Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I dont have an angle on this but I wonder. In my judo class theres this girl a year or 2 older than me I think. Always eyeing me. I catch her looking and she turns away. She even surrounds me sometimes. A few times we've spoke and I seem to notice other men get into a way when shes by me. I finally wrestled with her today, I'd avoided it for 2 weeks now. But when i did she kinda just submitted and I snapped into reality and realized I was about to shake this tiny female up so I stopped and gently touched her back, bowed and got up (the buzzard had rang aftet i snapped out of it) as I was leaving noticed her peeping me again. The only catch 22 is shes a blackbelt and ima whitebelt and im new. Not tryna run game in a dojo but I think shes feeling me by how we interact .I think shed be cool to kick it with tho

On another note. I think i got a good schedule in mind. Wake up. Go to the gym. Go to work. Take down time. Like an hour or so. Go to judo or jiu jitsu. Go home. Eat dinner read and sleep. Maybe meditate too .When im moving my spirits are up and when im around good energy

 

[Womb Raider]

Today I saw my ex and my entire day was ruined


got a good grade on my exam but still didn't help my mental

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf can I shoot you a pm breh? I'm really not even sure wtf is going on with me, I could use someone to talk to

 

[MikelArteta]

Today I saw my ex and my entire day was ruined


got a good grade on my exam but still didn't help my mental

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf can I shoot you a pm breh? I'm really not even sure wtf is going on with me, I could use someone to talk to

Yeah breh do it

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

what happened today proves to me these girls not worth a shyt

man I saw her for the first time since this all went down brehs, ignored the fukk outta her. I sit next to her in two classes and I ain't even say a word...she kept trying to talk to me but I just told her I ain't really want to hear it.

Her friends were trying to tell me she is sorry and loves me and all that shyt but I know it's all bird games..I hate all of them

When I was leaving school I was ignoring her, still she got mad started crying and she told me a bunch of insults, how I wasn't gonna be shyt, how I wasn't good at sex (lmao) how she never loved me, how I was trash at basketball (even though I got moved to varsity after one game this year and got a starting spot) and then she told me how she was gonna fukk ol boy from clemson.

Done with it, I wasn't too mad at first but now Im angry as hell. I wanna cuss that dirty bytch out and expose that motherfukker . Next time I see her Ima cuss that dirty hoe dog bytch out

Get outta here with this soft ass shyt man. You need to move on to bigger and better things. Talking about exposing some dude because you lost your chick. Stop it breh. Your turn is over and it’s his now. Big deal. That’s life. Stop being so petty, looking for revenge. Women do that. Men dust themselves off and become better because of the experience.

 

[Solano707]

Today I saw my ex and my entire day was ruined


got a good grade on my exam but still didn't help my mental

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf can I shoot you a pm breh? I'm really not even sure wtf is going on with me, I could use someone to talk to

Snap out of it brehito

 

[Clark Griswold]

what happened today proves to me these girls not worth a shyt

man I saw her for the first time since this all went down brehs, ignored the fukk outta her. I sit next to her in two classes and I ain't even say a word...she kept trying to talk to me but I just told her I ain't really want to hear it.

Her friends were trying to tell me she is sorry and loves me and all that shyt but I know it's all bird games..I hate all of them

When I was leaving school I was ignoring her, still she got mad started crying and she told me a bunch of insults, how I wasn't gonna be shyt, how I wasn't good at sex (lmao) how she never loved me, how I was trash at basketball (even though I got moved to varsity after one game this year and got a starting spot) and then she told me how she was gonna fukk ol boy from clemson.

Done with it, I wasn't too mad at first but now Im angry as hell. I wanna cuss that dirty bytch out and expose that motherfukker . Next time I see her Ima cuss that dirty hoe dog bytch out

I can see why that bytch did what she did...

Honestly tho...

Best thang to do is fukk with some new bytches.

Your rep is done if u go exposing nikkas... don’t become an even bigger bytch ass nikka than you already are breh.

 

[Clark Griswold]

smashed this chick for the first time last night brehs


Asked her to be my girlfriend too


Only thing that sucks is she is already accepted to go to Clemson and I’m going to be staying in Georgia going to GA state and we are both seniors

I connect with her like no one else before brehs, I’m just gonna try to enjoy it now and figure shyt out later

what happened today proves to me these girls not worth a shyt

man I saw her for the first time since this all went down brehs, ignored the fukk outta her. I sit next to her in two classes and I ain't even say a word...she kept trying to talk to me but I just told her I ain't really want to hear it.

Her friends were trying to tell me she is sorry and loves me and all that shyt but I know it's all bird games..I hate all of them

When I was leaving school I was ignoring her, still she got mad started crying and she told me a bunch of insults, how I wasn't gonna be shyt, how I wasn't good at sex (lmao) how she never loved me, how I was trash at basketball (even though I got moved to varsity after one game this year and got a starting spot) and then she told me how she was gonna fukk ol boy from clemson.

Done with it, I wasn't too mad at first but now Im angry as hell. I wanna cuss that dirty bytch out and expose that motherfukker . Next time I see her Ima cuss that dirty hoe dog bytch out

NOT EVEN 2 MONTHS!!!!

 

[Clark Griswold]

I understand what you brehs are saying, but I do think she would be loyal to me because she told me she had a huge crush on me since 10th grade.

She’s in the art club, track team, real high gpa, and a bunch of brehs at my school had crushes on her but she never entertained any of them.

That was also her first time having sex too


She doesn’t come across as a liar to me

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Hit that boy with the receipts. This is tough love breh. We all gotta start somewhere. Pain makes a man.

 

[Primetime]

On second thought - even if she is celibate... why even mess with that? You want sex - she doesn't, so why stick around??????? This makes no sense and you are only wasting your time, looking like a fool and to her - just a another breh on her roster. Why are you bending to her will? If she ain't down to fukk (either the first or day or the 4th week or whatever), why do you keep entertaining this?

I think a lot of "dealing with women" is about knowing what you want first and a lot of dudes either dont know or if they know, they're not keeping real with themselves or with others. Figure out what you want and why you want it. Once you know what you want, choose a girl that wants the same thing. Don't try to convince or convert a girl. Dont try to trick a girl. Don't want a specific girl. Instead you should want a type of girl. If the girl seems to want the same at first and then switches up, distance yourself without anger. If things seem confused, listen to your gut and distance yourself. Give them space to choose you and choose your directions. They don't owe you anything. Not their pussp not their time. If you choose to give them your time or energy, always remember it was your choice just like you can choose to stop giving her time and energy.

It's hard to not play yourself when you barely know what you want and always compromise

Both of these. For my own self, i was briefly talking to this chick who was on her grind; flight attendant, real estate agent, and bartender/bottle girl. Yea she was bad and we vibed, but she was super religious [goes to those 2 hour long services/bible studies 2-3 times a week], was on some reformed 'celibacy til marriage' thing, and we barely had flexibility to hang out bc of her off the rails work schedule (tho she wanted me to come with her to her bible studies as the hang out).

So i just kept it straight up with her and said 1. i'm not nearly as church-going as you are and i couldn't do no 2-3 hour bible studies or masses like that, and 2. i'm just not a no sex til marriage kinda guy. [plus i don't really believe any born again 'celibacy til marriage' types anyway.. esp a bottle girl.. but i didn't mention that].

So that was just an example of a beautiful girl that had too many red flags that went against what i knew i wanted both short and long term, so i didn't really make it linger anymore than it needed to.

 

[drugxglory]

yeah breh, just talk ask her for her number all that...

you never know, she may be getting trying to curve her man - you don't have any clue whats going on in their situation. She may be looking to bail. Regardless, let her give up that informaiton.

Thats what my unc told me
Said if she dont have a ring on her finger she fair game, get at her, its her job to let u know she seeing someone.

 

[Malik1time]

27. I'm 32.

We been friends for about 7 months. On and off. Never had sex, but we kiss alot. She's on her celibate swag and heavy into religion

Breh
My man
Did she at least give you top?

 

[Malik1time]

How do you maintain a relationship?
We been together for 2months and so far everything is fine. Tbh i never really been good in relationships I always just hang out with girls then smash them but this girl is really dope
We see each other 3 times a week ish

 

[Clark Griswold]

Have you told her what you want?

 

[VertigoKnight]

How do you maintain a relationship?
We been together for 2months and so far everything is fine. Tbh i never really been good in relationships I always just hang out with girls then smash them but this girl is really dope
We see each other 3 times a week ish

Well 2 months is not even serious levels yet breh just enjoy learning about her and seeing how she moves. I liken the first 6 months of seeing someone to times that you don't really truly trust each other.

I was in a relationship that was over 10 years long. it takes a lot of compromise, sacrifice and annoyance on both sides. But there are also plenty of good times as well with the right person.

Tbh My old relationship had a very good run and I will always love her and be in her life somewhere, but it was time for us to part as being a couple. Her next man, my gawd is he going to get a barrage

Not my problem though