Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

I've been sick with food poisoning half the week and was supposed to meet a girl on Friday.

A girl and I were planning to hang Saturday instead but she straight ghosted but I only had one date with her so I wasn't as invested. She was a bit awkward in general like too nervous so who knows.

Ghosting after a date or two doesn't hurt me at all. The doc ghosting still fukking burns my ego because I've never been dealt an L like that in online dating. My buddy told me he calls them "one month wonders".

Anyway I went out to some bars and clubs with some friends. One place I meant I knew one of the female bouncers. She trains jiujitsu, I've been on a date with her too but she isn't really my type. Going out made me feel good because there's so many muh'fukkin options out there and frankly I've been riding online dating for so long and not getting out.

So that made me feel good. I just gotta cowboy the fukk up and do my thing. It's April and summer will be here soon.

 

[TRUEST]

good job on this video.
if locario wants to excel at this dating coaching thing, he needs to keep doing what he's doing and always go straight to the point. i was like so, so ready to pause that video if he didnt go straight into the 3 things he mentioned.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

save all that anger for when she comes through.

worst part about this is that she's the type of chick who refuses to say what she wants. She basically wants me to chase after her. She even posted this exact gif with the caption "MOOD" afterwards on her whatsapp yet she busy being childish for no reason.

breh what would you do if you were me? Im starting to think she good for smash-and-bush. her boujie ass attitude is turning me off

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

We all talk that shyt but we all been friendzoned by a chick we liked our entire lives. She just ends up fukking other dudes.

You gotta remember though, you fukked and tossed some chick who friendzoned some other dude.

We just think it happens to us.

 

[Max.]

Months ago.. i met this bad chick from ethiopia...bytch pulled up in a nice ass car...we met at starbucks...


Almost had her....bytch was like a strong 8...i ended up textn her for 2 weeks after...n she tells me theres a good girl out there for me(((bytch)))

 

[Solano707]

Months ago.. i met this bad chick from ethiopia...bytch pulled up in a nice ass car...we met at starbucks...


Almost had her....bytch was like a strong 8...i ended up textn her for 2 weeks after...n she tells me theres a good girl out there for me(((bytch)))

some of yall really need to stop with the texting BS... call her every so often, but don't be on the phone for hours on in... just enought so see how she doing and make plans.... that's right - make plans and follow through.

 

[Max.]

some of yall really need to stop with the texting BS... call her every so often, but don't be on the phone for hours on in... just enought so see how she doing and make plans.... that's right - make plans and follow through.

We talked on the phone (sexy accent)..she joined the app bcuz she was a nurse at a prison...and worked alot...also was a single mom...

My work shifts are 2 swings n 2 nights

 

[TRUEST]

worst part about this is that she's the type of chick who refuses to say what she wants. She basically wants me to chase after her. She even posted this exact gif with the caption "MOOD" afterwards on her whatsapp yet she busy being childish for no reason.

breh what would you do if you were me? Im starting to think she good for smash-and-bush. her boujie ass attitude is turning me off

sounds to me like u really like this one. what i would do if i were u is, i would wait 3 or 4 days. why? cuz im not sure how much damage u did already with the eagerness you showed in expressing regret over not being to get to the phone on time. but it seems u turned her off.

and i get why u may have been pissed. but next time, go jack off. it'll kill whatever desire u have to say the wrong thing to an increasingly obstinate chick like this one.

i'd just wait a few days and hit her up via text about 3 or so hours before she gets off work. and tell her to "let's grab a drink later today - wear those tights i like!" - that sets the tone right there.

chances are she'll say "ooh i cant tonight" - ignore this. and leave her on read. women dont like to be left on read (if they have any level of attraction toward to you). she;ll probably suggest another time. and if it works for you, lol

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

sounds to me like u really like this one. what i would do if i were u is, i would wait 3 or 4 days. why? cuz im not sure how much damage u did already with the eagerness you showed in expressing regret over not being to get to the phone on time. but it seems u turned her off.

and i get why u may have been pissed. but next time, go jack off. it'll kill whatever desire u have to say the wrong thing to an increasingly obstinate chick like this one.

i'd just wait a few days and hit her up via text about 3 or so hours before she gets off work. and tell her to "let's grab a drink later today - wear those tights i like!" - that sets the tone right there.

chances are she'll say "ooh i cant tonight" - ignore this. and leave her on read. women dont like to be left on read (if they have any level of attraction toward to you). she;ll probably suggest another time. and if it works for you, lol

you a real one

 

[Deafheaven]

If a girl tells me shes poly thats gonna be pretty much instant bush status from me. That shyt has no benefit for a man imo.

 

[Deafheaven]

snipl

I went on two dates with this chick I was really feeling recently. two early coffee dates I've never had to seduce in the morning. Anyway it seemed we both dug each others vibe heavily. Shes busy with school and work so thats why I agreed to the morning things. after the second after we kissed and said our goodbyes or w/e I asked her if she was def only free during days. She said no and I said cool lets free up a night and ook for each other. Some shyt I've done dozens of times with success. She says she'd like that. two hours later I get a text saying she doesn't feel sexual chemistry/spark with me and I go okay I'm not about to try to change your mind you know yourself better than I do. If you change your mind hit me up. She said she was really attracted to me but no spark or whatever...I think she was just being nice. Anyway what should have I done here iyo. Did I move too fast on a chick who is busy, not fast enough and should have pushed for sex or escalation faster (I honestly had no idea how to do so with what I was given)? I was pissed about it yesterday but now I'm trying to find answers for such a thing to not happen again because I really enjoyed being around this chick. Effortless convo and I feel I put my conversationalist hat on here moreso than my seducer.

 

[ViShawn]

I went on two dates with this chick I was really feeling recently. two early coffee dates I've never had to seduce in the morning. Anyway it seemed we both dug each others vibe heavily. Shes busy with school and work so thats why I agreed to the morning things. after the second after we kissed and said our goodbyes or w/e I asked her if she was def only free during days. She said no and I said cool lets free up a night and ook for each other. Some shyt I've done dozens of times with success. She says she'd like that. two hours later I get a text saying she doesn't feel sexual chemistry/spark with me and I go okay I'm not about to try to change your mind you know yourself better than I do. If you change your mind hit me up. She said she was really attracted to me but no spark or whatever...I think she was just being nice. Anyway what should have I done here iyo. Did I move too fast on a chick who is busy, not fast enough and should have pushed for sex or escalation faster (I honestly had no idea how to do so with what I was given)? I was pissed about it yesterday but now I'm trying to find answers for such a thing to not happen again because I really enjoyed being around this chick. Effortless convo and I feel I put my conversationalist hat on here moreso than my seducer.

Did you escalate? I almost always go for a kiss when I meet a girl but I will spend a few hours on a date.

Also physical attraction is one element of attraction FYI so she may be physically into you but maybe she felt your confidence was off (I don't think it was) or something.

 

[Deafheaven]

Did you escalate? I almost always go for a kiss when I meet a girl but I will spend a few hours on a date.

Also physical attraction is one element of attraction FYI so she may be physically into you but maybe she felt your confidence was off (I don't think it was) or something.

I always kiss first date if I want to see rhem again so yeah. I was lost on how to escalate with the logistics. Coffee dates, daytime, she had shyt to after them. I aint have shyt to work with imo. Thats why U suggested we do something at night so we csn see if we link that way and she said we didnt without even fukking. I was perplexrd cuz Ive never heard this and even chicks that Ive had wack sex wirh initially wed try again and get it together sooooo IDK hiw one gauges sexual chemistry from not having sex. So I think she was just being nice or weird. IDK what I did. She was on that poly wave too so it probs was a waste regardless tbh.

 

[ViShawn]

I always kiss first date if I want to see rhem again so yeah. I was lost on how to escalate with the logistics. Coffee dates, daytime, she had shyt to after them. I aint have shyt to work with imo. Thats why U suggested we do something at night so we csn see if we link that way and she said we didnt without even fukking. I was perplexrd cuz Ive never heard this and even chicks that Ive had wack sex wirh initially wed try again and get it together sooooo IDK hiw one gauges sexual chemistry from not having sex. So I think she was just being nice or weird. IDK what I did. She was on that poly wave too so it probs was a waste regardless tbh.

You can escalate with touch too in different ways not just a kiss. I just always try to kiss if I can sense any level of sexual attraction.

If logistics don't work in your favor then it happens. You have to create opportunities for those things to happen.

Sometimes with two busy people you struggle between having time to meet and having the right opportunity and sometimes it doesn't always work out for you.

 

[Deafheaven]

You can escalate with touch too in different ways not just a kiss. I just always try to kiss if I can sense any level of sexual attraction.

If logistics don't work in your favor then it happens. You have to create opportunities for those things to happen.

Sometimes with two busy people you struggle between having time to meet and having the right opportunity and sometimes it doesn't always work out for you.

True. Ive been charged it off Im just trying not to have it happen again. I usually get cheeks date one or two now. So I tried to see if slowing down would work better in me finding a actual down chick.