will see how this plays out. After my building stage i might hit the savagery mode.

The reason why she's chasing you down is because you gave her that reality check that her parents didn't do. I loved my ex and part of me still does, but I love myself first. As a man your self respect comes before anything. It's on your ex girl to humble herself and the best case scenario is you leaving might start that. But based on how quick chicks can get validation, I doubt that will happen.

Her parents failed her by not putting her in check when needed. It's not up to you to fix what they didn't do. Sadly this woman is broken and will continue to get dogged out by other dudes in the future. Don't be surprised if she ends up in an abusive relationship down the line with some other unlucky cat. Just be glad that dude isn't you.