Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

J.E.T.S

Lookahere mayne...
Joined
Nov 30, 2015
Messages
14,101
Reputation
3,698
Daps
57,925
Reppin
Atlanta/Memphis
Breh....don’t EVER try to figure a woman out. I met a CERTAFIED 10 on FB, she was on my nuts, sent me mad pics, we went out, she kisses me. After that, I ain’t see her or hear from her again.


:russ:

Did I say something wrong? Did I not move fast enuff? Is she afraid of love? Did she get back wit her man? Guess what? I just shrugged my shoulders n kept it pushing.
When they don’t text or show interest back....keep it pushing n meet other chicks.

This exact same scenario happened to me. I honestly was disappointed afterwards...
 

Lord Bison

Superstar
Joined
Mar 21, 2017
Messages
3,244
Reputation
1,121
Daps
13,902
Breh....don’t EVER try to figure a woman out. I met a CERTAFIED 10 on FB, she was on my nuts, sent me mad pics, we went out, she kisses me. After that, I ain’t see her or hear from her again.


:russ:

Did I say something wrong? Did I not move fast enuff? Is she afraid of love? Did she get back wit her man? Guess what? I just shrugged my shoulders n kept it pushing.
When they don’t text or show interest back....keep it pushing n meet other chicks.

This exact same scenario happened to me. I honestly was disappointed afterwards...


I've done that many times to chicks too. I used to get hung up on that stuff but once I realize that chicks will ghost you for the smallest reasons, I do the same. Like @Silkk said, sometimes I just be looking for reasons to not give af. Just gotta play it how it go. :manny:
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,094
Reputation
35,135
Daps
809,396
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
Breh....don’t EVER try to figure a woman out. I met a CERTAFIED 10 on FB, she was on my nuts, sent me mad pics, we went out, she kisses me. After that, I ain’t see her or hear from her again.


:russ:

Did I say something wrong? Did I not move fast enuff? Is she afraid of love? Did she get back wit her man? Guess what? I just shrugged my shoulders n kept it pushing.
When they don’t text or show interest back....keep it pushing n meet other chicks.

yep you will go insane trying to figure out a woman,
 

ViShawn

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 26, 2015
Messages
15,555
Reputation
6,315
Daps
52,582
Not to sound like a bytch but I hate empty/casual sex. It actually makes me feel worse off.

I actually banged a girl I met off of Tinder here in Budapest. It was fun for the time being and was interesting to talk to her about sex. But a few days later I'm just thinking about getting ghosted, failed relationships, etc. shyt got me fukked up mentally. I think I will just take a break from actively dating and go with the flow.

On the positive I met this very young receptionist at work. It actually made her day and made my day that we connected on a few topics. I would have taken her out but she was catching a plane to Sweden that day.
 

MikelArteta

Moderator
Staff member
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
265,094
Reputation
35,135
Daps
809,396
Reppin
Goatganda the pearl of Africa
I've done that many times to chicks too. I used to get hung up on that stuff but once I realize that chicks will ghost you for the smallest reasons, I do the same. Like @Silkk said, sometimes I just be looking for reasons to not give af. Just gotta play it how it go. :manny:

This is why unless I'm in a serious relationship I'll continue to diversify my options.
 

Claudex

Lord have mercy!
Supporter
Joined
Apr 30, 2014
Messages
6,415
Reputation
4,222
Daps
19,329
Reppin
Motherland
Not to sound like a bytch but I hate empty/casual sex. It actually makes me feel worse off.

I actually banged a girl I met off of Tinder here in Budapest. It was fun for the time being and was interesting to talk to her about sex. But a few days later I'm just thinking about getting ghosted, failed relationships, etc. shyt got me fukked up mentally. I think I will just take a break from actively dating and go with the flow.

On the positive I met this very young receptionist at work. It actually made her day and made my day that we connected on a few topics. I would have taken her out but she was catching a plane to Sweden that day.

It's not for everybody brother. :francis:
 

Silkk

Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
216,172
Reputation
22,644
Daps
542,883
Not to sound like a bytch but I hate empty/casual sex. It actually makes me feel worse off.

I actually banged a girl I met off of Tinder here in Budapest. It was fun for the time being and was interesting to talk to her about sex. But a few days later I'm just thinking about getting ghosted, failed relationships, etc. shyt got me fukked up mentally. I think I will just take a break from actively dating and go with the flow.

On the positive I met this very young receptionist at work. It actually made her day and made my day that we connected on a few topics. I would have taken her out but she was catching a plane to Sweden that day.
I feel you breh. After I stopped fukking with my chick last March/April I think I didn't have sex for like 3-4 months and that shyt was peaceful AF.

Was eating right
In the gym every day
Looking good
Feeling good

Im fukking with this one blaxican chick now and her shyt is :banderas: but if this don't work out im chilling out for a minute
 

Lootpack

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Jun 26, 2014
Messages
67,682
Reputation
14,760
Daps
223,492
Did I say something wrong? Did I not move fast enuff? Is she afraid of love? Did she get back wit her man? Guess what? I just shrugged my shoulders n kept it pushing.
When they don’t text or show interest back....keep it pushing n meet other chicks.
When it doesn't say you got left on read, but you just KNOW she saw your message on the home screen. :mjcry:
 

The Coochie Assassin

Banned
Supporter
Joined
Feb 15, 2013
Messages
14,549
Reputation
3,324
Daps
79,583
Reppin
RD4L
Breh....don’t EVER try to figure a woman out. I met a CERTAFIED 10 on FB, she was on my nuts, sent me mad pics, we went out, she kisses me. After that, I ain’t see her or hear from her again.


:russ:

Did I say something wrong? Did I not move fast enuff? Is she afraid of love? Did she get back wit her man? Guess what? I just shrugged my shoulders n kept it pushing.
When they don’t text or show interest back....keep it pushing n meet other chicks.
Yeah in this type of situation, it usually has nothing to do with you b. For all you know, she could have died in a car crash and that's why you never heard from her again. Gotta just move on to the next.

Cats also gotta notice when your current chick/relationship is coming to an end. Women usually know before us when it's time to stop relations. Always have something else around the corner if you aren't in a committed relationship or you will find yourself hoeless while your lady friend already got a date with the next dude the day after she cut you off.
 

Lord Bison

Superstar
Joined
Mar 21, 2017
Messages
3,244
Reputation
1,121
Daps
13,902
Yeah in this type of situation, it usually has nothing to do with you b. For all you know, she could have died in a car crash and that's why you never heard from her again. Gotta just move on to the next.

Cats also gotta notice when your current chick/relationship is coming to an end. Women usually know before us when it's time to stop relations. Always have something else around the corner if you aren't in a committed relationship or you will find yourself hoeless while your lady friend already got a date with the next dude the day after she cut you off.


To add to what you just said, if that gut feeling is telling you that it's about to end 99% of the time you're probably right about it. I always advocate to dump her first so you maintain your self respect and your power as a man of walking away with your head held high. A lot of times, she'll come back to hold your head even higher if you know what I mean. :shaq:
 

FLATOP

Superstar
Joined
Jan 29, 2014
Messages
6,350
Reputation
1,971
Daps
38,739
What are you supposed to do in the situation where girl forces you to cum inside her
 

ViShawn

Superstar
Supporter
Joined
Aug 26, 2015
Messages
15,555
Reputation
6,315
Daps
52,582
I know I beat myself up when women leave my life but it's even worse trying to dwell on why.
 
Top