Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Brehs am i right for this. Chick ive hit once telling me she needs my help. Shes moving i guess. Multiple times ive tried to kick it with her she played me off. So i told her you dont want me to use you so don't use me and told her to beat it .She tried to argue and tell me to delete her number i just didnt respond after that.

My thing is im tired of chicks tryna sway me that way or this way and me selling myself short. Why continue to even live that kinda jaded lifestyle. Lemme go find other chicks instead

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

My girl just told me that we are not having sex any more cause she believes that that is what our relationship is based around and well start having sex again when she feels like it so I tried to explain to her that would not make me happy and that would be like me telling her that I'm gonna have sex with her but not give her any of my time or love and I asked her how that would make her feel and she wouldn't even answer that question. I told her I couldn't be in a relationship where I could not have sex so we broke up. Gotta take this L

 

[MikelArteta]

My girl just told me that we are not having sex any more cause she believes that that is what our relationship is based around and well start having sex again when she feels like it so I tried to explain to her that would not make me happy and that would be like me telling her that I'm gonna have sex with her but not give her any of my time or love and I asked her how that would make her feel and she wouldn't even answer that question. I told her I couldn't be in a relationship where I could not have sex so we broke up. Gotta take this L

had to do what you had to do, good that you left because if you stayed she would have all the power.

 

[Lord Bison]

My girl just told me that we are not having sex any more cause she believes that that is what our relationship is based around and well start having sex again when she feels like it so I tried to explain to her that would not make me happy and that would be like me telling her that I'm gonna have sex with her but not give her any of my time or love and I asked her how that would make her feel and she wouldn't even answer that question. I told her I couldn't be in a relationship where I could not have sex so we broke up. Gotta take this L

She's the one who took the L man. Anytime a woman tries to control the relationship by withholding sex is the moment you terminate the relationship immediately. You did the right thing by breaking up. She's the one who will have to cry to her girlfriends about what Steve Harvey told her to do isn't working.

 

[switchmemorylanes]

One thing being out of a relationship does show you is how petty and false some women can be. I've found it keen observing a few females I know talk about their old guy and their new one.

This is 100% truth. Soak this in brehs, because it shows you what to expect in a relationship.

I got a female friend who is constantly bad mouthing her ex man. When they were together, she was talking like he was her world, how he made her so happy. Fast forward, and she's now saying he never made her happy, blaming him for everything. You can't take it seriously.

The key is to not have your status and self perception influenced by what these girls say. That shouldn't be the foundation of how you value yourself.

Now she got a simp out here, holding her hand and "taking it slow" with her and shyt. Not knowing she went to a club and got smashed by some other breh on the weekend. I actually feel sorry for dude, because he probably thinks she's something she's not. And this is the key, brehitos: we need to have a realistic view of the women we deal with.

No values, nada.

 

[switchmemorylanes]

Feels like im talking in code but im just proud of myself brehs

I know exactly what you mean, because everything you said I've been through it myself. You've changed your mindstate breh - all your other success is coming as a result of this.

Stay on that path

 

[sheedteef]

Glad i stopped being a fukking simp in 2018

Last year i had it bad i was fukking up waayy too early. Then my game was bad. Im talking id go in and tell her i love her when i just met her

Plus i think it was my confidence.
shyt took a big hit when i lost my job
I felt like a bum.
I kept looking up but now i finally see shyt paying off
I got a decent job that pays.
My Friends finding success too

Tbh, i havent fukked in a year
N even though i could def fukk somebody tonight, im just like meh.

Feels like im talking in code but im just proud of myself brehs

That’s awesome man. Keep it going. It’d be nice to have some box(es) to open but putting time into yourself is more important.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

had to do what you had to do, good that you left because if you stayed she would have all the power.

She's the one who took the L man. Anytime a woman tries to control the relationship by withholding sex is the moment you terminate the relationship immediately. You did the right thing by breaking up. She's the one who will have to cry to her girlfriends about what Steve Harvey told her to do isn't working.

It hurts but I had to do what I had to do and I will be happier because I did

 

[MikelArteta]

It hurts but I had to do what I had to do and I will be happier because I did

yup

basically you had to be some simp good dog to get a biscuit from here on out

 

[MikelArteta]

This is 100% truth. Soak this in brehs, because it shows you what to expect in a relationship.

I got a female friend who is constantly bad mouthing her ex man. When they were together, she was talking like he was her world, how he made her so happy. Fast forward, and she's now saying he never made her happy, blaming him for everything. You can't take it seriously.

The key is to not have your status and self perception influenced by what these girls say. That shouldn't be the foundation of how you value yourself.

Now she got a simp out here, holding her hand and "taking it slow" with her and shyt. Not knowing she went to a club and got smashed by some other breh on the weekend. I actually feel sorry for dude, because he probably thinks she's something she's not. And this is the key, brehitos: we need to have a realistic view of the women we deal with.

No values, nada.

yeah its typical of women just like how one day they proclaim there love for you and the next its like you don't exist.

I remember the first time I ever got dumped and I couldn't believe it like how could someone talk to me literally every day for almost 3 years tell me they love me and all that yet after they dump me I don't even exist.

I've never treate a woman bad but I gurantee my name has been slang in the mud, thats why whatever a woman tells youa bout an ex you take it with a grain of salt

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Need to shake this ex funk off of me. My mind aint too clutch on women right now. I got that damn military enlistment date on monday and asvab on Tuesday. I feel like whats gonna psych me out other than that and martial arts. Not even keen to go to the gym today. But i might do that now to uplift me some

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Btw i gotta give props to @BalmainReyes and @TRUEST bc yall really made a nikka feel valuable them last few days. I go back n read yall posts to remind me i am the shyt .Just gotta get my mind right

 

[switchmemorylanes]

yeah its typical of women just like how one day they proclaim there love for you and the next its like you don't exist.

I remember the first time I ever got dumped and I couldn't believe it like how could someone talk to me literally every day for almost 3 years tell me they love me and all that yet after they dump me I don't even exist.

I've never treate a woman bad but I gurantee my name has been slang in the mud, thats why whatever a woman tells youa bout an ex you take it with a grain of salt

I had this once girl who used to tell me how much she cared for me, how she'd always be there for me etc. Like an idiot, I fell for it, because I believed people stay true to their word and have values.



After things went south, she literally told me she doesn't like seeing me happy.

 

[VertigoKnight]

yeah its typical of women just like how one day they proclaim there love for you and the next its like you don't exist.

I remember the first time I ever got dumped and I couldn't believe it like how could someone talk to me literally every day for almost 3 years tell me they love me and all that yet after they dump me I don't even exist.

I've never treate a woman bad but I gurantee my name has been slang in the mud, thats why whatever a woman tells youa bout an ex you take it with a grain of salt

Yep I know my ex was majorly mad with me and was talking to some of our shared friends that real greasy shyt.

She's calmed down a bit, and we talk. But yeah you can't take back what you've put out there in regards to that foolishness. At least she was straight up and said not to expect rationality from her at the moment. Just anger and pain.

Tbh I understand our relationship coming to an end after so long is heartbreaking. But, I think she's been taking the advice of some very mentally damaged women, who've put a battery in her back.

But pointing that out is too much of a headache I don't want atm.



She's a smart woman and will come to her own conclusions in time which I think she is. Some other bitter bytches treat other people's lives as their own private soap opera. And I don't want her mental health going off the cliff for real, as unlike these women I actually care for her well being.

So like the Dark Knight I'll take this shyt for now.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Man im tripping .I got to running. Thinking about my bills. Paying em .Then i started lifting weights. Im like "dog why the fukk am i so quick to leave .Ill make 100k in 5 years as a journeyman as a carpenter" "that nikka still owes me 1400, imma take him to court and hit em for 2k" "theres 30 bytches in here, i could fukk all 30 of em if I WANT TO, AT THE SAME DAMN TIME!! " " i gotta switch my locations up, stop being around these aint shyt bytches, who half the time mad i wont fukk em!"

"Imma move out my apartments maybe get me a house outside the city, cop a new whip, stay down and invest my money"

nikka that clarity all hit me at once I love swinging a hammer too much and judo. "Lemme work my way up to superintendent and then pay my way through school as a civil engineet" im tripping tryna fall off the face the earth bc of a bytch. Lemme get my bars up and flex. Walk out this bytch like im the man wit the plan stay .down face my fears do that 4 year stretch come home and be set and mature!

I had to change my view so i ciuld change my view!

And shawty i met at the gym with the bf tryna flag me walking that ass in front of me. Approached her and threw a karate chop and we started chopping it up. Did some playful flirting then i think she caught my body language bc i was ready to dip and told me "ill see you later!" Then i seen her ass slight checking me out the rest of the night like

fukk THAT BREHS IM GETTING MY BARS UP AND ITS TOS